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My fiance and I come from similar cultures, but we don't speak the same language. On top of that, most of our friends and family member don't speak both languages. While I'm not afraid that they will find a way to communicate by themselves, I am concerned about putting together a nice ceremony that would not involve too much repeating or constant translating. Any advice for a bilingual wedding ceremony? – Coline
My future husband's family speaks multiple different languages, but none of them are English. How do I help my husband's family not feel so left... Read more
We've definitely got some advice for crafting a bilingual wedding ceremony that isn't just repeating everything verbatim. We're going to harness the power of the program, the signage, your wedding website, your wedding schedule, and your wedding party to make sure everyone knows what's going on while not getting bored listening to one language the whole time. Let's get to the bilingual wedding ceremony tricks:
Bilingual programs (like these in English and Catalan !) are a great way to give details about what's going on in the ceremony without having to translate everything on the spot. Here are a couple of examples from real offbeat weddings :
Danielle & Gonzalo's bilingual dance party wedding :
My husband is Mexican-American, and so it was important to us to be married by someone who spoke Spanish. Luckily a dear friend, who is bilingual, was willing to get ordained. During the ceremony, we included readings in Spanish and a traditional ritual called The Lasso, which is like a giant rosary that gets wrapped around the couple's shoulders, and symbolizes unity. It was given to us by Gonzalo's aunt, blessed by our friend, and placed on us by our wedding compadres. It was one of the most beautiful moments of the ceremony. My family is Irish and my sisters also read a traditional Irish blessing.
Chantal & Stefan's rocking South African wedding :
We decided on a Christian ceremony, to keep our parents happy (I'm actually pagan, but they don't know it yet). We found the greatest pastor who was perfectly ok with marrying a non-Christian couple – he even suggested a bilingual ceremony (Afrikaans/English), as it would be more discreet (and much shorter) than the traditional Christian ceremony. In the end, it was a beautiful ceremony, and I'm not sorry we didn't go for a handfasting or a plain civil ceremony.
You've snagged your wedding website name, maybe a fun theme, and now you've got to fill it with information. Guests can end up relying pretty... Read more
Your wedding website has essentially unlimited space to explain, digress, and extrapolate all about your traditions, faiths, and rituals that might be going on during your ceremony and reception. You may not have time to be explaining everything in both languages, so offering background information on your wedding website is a life-saver. Read how reader Spaceviking handled this on her wedding website :
This page will be how 80% of my (very Catholic) family will have the “Surprise! I've converted to a different religion!” news broken to them, so it's important. I think I've covered all the serious points and details clearly, addressed concerns respectfully, and peppered in enough humor, so it's not a total srs bns snore-fest that has a completely different tone from the rest of the FAQs. Plus, I'm hoping I really nailed ‘polite but firm.'
Hey DIY-loving fiends: once upon a time, I went on a mad search for a ton of free wedding printables. We've got another giant batch... Read more
Whether you're telling guests where to sit, who's in the wedding party, or where to head next, make your larger-scale signage bilingual. You can explain things in your wedding website, but you can't easily explain where the photo booth or food is without a sign. Prioritize those elements to have both languages.
Finding a bilingual officiant probably won't be the real challenge here, especially if you have a friend or family member become ordained . The trick here is to make sure you're not repeating every line in two languages (unless it's American Sign Language, of course, and can be signed simultaneously!).
Try to find a balance between the language the majority of your guests speak and then adding in translations on the most important parts. Let your program and wedding website fill in the rest of the blanks.
Feel free to pepper your vows with bilingual elements, too, especially if the languages mean something extra for each element of the vows.
If you have someone close to you or in your wedding party who speaks both languages, ask them to help you herd some cats when it's time to move locations or if someone looks a little lost. Having someone keeping an eye on those who aren't understanding whichever language seems to dominating will be helpful.
What if you've been asked to make a wedding speech and you have stage fright, or are getting writer's block, or are having nightmares about... Read more
Since some guests won't understand the readings and speeches, try to keep them relatively short to prevent boredom from setting in. If you'll be having speeches in both languages, try to alternate them so that there isn't a long span of one language dominating the time slot.
For your processional and other key music moments, feel free to use songs that represent both cultures/languages. It should help make your guests feel included in the elements of the ceremony and keep you rocking out to your own favorites.
To help break the ice, you could provide language tip cards to help guests introduce each other. Write out short phrases like “hello, how are you,” “You look lovely,” and “congratulations” phonetically so that they can strike out and give the other language a go and make bonds with their new relations.
Silvia is from Barcelona and will be doing the bulk of her ceremony in Catalan. But what about the guests that don't speak that language? That's where her bilingual wedding programs come in…
Alright bilingual offbeat couples: what tricks do you have for accommodating multiple languages?
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We actually have three languages: husband is Spanish, I’m German, and we have a pretty multi-national guest list meaning that we also need English to communicate with some of our guests who speak neither German nor Spanish. Our invites and RSVP cards were trilinugal and we were actually surprised how easy it was to make that work. We used a triptych kind of layout that left us with six sides to write on, which proved to be plenty of space for all we needed to say. Our wedsite is partially trilingual: all the most important content is in three languages, but we kept some parts in English only, particularly the advice for our out of town guests. As for the ceremony, we’ve already done the paperwork and so were quite free to play with the set-up. We have two friends officiating who between them can cover the three languages. We decided to keep the language-to-language ratio relatively even, so as to make sure those people who only understand one of the languages won’t miss out on too much. For our I do’s, for instance, I will say them in German, husband-to-be will say them in Spanish, and then we have a joint section in English. We’re writing them ourselves. Since this means that they will be only partially understood by our families, we’ll translate them afterwards and put them in the photo albums we’re planning to give to them. And we have a multi-lingual team of guest-wranglers to help us get everyone from A to B. It’s going to be interesting, and I hope it’ll work 🙂
Wow. I like your ideia. I have the same issue. My fiancé is Chinese and I’m Brazilian but the wedding is going to be in California in English. My family only speak Portuguese and his family only speak Mandarim. I was looking for a way to solve this issue then everybody could enjoy the wedding.
So creative i love it!
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Spain, renowned for its exquisite cuisine, iconic tourist destinations, and deep-seated culture, has a rich tapestry of wedding traditions. These customs, rooted in Spain’s vast history of colonization, resonate not only within its borders but also in nations like Mexico, Cuba, Colombia, and Puerto Rico.
Given Spain’s Catholic heritage, many of its wedding traditions are centered around church ceremonies, including wearing a black wedding dress, donning a mantilla, las arras, and the dance of seguidillas manchegas .
Below are 18 memorable Spanish wedding traditions, along with explanations of their symbolism and significance.
In a Spanish wedding reception, the head table is composed of the newlyweds and their parents. It is common practice for guests to approach the head table so they can give the couple a gift that expresses their gratitude for the invitation. These gifts can either be material or monetary, with the latter often placed inside envelopes.
During the time to eat, the newlyweds or a designated person will make the rounds and give each guest a detalle or wedding favor. Common Spanish wedding favors include
As opposed to other Western cultures, speeches are not part of the Spanish wedding traditions. A typical Spanish reception will start with a dinner and then entertainment that lasts all night long.
Seafood is commonly served as the main course in Spanish weddings. Another popular dish is the paella , and couples may choose to prepare other local and regional delicacies. Regardless, guests can expect to eat a five-course meal throughout the night. The cake is typically reminiscent of a flan or a tart and may be full of almonds. Fruits are frequently another dessert option. Guests are usually given sangria and local wines for the beverage.
It is important to note that this is not required for Spanish brides. However, they may choose to wear a black dress to respect the wedding tradition or to simply add a unique touch to their marriage.
4. cutting the groom’s tie.
In some Spanish weddings, the groom’s tie will be taken by his friends. Once they have it, they will cut his tie using scissors, then auction off the pieces to the guests. The money earned from this fun Spanish wedding tradition will be used by the newlyweds to fund the next chapter of their life.
Spanish wedding traditions dictate that the groom must not see the bride until their ceremony starts. One of the bride’s father’s responsibilities is to ensure that the bride is not seen by the groom before the wedding.
The bridal bouquet is usually the responsibility of the padrino or godfather. He will gift it to the bride on her wedding day, typically accompanied by a poem that he wrote or sourced elsewhere. Spanish wedding tradition favors the orange blossom, as its white color represents purity; the flower itself symbolizes happiness and elation for the couple. The flower is also highly fragrant, making it even more appealing to brides.
Whereas couples from other cultures may want to make their reception a no-kids event , it is a Spanish wedding tradition to accommodate children. In fact, your guests might even find it offensive if you explicitly state in the invitation that kids are not invited. Typically, there is a kid’s table filled with activities, toys, and prizes to keep them occupied. Furthermore, some couples even opt to hire entertainers specifically for kids.
The Spanish wedding tradition of las arras or gold coins involves the groom giving the bride 13 coins during the ceremony. In a Catholic wedding, these coins symbolize Jesus and His 12 apostles. Generally, it represents the groom’s promise to provide and care for his wife during their marriage. Moreover, it also signifies the newlyweds’ wish for good fortune and prosperity.
This wedding tradition can be seen in other Hispanic and Latin wedding traditions, such as Colombian, Puerto Rican , and Costa Rican .
After the newlyweds’ luna de miel or honeymoon, they will pay a visit to their local register office to present their marriage certificate. Afterward, they will receive a libro de familia or family book, in which the birth of their children will be recorded. Furthermore, this document also acts as a legal certification for the couple’s marriage.
11. naming conventions.
Whereas other couples may choose to change surnames or hyphenate after marriage, it is a Spanish wedding tradition for couples to keep their own surnames. The structure of any Spanish name is ( First name ) ( Paternal surname ) ( Maternal surname ). For example, Alma Solaun Espinosa and Miguel Perez Rodríguez, upon marriage, will retain their names.
However, their children will take both of their paternal surnames. In this case, their children’s names would be Patricia Perez Solaun and José Perez Solaun. There are several other naming conventions, but this is the general rule.
Similar to other Hispanic and Latin cultures, Spanish weddings usually do not have bridesmaids and groomsmen. Instead, they have padrinos , whose roles are to guide the couple, give them advice, and act as legal witnesses to the marriage. They also escort the couple during the processional. These padrinos are typically the father of the bride and the mother of the groom, though the couple may also choose other close relatives or friends who have known them for a long time.
In a Spanish wedding reception, the padrinos and parents of the newlyweds are honored by setting the head table to have six seats. They will be occupied by the couple and their parents. If the couple already has children prior to entering a marriage, their kids will also sit with them at the head table.
Besides the money garnered from tie-cutting and garter-cutting, newlyweds are also given 15 days of paid “honeymoon leave.” This is also known as “marriage leave” and is prescribed by Spanish law. Couples work with their manager and employer to ensure that they will not get a heavy workload once they return from their leave.
The seguidillas manchegas is a Spanish traditional wedding dance similar to el baile del billete of Cuban weddings . To dance with the bride, guests have to pay the bride some amount of money. Sometimes, they may also bid on the garter she is wearing — similar to the groom’s tie mentioned above, the garter will also be cut into pieces. The money gained from these wedding traditions will be used by the newlyweds to create their new home.
While Spanish weddings can begin anytime in the morning or afternoon, Spanish receptions last beyond midnight. Like other Hispanic and Latin cultures , Spanish receptions are filled with entertainment, music, and dancing.
In the recessional, as the newlyweds leave the venue, guests will line up outside and throw grains of dried rice or rose petals. As they throw, firecrackers and fireworks may go off in the background. Not only is this an exciting way to start the festivities for the reception, but this is also symbolic of their well-wishes for the couple. Specifically, the rice and rose petals represent good fortune and fertility.
The bride usually distributes small pins to the unmarried women in her guest list. They then wear this pin upside down for the duration of the ceremony and reception. The Spanish believe that if they lose this pin anytime during the reception, they will be the next person to get married.
The question, “ Does the wedding band go on top or under the engagement ring? ” is frequently asked by couples worldwide. Spanish couples are spared this confusion, as it is a wedding tradition for the wedding ring to be worn on the ring finger of the right hand. Meanwhile, the engagement ring is worn on the left hand’s ring finger. Stacking rings is not a common practice in Spain.
Spain’s wedding customs beautifully showcase its rich history and vibrant culture, each telling a tale of the country’s deep-rooted values and faith. From the striking choice of a black wedding dress to the festive dance of seguidillas manchegas, these traditions epitomize the significance of family and festivity in Spanish life.
Furthermore, the presence of these traditions in different corners of the globe highlights Spain’s lasting cultural legacy. For those who immerse themselves in these customs, whether actively participating or merely observing, they present a distinctive and memorable insight into the essence of Spanish festivities.
Marisa Jenkins is a wedding planner and event coordinator. Her main goal for WeddingFrontier.com is to simplify the wedding planning process by sharing her years of expertise in the industry.
While you and your spouse likely speak the same language, your guests may not. Here’s how to plan a bilingual wedding
By Monica Mercuri
Marriage is about bringing people together to celebrate—and sometimes, those people speak different languages. If you’re planning a bilingual wedding, there are a few extra steps you’ll want to take to make sure things go off without a hitch.
A bilingual wedding ensures that guests from different backgrounds can understand and take part in your wedding in a meaningful way. A language barrier can make guests feel left out and hinder their ability to participate. While planning a bilingual wedding may seem daunting (weddings can be stressful enough as-is), it’s not as overwhelming as it sounds.
Much of your wedding planning journey will be the same. But there are a few areas of your planning that you’ll want to focus on specifically for a bilingual wedding. Here are some things to consider.
First things first: if you’re using a wedding planner, find one that has planned bilingual events before. Bonus points if they speak both of your native languages.
A wedding planner with bilingual experience will understand the importance of representing and honoring both cultures, and help you navigate any pain points. They may also recommend vendors that are bilingual, too. While not a necessity, having a photographer that speaks both languages is a plus, as they will make organizing photo lineups that much easier.
After you’ve done the fun part of choosing your wedding invitations , it’s time to decide what you’re going to say on them. While we recommend you read our handy how to word wedding invitations guide, if you’re having a bilingual wedding, there are some extra things to consider.
It’s a good idea to include both languages on your wedding invitation for all guests. If you have the budget to do so, you can order separate paper suites—one in each language. But having a single bilingual invite is most efficient. If your wedding guests speak English and Spanish, for example, have the English information on one side and the Spanish on the other. Not only will it help ensure all guests understand key details, but it’s also fun for everyone to experience another language, too. They may even learn a few new words in time for your wedding!
Even if you send out physical wedding invites, every couple needs a wedding website that provides guests with all the important logistical information, your wedding registry, the story of how you met (if that’s your style) and RSVP links. There’s no word count online. This means you can customize your site with must-have information in multiple languages.
You can also use your site to educate guests on your respective backgrounds. Tell family and friends a bit about your heritage and what traditions they can expect at your wedding. Is there a certain dress code they should know about? What about etiquette? This is the time to let them know it all.
If guests are traveling from other countries for your big day, you can use your wedding website to fill them in on things they should know, too. This may include cultural practices, what to pack, and contact info and logistical details for when they arrive.
From ceremony programs to dinner menus, make sure you incorporate both languages whenever information is being shared at your ceremony and reception. This even includes venue signage like where bathrooms are located.
Because of the nature of weddings—people, excitement, chaos—it’s best to have a single paper product that’s bilingual. That way, if someone loses their program, or their menu suddenly vanishes, they can simply read their neighbors. You might also want to use signage to label foods with names in both languages.
If you choose to do your ceremony in one language, consider hiring an interpreter. Not only will an interpreter help people feel less left out if they don’t understand the language, but it will also allow everyone to follow along at the same pace. You can also sprinkle in well-known phrases from a second language, too (think ‘You may now kiss the bride’), or incorporate traditional songs.
You might also consider the mixed-language ceremony route. If you and your partner understand each other’s native languages (or at least a few words in it) you can say your vows in both languages. You might want to share readings in both languages, as well. If time does not permit, provide reading translations in your ceremony program so guests can follow along.
Between food, decor, venue, and music, there’s no shortage of ways to bring your backgrounds together. Take your favourite parts of each other’s wedding traditions and bring them to life. This will help each other’s families feel welcomed, and also offer guests a chance to learn about another culture.
When it comes to wedding speeches , try to include both languages if possible. If the maid of honor only speaks your native language, for example, make sure someone from your wedding party who speaks the other language offers up words, too. Again, you can use an interpreter during speeches, but it’s best to keep them short and sweet. You don’t want to bore guests or drag speeches on. If you are including speeches in both languages, try to alternate between them to keep guests engaged.
Even if guests can’t understand every aspect of your wedding at all times, the important thing is that they feel included and welcomed. By making an effort to have a bilingual wedding, you’re showing how much you value you and your spouse’s families—and that message transcends language barriers.
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My brother and soon-to-be Sister-in-law are getting married soon and they asked me to give a speech. My family is majority Caucasian, English speaking. My Sister-in-law is First-Generation Mexican-American, and while a lot of her family is bilingual, some only speak Spanish. My first instinct when they asked me was to give half the speech in English and half in Spanish, out of respect to her family. But I worry that it could be seen as disrespectful somehow? I’m not fluent in Spanish, but I have been working on it and practicing. My Sister-in-law said it would be nice, but what if she is just saying that and doesn’t want to shoot me down? She’s wonderful and I love her so much, I don’t want to disrespect her or her family in any way. I only want her family to see how much we all adore her.
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Most people would agree that public speaking isn't easy, and this is especially true when you're feeling the added pressure that comes along with giving a speech at a loved one's wedding. Not only do you have the attention of dozens (if not hundreds!) of guests you probably don't know, but you're also trying to appeal to a group of people in a wide range of ages from all different phases of the couple's lives. What's more, you want your speech to delight the couple of the hour and be as appealing to your group of friends as it to the newlyweds' grandparents. All in all, it's a tough task.
Before you panic, know that we're here to help. Ahead, we're sharing a comprehensive guide on what you should include in your speech , how to nail your delivery, and questions to consider to get the brainstorming process started—all from noteworthy speakers, well-established speechwriters, and wedding planners (who have seen it all).
Every great wedding speech has one thing in common: the right flow. Factor in these guidelines to help you find your own organic rhythm.
Don't lead with a joke or a reference to how nervous you are. "The goal is to engage your audience, not make it a boring one-way message," says award-winning motivational speaker Jaime Pfeffer . "You'll lose them if you do this."
After your opener, introduce yourself, says Fallon Carter , a wedding planner, even designer, and professional speaker. "A lot of times, people don't know who is speaking, and they don't know their relationship to the bride or the groom," she says. "It's really important to identify yourself, so make sure you've prepared something."
As speaker and life strategy coach Mark Black, CSP , points out, focusing on yourself only enhances nerves. "Instead, concentrate on your audience and how you want them to feel. This will help you to speak from the heart, allowing your speech to do what it's supposed to do: Make the couple feel special while also engaging the audience."
Seasoned speaker Susan Bender Phelps, CEO of Odyssey Mentoring & Leadership , says her top guideline is to select one to three aspects of the newlyweds that you love and appreciate, along with no more than three short stories to illustrate each of these points (or that one point). "The simple, succinct story or stories where the bride and groom are the hero will work best." This is an excellent way to structure your speech and keep your message focused.
The ideal length for a speech is three to five minutes, with five minutes being the absolute maximum you should speak for. That's it. "I’ve never been to a wedding where anyone said, 'That was a great wedding, but the best man speech was just too short and that ruined it,'" says David Litt , the speechwriter for former President Barack Obama and author of Thanks, Obama .
Carter agrees: "I always say anywhere between two and five minutes—and no more than five minutes," she says. "You want to keep things short and sweet." It's just as important to keep in mind when the speech will take place when determining length, since toasts are often timed with meal courses: "Be mindful of how long a course generally takes or how long it takes people to eat," Carter adds, noting that most courses last between 15 and 20 minutes and that several speeches have to fit inside each window. "If there are other people speaking, you want to be mindful and give them space."
Now that you've established the right framework for your words, take note of these essential tips for acing the delivery from a few speaking pros.
The better prepared you are, the more confident you'll be and the better your speech will be, says author and professional speaker Barry Maher . A good rule of thumb is to practice the speech enough that you can remember the points you want to make and the order in which you want to make them. That way, you can look out to the crowd and make eye contact every so often.
Use your phone to take a video of yourself practicing, suggests Kate Kenfield , speaker and sex educator. "It can be a little uncomfortable to watch yourself, but you'll be able to identify distracting mannerisms, such as the verbal pauses 'um,' 'uh,' and 'like'." It's also a good idea to practice your speech in front of someone else. "A second opinion can help you craft your piece and make it that much stronger," she says.
Don't forget body language! Rehearse the speech in front of a mirror and notice things like your facial expression, eye contact, and hand position.
Although it may be tempting to look for some liquid courage, alcohol definitely won't do you any favors, warns keynote speaker Amy Morin , author of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do . "It may cause you to slur your speech and forget your lines, so wait until after your toast to celebrate," she advises. If you need a drink to loosen up the nerves or can't refrain from participating in a toast without being rude, stick to one glass of Champagne before you address the crowd.
A little nervousness can actually liven up your speech. "I get worried if I'm not a little nervous," says Maher. "I'll actually try to make myself a little tense to get my energy level up." The key is to harness that energy and communicate it in a positive, genuine way; tensing up to the point that you forget your words or panic won't make for a great presentation.
Keep in mind that you're not putting on a show, only sharing your personal perspective. Trying too hard to force the funny can yield the opposite of the desired effect, cautions Matt Dalley, co-founder of Simply Eloped . "I've noticed that keeping it short and sweet, heartfelt and warm, and coming across as authentic and focused on the couple is something we are all capable of and generates some very wonderful moments," he says.
It's a wedding toast, not a roast. While this should go without saying, keep the bachelor or bachelorette party jokes out of it, and remember that grandma and possibly a few colleagues are in the audience, notes Laurie Battaglia , a keynote speaker and workplace strategist. "It's okay to look back at childhood and refer to something funny, but ask yourself if you'd like 200-plus of your closest friends knowing that story about you."
Reading your speech straight from a piece of paper is a big no-no. However, having a couple of note cards handy is encouraged. "You're likely to be nervous, excited, and exhausted, which can make you forget your lines," explains Morin. "The audience won't care if you glance at your notes. In fact, there's a good chance they won't even notice."
Need some inspiration? Ask yourself these questions to get the brainstorming process going.
So, what does it look like when all these elements come together? Wedding vow and speechwriter Katelyn Peterson , owner and creator of Wedding Words , offered us three examples of successful toasts to inspire your own.
"Hi, I’m Maya, the bride’s older sister . With Lucy being three years younger, we fell right into our respective roles as sister-rivals growing up. We constantly fought over stolen clothes, monopolizing the phone back when landlines were a thing, and what boy band to blare from the car speakers. I’m still Team Backstreet Boys while Lucy is forever indebted to NSYNC.
Looking back on those memories, I should have stepped up and granted Lucy permission to wear my favorite sweater for picture day, to hand her the phone once in a while, and to let her play, 'Bye Bye Bye.' Even I can admit that’s a good one. But despite Lucy being the younger sister, she has always been more patient, more accommodating, and more thoughtful than me. And that’s because when it comes to the people she loves, she’s all in.
She’s the one to prioritize their desires. She’s the one to compromise first. And, she’s the one to support their dreams as if they were her own.
This is why it makes me so happy to know that Lucy has found a home in David. He matches her in compassion, thoughtfulness, and warmth. And I know he’ll spend his life prioritizing her desires, being ready to compromise, and supporting her dreams as his own.
Cheers to Lucy and David! May you always feel loved because you always put each other first."
"Hello, everyone. My name is Luke and I’m the best man . I met Robert eight years ago when I became his neighbor. His reputation preceded him as I had heard about the 'Block Party King' before my closing papers were inked.
Rob has never been the guy to wear fancy clothes. In fact, I’m still in shock seeing him in that tux tonight. And he’s never been the guy to show off even though the work he’s put into his vintage Mustang could make Henry Ford himself envious.
But when it comes to cooking, he should receive an award. His pulled pork is a staple at our summer block parties and his homemade barbeque sauce has remained our neighborhood’s best-kept secret. But the most satisfying part about his delicious dishes is that there’s always plenty to go around. And Rob makes sure your plate is never empty. I have no idea how he pulls it off, but Rob has a covert ability to scoop seconds onto your plate without you ever seeing him do it. I hope you all came hungry tonight, folks. You’ve been warned!
The first time I met Jasmine I could immediately tell she was an amazing person. She laughed at his jokes which I never thought anyone would get. She supported his career and the nonstop travel involved. But most importantly, whenever we’re all hanging out, Jasmine is the one always topping off Rob’s plate with more pasta, more chicken, more of everything. When she’s around, it’s never empty.
And that’s when I saw what a perfect match they were for each other. I know they will always put each other first, make sure their needs are met, and will never allow the other to go hungry.
So let’s raise our glasses to toast the newlyweds! As you begin this next chapter together, may your plates and your hearts always remain full."
"Good evening, family, and friends. I’m Daniel Lee, the father of the bride. I’d like to welcome you to this special occasion where we get to celebrate the love between my daughter Allison and her new wife, Kristin.
Standing up here today, I’m reminded of all the moments that led to this significant one. The dance recitals that ended with standing ovations and the soccer games that concluded with winning scoreboards.
But, while those were fun and rewarding times, those aren’t the moments I cherish most with Allison. The memories that make me smile the brightest are those in-between the big stuff moments. It’s the makeshift magic shows in our living room using a bedsheet that Allison confiscated from our linen closet to convert into a curtain. It’s the countless tea parties she hosted with exclusive invitations just for me and her beloved stuffed bear, Buttons. And it’s the way she’d beg to stay up for just five more minutes but was asleep on the couch by minute number two.
Those everyday, blink-and-you’ll-miss-them moments with Allison are the ones that gave color to my life and filled my heart with a happiness I never knew could exist.
So, my beautiful daughter, as you begin your life with Kristin today, I have one wish for you: May your warmest memories come from the ordinary moments throughout your marriage, and may those moments give you a reason to smile brighter every day. Cheers! I love you both." —Daniel
Your job when delivering a wedding speech is to keep things light—tell an anecdote, make an emotional connection, then wish the couple well before you close out. Anything that doesn't feel definitively positive should be avoided. "I would advocate against bringing up negative details, specifically past relationships or past spouses," says Carter. "Skip anything that you wouldn't want to be physically recorded and played over and over again—this is a rule of thumb."
Keep it light, delicate, and present- and future-focused, Carter adds. "If you're going to go into the past, make those stories really intentional," she says. "Bring those stories back to who they are now. Your mission is to create a great environment and vibe and to potentially give some information about one of the newlyweds, so that it's enlightening for all guests."
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!Hola! I'm going to make a wedding speech for the groom next week in Spain. I will give the speech in English, but I'd like to end it with the Spanish quote (bride is Spanish). Any suggestion on the one sentence wedding toast in Spanish?
Thanks in advance :)
P.S. I've asked reddit for help, but I only got the inappropriate ones (some quite funny though)
The best sentence you can use is ¡Vivan los novios! It is short, easy and very, very usual in a wedding, so everybody will understand it even if your pronunciation is not so good. You cannot go wrong with that.
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English - spanish bilingual wedding ceremony script with written vows.
This wedding ceremony script leaves the couples vows section empty, so that it can be filled in with personalized vows written by each partner. It includes a short passage from Corinthians 13 (Corintios 13), making this a perfect choice for a slightly religious or Christian wedding ceremony. This script leaves the vows as a surprise for the couple and officiant. Una ceremonia de boda cristiana. Este guión deja los votos como una sorpresa para la pareja y el oficiante.
Officiant to reception
We are gathered here on this beautiful day to witness the union of [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B] in holy matrimony.
Todos los aquí presentes, recuerden que este es un día de gran celebración, porque una vida matrimonial – una vida compartida – es una gran bendición.
Above section in English: Everyone here present, remember that this is a day of great celebration, because a married life - a shared life - is a great blessing.
As [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B] embark on this journey together they will be able to nurture a love that makes them better versions of themselves. Marriage is a garden we sow with love, and harvest in personal growth.
A medida que caminan juntos por este camino, el amor que comparten les dará la fuerza para probar cosas nuevas, para aceptar las alegrías y los desafíos como oportunidades de aprendizaje, y confiar el uno en el otro para recibir apoyo y cuidado constantes, mientras trabajan juntos hacia objetivos comunes.
Above section in English: As they walk this path together, the love they share will give them the strength to try new things, to embrace joys and challenges as learning opportunities, and to trust each other for constant support and nurturing, as they work together toward common goals.
[PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B], on your journey together, keep your spouse in the space of highest priority in your heart. The love that you share must be guarded and cherished forever, for it is your most valuable treasure.
Always remember these words: Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. Love never fails.
El amor es paciente y amable. El amor no es celoso ni jactancioso ni orgulloso ni grosero. No exige que se hagan las cosas a su manera. No es irritable, y no guarda registro de las veces que lo han agraviado. No se regocija de la injusticia, sino que se regocija cuando la verdad triunfa. El amor nunca se da por vencido, nunca pierde la fe, siempre guarda esperanza, y resiste en todas las circunstancias. El amor nunca falla.
OFFICIANT TO THE COUPLE
You have chosen to write your vows, and it is with these words you express your binding promises to love, honor, and cherish one another. If you are ready to make these promises to each other I invite you now to face each other and declare your intentions.
Cuando estén listos para compartir los votos que escribieron, pueden comenzar.
Above section in English: When you're ready to share the vows that you’ve written to each other, you may begin.
Gracias, thank you for sharing your vows with all of us.
The rings you are about to place on each other's fingers are symbols of the love you expressed. They will remind you of the vows you have just spoken, and of the eternal love that you have for one another.
Estos anillos simbolizan su profundo amor y los votos inquebrantables que han compartido. Cada vez que los miren, dejen que les recuerde la belleza de este día.
Above section in English: These rings symbolize your deep love and the unbreakable vows you have shared. Every time you look at them, let it remind you of the beauty of this day.
OFFICIANT TO PARTNER A
[PARTNER A], place the ring on [PARTNER B]'s finger and repeat after me.
As this ring encircles your finger…From this moment forward...So will my love forever encircle you...You will never walk alone...My heart will be your shelter...My arms will be your home...We will walk thru life as partners & best friends...I promise to do my best to love, cherish and accept you...Just the way you are...I give you my heart until the end of time...I have no greater gift to give. I promise to love and cherish you always, and my greatest love and companion.
If you would prefer to say these vows in Spanish: Así como este anillo rodea tu dedo… a partir de este momento… de igual forma mi amor te rodeará para siempre… Nunca caminarás en soledad… Mi corazón será tu refugio… Mis brazos serán tu hogar… Caminaremos por la vida como pareja y mejores amigos… Prometo hacer todo lo posible para amarte, apreciarte y aceptarte… tal como eres… Te doy mi corazón hasta el final de los tiempos… No tengo mayor regalo para dar. Prometo amarte y cuidarte siempre, mi mayor amor y acompañante.
OFFICIANT TO PARTNER B
Now,[PARTNER B] , place the ring on [PARTNER A]'s finger and repeat after me.
If you would prefer to say these vows in Spanish: Así como este anillo rodea tu dedo… a partir de este momento… de igual forma mi amor te rodeará para siempre… Nunca caminarás en soledad… Mi corazón será tu refugio… Mis brazos serán tu hogar… Caminaremos por la vida como pareja y mejores amigos… Prometo hacer todo lo posible para amarte, apreciarte y aceptarte… tal como eres… Te doy mi corazón hasta el final de los tiempos… No tengo mayor regalo para dar. Prometo amarte y cuidarte siempre, mi mayor amor y acompañante.
By the power given to me by the American Marriage Ministries and by the State of [WEDDING STATE], I now pronounce you Husband and Wife (or legally married partners). ¡Ahora están casados! You may kiss each other. ¡Beso! ¡Beso!
OFFICIANT TO THE RECEPTION
Ladies and Gentlemen, it is my honor to present for the first time, Mr. and Mrs. [COUPLE'S MARRIED NAME]!
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!Hola! I'm going to make a wedding speech for the groom next week in Spain. I will give the speech in English, but I'd like to end it with the Spanish quote (bride is Spanish). Any suggestion on the one sentence wedding toast in Spanish? Thanks in advance :) P.S. I've asked reddit for help, but I only got the inappropriate ones (some quite ...
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