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Spanish Wedding Ceremony Script

When it comes to wedding ceremonies, traditions and customs vary greatly from culture to culture. Spanish weddings, in particular, have a rich history and are known for their beautiful and meaningful ceremonies. One important aspect of any wedding ceremony is the script, which outlines the sequence of events, vows, and rituals that take place. In this article, we will explore the significance of the wedding ceremony script in Spanish weddings and delve into some of the traditional elements as well as modern twists that can be incorporated. So, let’s dive in!

Importance of the Wedding Ceremony Script in Spanish Weddings

The wedding ceremony script holds immense significance in Spanish weddings, as it serves as a guide for the couple, the officiant, and the guests. It ensures that the ceremony flows smoothly and follows the cultural and religious customs that are important to the couple. The script also helps create a cohesive and meaningful experience for all involved.

Traditional Elements of a Spanish Wedding Ceremony

Exchange of vows.

One of the most cherished moments in a Spanish wedding ceremony is the exchange of vows. The couple takes turns expressing their love, commitment, and promises to each other. This is often a heartfelt and emotional part of the ceremony, where the couple shares their hopes and dreams for their future together.

Exchange of Rings

Following the vows, the couple exchanges rings as a symbol of their love and unity. Rings are traditionally worn on the fourth finger of the left hand, as it is believed to be directly connected to the heart. This exchange symbolizes the couple’s commitment and signifies the start of their new journey as husband and wife.

Unity Rituals

Spanish wedding ceremonies often incorporate various unity rituals that symbolize the joining of two individuals and their families. These rituals can include:

Arras Ceremony

The Arras ceremony involves the groom presenting the bride with thirteen coins, known as arras. These coins symbolize the couple’s commitment to support and provide for one another. The bride accepts the coins, demonstrating her trust in the groom to be a loving and responsible husband.

Lazo Ceremony

The Lazo ceremony involves the couple being draped with a decorative rope, known as a lazo, in the shape of a figure-eight. This symbolizes their everlasting bond and unity. The lazo is usually placed by the couple’s parents or padrinos, who play a significant role in the ceremony.

Candle Ceremony

The Candle ceremony involves the couple lighting unity candles from a larger candle, representing their individual lives coming together as one. This ritual symbolizes the merging of their families and the creation of a new family unit.

Blessings and Prayers

Blessings and prayers are commonly included in Spanish wedding ceremonies to seek divine guidance and support for the couple’s union. These can be led by the officiant, family members, or even close friends. They provide a spiritual and sacred dimension to the ceremony, bringing blessings upon the newlyweds.

Modern and Personalized Twists to the Spanish Wedding Ceremony Script

While traditional elements form the foundation of a Spanish wedding ceremony, many couples today are opting to add their own personal touches to make their ceremony unique and reflective of their relationship. Here are some ideas to personalize the script:

Writing Personalized Vows

Instead of reciting traditional vows, couples can choose to write their own personalized vows that express their individual love, values, and promises. This adds a heartfelt and deeply personal touch to the ceremony, allowing the couple to share their unique journey and aspirations.

Incorporating Cultural Traditions

Spanish weddings are rich in cultural traditions, and couples can choose to incorporate these traditions into their ceremony script. Whether it’s through music, dance, or traditional attire, embracing these customs adds an authentic and meaningful element to the celebration.

Including Readings or Poems

Adding readings or poems that resonate with the couple can further enhance the emotional and sentimental aspects of the ceremony. This allows loved ones to have a role in the celebration and share their blessings and well wishes through meaningful words.

Adding Symbolic Gestures

Symbolic gestures such as the exchange of gifts, planting a tree together, or even a sand ceremony can be incorporated into the script to represent the couple’s individuality and create lasting memories. These gestures serve as visual representations of their commitments and aspirations.

Sample Spanish Wedding Ceremony Script

Below is a sample Spanish wedding ceremony script that combines traditional elements with personalized touches:

– Introduction and Welcome – Reading or Poem – Exchange of Vows – Exchange of Rings – Unity Ritual (e.g., Arras Ceremony) – Blessings and Prayers – Pronouncement of Marriage – Presentation of the Couple

Tips for Creating a Personalized Spanish Wedding Ceremony Script

To create a personalized Spanish wedding ceremony script, consider the following tips:

Communicating with the Officiant

Have open and honest conversations with the wedding officiant to clearly communicate your preferences and expectations for the ceremony. This will help them tailor the script to your desires.

Discussing Expectations and Preferences

Talk with your partner about what elements of the ceremony are important to both of you. Discuss any cultural or religious traditions you wish to incorporate, as well as any personal touches you want to include.

Researching Spanish Wedding Traditions

Take the time to research Spanish wedding traditions and customs to gain a deeper understanding of their significance. This will help you make informed decisions about which traditions to include and how to personalize them.

Customizing the Script to Reflect Personal Values and Beliefs

Infuse your ceremony script with your personal values and beliefs. This could include highlighting the importance of family, love, or your shared passions. Ultimately, make the script a reflection of your unique relationship.

In a Spanish wedding, the ceremony script plays a vital role in guiding the proceedings and creating a memorable experience for the couple and their loved ones. By incorporating traditional elements, adding personalized touches, and infusing the script with your own values, you can create a Spanish wedding ceremony that is both culturally significant and deeply meaningful. Remember, this is your special day, and the ceremony script allows you to truly express your love and commitment.

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How to Talk About Your Wedding in Spanish: A Vocabulary Guide

I’m so excited to talk to you today about your wedding in Spanish. Who doesn’t like chatting and gossiping about this exciting ceremony?

Even if you’re not planning to get married soon in a Spanish-speaking country, learning these words and expressions will boost your Spanish vocabulary.

I’ve prepared a long list of words, useful sentences, and idiomatic expressions that are useful to talk about any wedding in Spanish. If you think that I missed something, please let me know in the comments.

Without further ado, let’s get started.

Your Wedding in Spanish: Vocabulary and Expressions

I’ve chosen for you some useful vocabulary that you may need whether you’re getting married in a Spanish-speaking country, going to attend one, or simply reading about it in a wedding magazine or a romantic novel.

Preparation Time

manicure
make-up
paperwork
hairdresser
dress fitting
bride
groom
husband
wife
husband
wife
pastor
master / mistress of ceremonies
priest
father
priest
reverend
guest
maid of honor
best man
godmother
couple
in-laws
engaged
betrothes
friancé
fiancée
father-in-law
mother-in-law
brother-in-law
sister-in-law
son-in-law
daughter-in-law
maid of honor
ring-bearer
flower-girl
newlyweds
wedding planner
photographer

Actions at Your Wedding in Spanish

to marry someone
to send invitations
to read a speech
to organize the wedding
to kiss the bride
to exchange vows
to ask for the bride’s hand
to sign the marriage certificate

Wedding Concepts in Spanish

wedding
marriage
engagement
Religious wedding
proposal
proposal
Civil wedding
ceremony
banquet
speeches
honeymoon
vow
Wedding ceremony
Bridal,  nuptial
Photo session

Objects at Your Wedding in Spanish

ring
Wedding ring
Groom’s suit
veil
Wedding gifts
Wedding ring
(Spain)cake
(Lat. Am.)cake
invitation
tuxedo
Engagement ring
gift list
rice
envelope with money

Wedding Venues in Spanish

church
Civil registry
beach
garden
Wedding hall
Bridal store

Phrases for Your Wedding in Spanish

¿Quieres casarte conmigo? Will you marry me?

¿Te gustaría ser mi esposa? Would you like to be my wife?

Te invitamos a nuestra boda el 1 de septiembre en la Catedral de Guadalajara. We invite you to our wedding on September 1st in the Cathedral of Guadalajara.

Será una ceremonia muy íntima, con pocos invitados. It will be a very intimate ceremony, with few guests.

La ceremonia tendrá lugar en la playa. The ceremony will take place on the beach.

El banquete será en el Restaurante “El Evento.” The banquet will be at El Evento Restaurant.

¡Qué hermosa se ve la novia! How beautiful the bride looks!

El novio se ve algo nervioso. The groom looks a little nervous.

Los declaro marido y mujer. I now pronounce you husband and wife.

Puede besar a la novia. You may kiss the bride.

¡Vivan los novios! Long live the bride and the groom!

And here are the traditional Wedding vows for religious ceremonies:

Yo (nombre), te recibo a ti (nombre) para ser mi esposa/esposo, para tenerte y protegerte de hoy en adelante, para bien y para mal, en la riqueza y en la pobreza, en salud y en enfermedad, para amarte y cuidarte hasta que la muerte nos separe. I (name) take thee (name), to be my wife/husband, to have and protect you from this day forward, for better and for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and cherish, till death do us part.

Idiomatic Expressions About Your Wedding in Spanish

Last but not least, I want to share with you some colloquial idiomatic expressions that are related to the topic. They are not all politically correct but it’s always good to know what they mean, and not to offend anybody.

1. Quedarse para vestir santos.

Literally, it means “to be left to dress saints.” This expression means to remain single, too long.

Si no te vuelves más social, te vas a quedar para vestir santos. If you don’t become more social, you’ll remain single.

2. Pasarse el arroz.

If you say about somebody: se le pasó el arroz , it does not mean that they overcooked the meal but it means they got to the moment when having kids might be challenging.

Ya los dos tienen más de cincuenta años, creo que se les pasó el arroz. They are both over fifty, I think they are past the prime.

3. Boda lluviosa, novia dichosa.

It simply means that if you get married on a rainy day, it will bring good luck to the bride.

4. Ser una solterona / ser un solterón

To be a spinster or to be a soletrón. It has a negative connotation. 

Es una solterona por decisión propia. She is a spinster by choice.

Practice Time

Do you feel like talking about your wedding in Spanish with somebody else? Whether you just want to chat about this exciting topic or you want to practice your newly acquired vocabulary and expressions, it’s always a good idea.

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Spanish for a Wedding – Vocabulary and Phrases

Are you attending the wedding of a Spanish-speaking friend ?

In this post, we will give you the basic words and phrases related to a wedding, including things you can say (or hear) during the ceremony , or read on the invitations , etc. We will start with the phrases, and then provide vocabulary lists.

Enjoy and become an expert in speaking Spanish at weddings! 🙂

Phrases before the wedding

Phrases during the ceremony, vocabulary – people, things and places.

¿Quieres casarte conmigo? Will you marry me? Te invitamos a nuestra boda el próximo 10 de mayo. We invite you to our wedding next May 10th La ceremonia tendrá lugar en la Iglesia de Santa María. The ceremony will take place at St. Mary’s Church. Será una boda con pocos invitados en un ambiente íntimo. It will be a wedding with few guests in an intimate atmosphere. El banquete será en el Restaurante Los Naranjos. The banquet will be at Restaurant Los Naranjos.
¡Qué guapa está la novia! El vestido es precioso. The bride is looking so pretty! The dress is wonderful. Yo os declaro marido y mujer. I now pronounce you husband and wife. Puedes besar a la novia. You may kiss the bride. ¡Vivan los novios! Long live the bride and groom!
la bride
el groom
los newlyweds
el
el
husband
la
la
wife
el master of ceremonies
el
el
priest
los guests
el best man
la bridesmaid
la maid of honor
los pageboys
el hairdresser
el photographer

Things and Places

el ring
el wedding dress
el wedding suit
los wedding gifts
la wedding cake
la invitation
el rice
la church
el civil registry
el wedding hall
la wedding dress store
to propose
to marry
to organize the wedding
to send the invitations
to read a speech
to kiss the bride
to exchange vows
sign the marriage certificate

Other Concepts

la wedding
la civil wedding
la religious wedding
la ceremony
el banquet
el speech
la photo shoot
el marriage
la honeymoon
el honeymoon (trip)

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¡Felicitaciones! Crafting a bilingual wedding ceremony without repeating everything

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My fiance and I come from similar cultures, but we don't speak the same language. On top of that, most of our friends and family member don't speak both languages. While I'm not afraid that they will find a way to communicate by themselves, I am concerned about putting together a nice ceremony that would not involve too much repeating or constant translating. Any advice for a bilingual wedding ceremony? – Coline

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We've definitely got some advice for crafting a bilingual wedding ceremony that isn't just repeating everything verbatim. We're going to harness the power of the program, the signage, your wedding website, your wedding schedule, and your wedding party to make sure everyone knows what's going on while not getting bored listening to one language the whole time. Let's get to the bilingual wedding ceremony tricks:

Include both languages in the program

Bilingual programs (like these in English and Catalan !) are a great way to give details about what's going on in the ceremony without having to translate everything on the spot. Here are a couple of examples from real offbeat weddings :

Danielle & Gonzalo's bilingual dance party wedding :

My husband is Mexican-American, and so it was important to us to be married by someone who spoke Spanish. Luckily a dear friend, who is bilingual, was willing to get ordained. During the ceremony, we included readings in Spanish and a traditional ritual called The Lasso, which is like a giant rosary that gets wrapped around the couple's shoulders, and symbolizes unity. It was given to us by Gonzalo's aunt, blessed by our friend, and placed on us by our wedding compadres. It was one of the most beautiful moments of the ceremony. My family is Irish and my sisters also read a traditional Irish blessing.

Chantal & Stefan's rocking South African wedding :

We decided on a Christian ceremony, to keep our parents happy (I'm actually pagan, but they don't know it yet). We found the greatest pastor who was perfectly ok with marrying a non-Christian couple – he even suggested a bilingual ceremony (Afrikaans/English), as it would be more discreet (and much shorter) than the traditional Christian ceremony. In the end, it was a beautiful ceremony, and I'm not sorry we didn't go for a handfasting or a plain civil ceremony.

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Use your wedding website judiciously

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Your wedding website has essentially unlimited space to explain, digress, and extrapolate all about your traditions, faiths, and rituals that might be going on during your ceremony and reception. You may not have time to be explaining everything in both languages, so offering background information on your wedding website is a life-saver. Read how reader Spaceviking handled this on her wedding website :

This page will be how 80% of my (very Catholic) family will have the “Surprise! I've converted to a different religion!” news broken to them, so it's important. I think I've covered all the serious points and details clearly, addressed concerns respectfully, and peppered in enough humor, so it's not a total srs bns snore-fest that has a completely different tone from the rest of the FAQs. Plus, I'm hoping I really nailed ‘polite but firm.'

Make your signage bilingual

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Whether you're telling guests where to sit, who's in the wedding party, or where to head next, make your larger-scale signage bilingual. You can explain things in your wedding website, but you can't easily explain where the photo booth or food is without a sign. Prioritize those elements to have both languages.

Find a bilingual officiant

Finding a bilingual officiant probably won't be the real challenge here, especially if you have a friend or family member become ordained . The trick here is to make sure you're not repeating every line in two languages (unless it's American Sign Language, of course, and can be signed simultaneously!).

Try to find a balance between the language the majority of your guests speak and then adding in translations on the most important parts. Let your program and wedding website fill in the rest of the blanks.

Feel free to pepper your vows with bilingual elements, too, especially if the languages mean something extra for each element of the vows.

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Nominate a bilingual wedding party member to help guests

If you have someone close to you or in your wedding party who speaks both languages, ask them to help you herd some cats when it's time to move locations or if someone looks a little lost. Having someone keeping an eye on those who aren't understanding whichever language seems to dominating will be helpful.

Keep readings and speeches short

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Since some guests won't understand the readings and speeches, try to keep them relatively short to prevent boredom from setting in. If you'll be having speeches in both languages, try to alternate them so that there isn't a long span of one language dominating the time slot.

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Use songs from both languages

For your processional and other key music moments, feel free to use songs that represent both cultures/languages. It should help make your guests feel included in the elements of the ceremony and keep you rocking out to your own favorites.

Provide language tips at reception tables

To help break the ice, you could provide language tip cards to help guests introduce each other. Write out short phrases like “hello, how are you,” “You look lovely,” and “congratulations” phonetically so that they can strike out and give the other language a go and make bonds with their new relations.

These bilingual wedding programs are awesome in both English AND Catalan

Silvia is from Barcelona and will be doing the bulk of her ceremony in Catalan. But what about the guests that don't speak that language? That's where her bilingual wedding programs come in…

Alright bilingual offbeat couples: what tricks do you have for accommodating multiple languages?

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Comments on ¡Felicitaciones! Crafting a bilingual wedding ceremony without repeating everything

We actually have three languages: husband is Spanish, I’m German, and we have a pretty multi-national guest list meaning that we also need English to communicate with some of our guests who speak neither German nor Spanish. Our invites and RSVP cards were trilinugal and we were actually surprised how easy it was to make that work. We used a triptych kind of layout that left us with six sides to write on, which proved to be plenty of space for all we needed to say. Our wedsite is partially trilingual: all the most important content is in three languages, but we kept some parts in English only, particularly the advice for our out of town guests. As for the ceremony, we’ve already done the paperwork and so were quite free to play with the set-up. We have two friends officiating who between them can cover the three languages. We decided to keep the language-to-language ratio relatively even, so as to make sure those people who only understand one of the languages won’t miss out on too much. For our I do’s, for instance, I will say them in German, husband-to-be will say them in Spanish, and then we have a joint section in English. We’re writing them ourselves. Since this means that they will be only partially understood by our families, we’ll translate them afterwards and put them in the photo albums we’re planning to give to them. And we have a multi-lingual team of guest-wranglers to help us get everyone from A to B. It’s going to be interesting, and I hope it’ll work 🙂

Wow. I like your ideia. I have the same issue. My fiancé is Chinese and I’m Brazilian but the wedding is going to be in California in English. My family only speak Portuguese and his family only speak Mandarim. I was looking for a way to solve this issue then everybody could enjoy the wedding.

So creative i love it!

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18 Spanish Wedding Traditions for Your Special Day

  • by Marisa Jenkins
  • May 26, 2024
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Spain, renowned for its exquisite cuisine, iconic tourist destinations, and deep-seated culture, has a rich tapestry of wedding traditions. These customs, rooted in Spain’s vast history of colonization, resonate not only within its borders but also in nations like Mexico, Cuba, Colombia, and Puerto Rico.

Given Spain’s Catholic heritage, many of its wedding traditions are centered around church ceremonies, including wearing a black wedding dress, donning a mantilla, las arras, and the dance of seguidillas manchegas .

Below are 18 memorable Spanish wedding traditions, along with explanations of their symbolism and significance.

Captivating Spanish Wedding Traditions

spanish family

1. Banquete de Bodas/Convite (Wedding Feast/Reception)

In a Spanish wedding reception, the head table is composed of the newlyweds and their parents. It is common practice for guests to approach the head table so they can give the couple a gift that expresses their gratitude for the invitation. These gifts can either be material or monetary, with the latter often placed inside envelopes.

During the time to eat, the newlyweds or a designated person will make the rounds and give each guest a detalle or wedding favor. Common Spanish wedding favors include

  • Bottles of wine
  • Spanish fans
  • Ribbons with the couple’s names and wedding dates written ( capias )

As opposed to other Western cultures, speeches are not part of the Spanish wedding traditions. A typical Spanish reception will start with a dinner and then entertainment that lasts all night long.

Seafood is commonly served as the main course in Spanish weddings. Another popular dish is the paella , and couples may choose to prepare other local and regional delicacies. Regardless, guests can expect to eat a five-course meal throughout the night. The cake is typically reminiscent of a flan or a tart and may be full of almonds. Fruits are frequently another dessert option. Guests are usually given sangria and local wines for the beverage.

2. Black Wedding Dress

It is important to note that this is not required for Spanish brides. However, they may choose to wear a black dress to respect the wedding tradition or to simply add a unique touch to their marriage.

3. Cake-Slicing

4. cutting the groom’s tie.

In some Spanish weddings, the groom’s tie will be taken by his friends. Once they have it, they will cut his tie using scissors, then auction off the pieces to the guests. The money earned from this fun Spanish wedding tradition will be used by the newlyweds to fund the next chapter of their life.

5. First Look

Spanish wedding traditions dictate that the groom must not see the bride until their ceremony starts. One of the bride’s father’s responsibilities is to ensure that the bride is not seen by the groom before the wedding.

6. Flowers Galore

flower close up

The bridal bouquet is usually the responsibility of the padrino or godfather. He will gift it to the bride on her wedding day, typically accompanied by a poem that he wrote or sourced elsewhere. Spanish wedding tradition favors the orange blossom, as its white color represents purity; the flower itself symbolizes happiness and elation for the couple. The flower is also highly fragrant, making it even more appealing to brides.

7. Kids Are Welcome

Whereas couples from other cultures may want to make their reception a no-kids event , it is a Spanish wedding tradition to accommodate children. In fact, your guests might even find it offensive if you explicitly state in the invitation that kids are not invited. Typically, there is a kid’s table filled with activities, toys, and prizes to keep them occupied. Furthermore, some couples even opt to hire entertainers specifically for kids.

8. Las Arras (Gold Coins)

The Spanish wedding tradition of las arras or gold coins involves the groom giving the bride 13 coins during the ceremony. In a Catholic wedding, these coins symbolize Jesus and His 12 apostles. Generally, it represents the groom’s promise to provide and care for his wife during their marriage. Moreover, it also signifies the newlyweds’ wish for good fortune and prosperity.

This wedding tradition can be seen in other Hispanic and Latin wedding traditions, such as Colombian,   Puerto Rican , and Costa Rican .

9. Libro de Familia (Family Book)

After the newlyweds’ luna de miel or honeymoon, they will pay a visit to their local register office to present their marriage certificate. Afterward, they will receive a libro de familia or family book, in which the birth of their children will be recorded. Furthermore, this document also acts as a legal certification for the couple’s marriage.

10. Mantilla (Veil)

11. naming conventions.

Whereas other couples may choose to change surnames or hyphenate after marriage, it is a Spanish wedding tradition for couples to keep their own surnames. The structure of any Spanish name is ( First name ) ( Paternal surname ) ( Maternal surname ). For example, Alma Solaun Espinosa and Miguel Perez Rodríguez, upon marriage, will retain their names.

However, their children will take both of their paternal surnames. In this case, their children’s names would be Patricia Perez Solaun and José Perez Solaun. There are several other naming conventions, but this is the general rule.

12. Padrino System

Similar to other Hispanic and Latin cultures, Spanish weddings usually do not have bridesmaids and groomsmen. Instead, they have padrinos , whose roles are to guide the couple, give them advice, and act as legal witnesses to the marriage. They also escort the couple during the processional. These padrinos are typically the father of the bride and the mother of the groom, though the couple may also choose other close relatives or friends who have known them for a long time.

In a Spanish wedding reception, the padrinos and parents of the newlyweds are honored by setting the head table to have six seats. They will be occupied by the couple and their parents. If the couple already has children prior to entering a marriage, their kids will also sit with them at the head table.

13. Paid Honeymoon

honeymoon couple

Besides the money garnered from tie-cutting and garter-cutting, newlyweds are also given 15 days of paid “honeymoon leave.” This is also known as “marriage leave” and is prescribed by Spanish law. Couples work with their manager and employer to ensure that they will not get a heavy workload once they return from their leave.

14. Seguidillas Manchegas

The seguidillas manchegas is a Spanish traditional wedding dance similar to el baile del billete of Cuban weddings . To dance with the bride, guests have to pay the bride some amount of money. Sometimes, they may also bid on the garter she is wearing — similar to the groom’s tie mentioned above, the garter will also be cut into pieces. The money gained from these wedding traditions will be used by the newlyweds to create their new home.

15. Start Early, End Early (or Very Late)

While Spanish weddings can begin anytime in the morning or afternoon, Spanish receptions last beyond midnight. Like other Hispanic and Latin cultures , Spanish receptions are filled with entertainment, music, and dancing.

16. Throwing Rice or Rose Petals

throwing rice wedding

In the recessional, as the newlyweds leave the venue, guests will line up outside and throw grains of dried rice or rose petals. As they throw, firecrackers and fireworks may go off in the background. Not only is this an exciting way to start the festivities for the reception, but this is also symbolic of their well-wishes for the couple. Specifically, the rice and rose petals represent good fortune and fertility.

17. Upside Down Pins

The bride usually distributes small pins to the unmarried women in her guest list. They then wear this pin upside down for the duration of the ceremony and reception. The Spanish believe that if they lose this pin anytime during the reception, they will be the next person to get married.

18. Wedding Band and Engagement Ring

The question, “ Does the wedding band go on top or under the engagement ring? ” is frequently asked by couples worldwide. Spanish couples are spared this confusion, as it is a wedding tradition for the wedding ring to be worn on the ring finger of the right hand. Meanwhile, the engagement ring is worn on the left hand’s ring finger. Stacking rings is not a common practice in Spain.

Final Thoughts

Spain’s wedding customs beautifully showcase its rich history and vibrant culture, each telling a tale of the country’s deep-rooted values and faith. From the striking choice of a black wedding dress to the festive dance of seguidillas manchegas, these traditions epitomize the significance of family and festivity in Spanish life.

Furthermore, the presence of these traditions in different corners of the globe highlights Spain’s lasting cultural legacy. For those who immerse themselves in these customs, whether actively participating or merely observing, they present a distinctive and memorable insight into the essence of Spanish festivities.

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How to Plan a Bilingual Wedding

While you and your spouse likely speak the same language, your guests may not. Here’s how to plan a bilingual wedding

By Monica Mercuri

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Marriage is about bringing people together to celebrate—and sometimes, those people speak different languages. If you’re planning a bilingual wedding, there are a few extra steps you’ll want to take to make sure things go off without a hitch.

A bilingual wedding ensures that guests from different backgrounds can understand and take part in your wedding in a meaningful way. A language barrier can make guests feel left out and hinder their ability to participate. While planning a bilingual wedding may seem daunting (weddings can be stressful enough as-is), it’s not as overwhelming as it sounds.

Much of your wedding planning journey will be the same. But there are a few areas of your planning that you’ll want to focus on specifically for a bilingual wedding. Here are some things to consider.

Hire a wedding planner that understands bilingual weddings.

First things first: if you’re using a wedding planner, find one that has planned bilingual events before. Bonus points if they speak both of your native languages.

A wedding planner with bilingual experience will understand the importance of representing and honoring both cultures, and help you navigate any pain points. They may also recommend vendors that are bilingual, too. While not a necessity, having a photographer that speaks both languages is a plus, as they will make organizing photo lineups that much easier.

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Create invitations in both languages.

After you’ve done the fun part of choosing your wedding invitations , it’s time to decide what you’re going to say on them. While we recommend you read our handy how to word wedding invitations guide, if you’re having a bilingual wedding, there are some extra things to consider.

It’s a good idea to include both languages on your wedding invitation for all guests. If you have the budget to do so, you can order separate paper suites—one in each language. But having a single bilingual invite is most efficient. If your wedding guests speak English and Spanish, for example, have the English information on one side and the Spanish on the other. Not only will it help ensure all guests understand key details, but it’s also fun for everyone to experience another language, too. They may even learn a few new words in time for your wedding!

Use your wedding website to educate guests.

Even if you send out physical wedding invites, every couple needs a wedding website that provides guests with all the important logistical information, your wedding registry, the story of how you met (if that’s your style) and RSVP links. There’s no word count online. This means you can customize your site with must-have information in multiple languages.

You can also use your site to educate guests on your respective backgrounds. Tell family and friends a bit about your heritage and what traditions they can expect at your wedding. Is there a certain dress code they should know about? What about etiquette? This is the time to let them know it all.

If guests are traveling from other countries for your big day, you can use your wedding website to fill them in on things they should know, too. This may include cultural practices, what to pack, and contact info and logistical details for when they arrive.

Use bilingual signage.

From ceremony programs to dinner menus, make sure you incorporate both languages whenever information is being shared at your ceremony and reception. This even includes venue signage like where bathrooms are located.

Because of the nature of weddings—people, excitement, chaos—it’s best to have a single paper product that’s bilingual. That way, if someone loses their program, or their menu suddenly vanishes, they can simply read their neighbors. You might also want to use signage to label foods with names in both languages.

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An interpreter can come in handy.

If you choose to do your ceremony in one language, consider hiring an interpreter. Not only will an interpreter help people feel less left out if they don’t understand the language, but it will also allow everyone to follow along at the same pace. You can also sprinkle in well-known phrases from a second language, too (think ‘You may now kiss the bride’), or incorporate traditional songs.

You might also consider the mixed-language ceremony route. If you and your partner understand each other’s native languages (or at least a few words in it) you can say your vows in both languages. You might want to share readings in both languages, as well. If time does not permit, provide reading translations in your ceremony program so guests can follow along.

Fuse your cultures throughout the wedding.

Between food, decor, venue, and music, there’s no shortage of ways to bring your backgrounds together. Take your favourite parts of each other’s wedding traditions and bring them to life. This will help each other’s families feel welcomed, and also offer guests a chance to learn about another culture.

When it comes to wedding speeches , try to include both languages if possible. If the maid of honor only speaks your native language, for example, make sure someone from your wedding party who speaks the other language offers up words, too. Again, you can use an interpreter during speeches, but it’s best to keep them short and sweet. You don’t want to bore guests or drag speeches on. If you are including speeches in both languages, try to alternate between them to keep guests engaged.

Even if guests can’t understand every aspect of your wedding at all times, the important thing is that they feel included and welcomed. By making an effort to have a bilingual wedding, you’re showing how much you value you and your spouse’s families—and that message transcends language barriers.

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Most people would agree that public speaking isn't easy, and this is especially true when you're feeling the added pressure that comes along with giving a speech at a loved one's wedding. Not only do you have the attention of dozens (if not hundreds!) of guests you probably don't know, but you're also trying to appeal to a group of people in a wide range of ages from all different phases of the couple's lives. What's more, you want your speech to delight the couple of the hour and be as appealing to your group of friends as it to the newlyweds' grandparents. All in all, it's a tough task.

Before you panic, know that we're here to help. Ahead, we're sharing a comprehensive guide on what you should include in your speech , how to nail your delivery, and questions to consider to get the brainstorming process started—all from noteworthy speakers, well-established speechwriters, and wedding planners (who have seen it all).

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Every great wedding speech has one thing in common: the right flow. Factor in these guidelines to help you find your own organic rhythm.

Open With a Statement or Question

Don't lead with a joke or a reference to how nervous you are. "The goal is to engage your audience, not make it a boring one-way message," says award-winning motivational speaker Jaime Pfeffer . "You'll lose them if you do this."

Introduce Yourself

After your opener, introduce yourself, says Fallon Carter , a wedding planner, even designer, and professional speaker. "A lot of times, people don't know who is speaking, and they don't know their relationship to the bride or the groom," she says. "It's really important to identify yourself, so make sure you've prepared something."

Address Your Audience

As speaker and life strategy coach Mark Black, CSP , points out, focusing on yourself only enhances nerves. "Instead, concentrate on your audience and how you want them to feel. This will help you to speak from the heart, allowing your speech to do what it's supposed to do: Make the couple feel special while also engaging the audience."

Focus on a Few Points

Seasoned speaker Susan Bender Phelps, CEO of Odyssey Mentoring & Leadership , says her top guideline is to select one to three aspects of the newlyweds that you love and appreciate, along with no more than three short stories to illustrate each of these points (or that one point). "The simple, succinct story or stories where the bride and groom are the hero will work best." This is an excellent way to structure your speech and keep your message focused.

How Long Wedding Speeches Should Be

The ideal length for a speech is three to five minutes, with five minutes being the absolute maximum you should speak for. That's it. "I’ve never been to a wedding where anyone said, 'That was a great wedding, but the best man speech was just too short and that  ruined  it,'" says David Litt , the speechwriter for former President Barack Obama and author of Thanks, Obama .

Carter agrees: "I always say anywhere between two and five minutes—and no more than five minutes," she says. "You want to keep things short and sweet." It's just as important to keep in mind when the speech will take place when determining length, since toasts are often timed with meal courses: "Be mindful of how long a course generally takes or how long it takes people to eat," Carter adds, noting that most courses last between 15 and 20 minutes and that several speeches have to fit inside each window. "If there are other people speaking, you want to be mindful and give them space."

Wedding Speech Tips

Now that you've established the right framework for your words, take note of these essential tips for acing the delivery from a few speaking pros.

Rehearse Regularly

The better prepared you are, the more confident you'll be and the better your speech will be, says author and professional speaker Barry Maher . A good rule of thumb is to practice the speech enough that you can remember the points you want to make and the order in which you want to make them. That way, you can look out to the crowd and make eye contact every so often.

Record Yourself Practicing

Use your phone to take a video of yourself practicing, suggests Kate Kenfield , speaker and sex educator. "It can be a little uncomfortable to watch yourself, but you'll be able to identify distracting mannerisms, such as the verbal pauses 'um,' 'uh,' and 'like'." It's also a good idea to practice your speech in front of someone else. "A second opinion can help you craft your piece and make it that much stronger," she says.

Don't forget body language! Rehearse the speech in front of a mirror and notice things like your facial expression, eye contact, and hand position.

Avoid Alcohol

Although it may be tempting to look for some liquid courage, alcohol definitely won't do you any favors, warns keynote speaker Amy Morin , author of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do . "It may cause you to slur your speech and forget your lines, so wait until after your toast to celebrate," she advises. If you need a drink to loosen up the nerves or can't refrain from participating in a toast without being rude, stick to one glass of Champagne before you address the crowd.

Use Nerves to Your Advantage

A little nervousness can actually liven up your speech. "I get worried if I'm not a little nervous," says Maher. "I'll actually try to make myself a little tense to get my energy level up." The key is to harness that energy and communicate it in a positive, genuine way; tensing up to the point that you forget your words or panic won't make for a great presentation.

Be Yourself

Keep in mind that you're not putting on a show, only sharing your personal perspective. Trying too hard to force the funny can yield the opposite of the desired effect, cautions Matt Dalley, co-founder of Simply Eloped . "I've noticed that keeping it short and sweet, heartfelt and warm, and coming across as authentic and focused on the couple is something we are all capable of and generates some very wonderful moments," he says.

Never Embarrass the Newlyweds

It's a wedding toast, not a roast. While this should go without saying, keep the bachelor or bachelorette party jokes out of it, and remember that grandma and possibly a few colleagues are in the audience, notes Laurie Battaglia , a keynote speaker and workplace strategist. "It's okay to look back at childhood and refer to something funny, but ask yourself if you'd like 200-plus of your closest friends knowing that story about you."

Use Your Notes

Reading your speech straight from a piece of paper is a big no-no. However, having a couple of note cards handy is encouraged. "You're likely to be nervous, excited, and exhausted, which can make you forget your lines," explains Morin. "The audience won't care if you glance at your notes. In fact, there's a good chance they won't even notice."

Wedding Speech Brainstorm Ideas

Need some inspiration? Ask yourself these questions to get the brainstorming process going.

  • Who will speak before you? After you? How will this affect the content of your toast? (Perhaps you want to include a reference to their speech, thank them for an introduction, or introduce the next speaker).
  • Is there someone you should thank for making the event possible and inviting you to speak?
  • What would you want to hear in this speech if you were in the audience?
  • Is there a favorite story or memory that the couple would want you to share with their friends and family?

Wedding Speech Examples to Make Your Own

So, what does it look like when all these elements come together? Wedding vow and speechwriter Katelyn Peterson , owner and creator of Wedding Words , offered us three examples of successful toasts to inspire your own.

Maid of Honor Wedding Speech Example

"Hi, I’m Maya, the bride’s older sister . With Lucy being three years younger, we fell right into our respective roles as sister-rivals growing up. We constantly fought over stolen clothes, monopolizing the phone back when landlines were a thing, and what boy band to blare from the car speakers. I’m still Team Backstreet Boys while Lucy is forever indebted to NSYNC.

Looking back on those memories, I should have stepped up and granted Lucy permission to wear my favorite sweater for picture day, to hand her the phone once in a while, and to let her play, 'Bye Bye Bye.' Even I can admit that’s a good one. But despite Lucy being the younger sister, she has always been more patient, more accommodating, and more thoughtful than me. And that’s because when it comes to the people she loves, she’s all in.

She’s the one to prioritize their desires. She’s the one to compromise first. And, she’s the one to support their dreams as if they were her own. 

This is why it makes me so happy to know that Lucy has found a home in David. He matches her in compassion, thoughtfulness, and warmth. And I know he’ll spend his life prioritizing her desires, being ready to compromise, and supporting her dreams as his own.

Cheers to Lucy and David! May you always feel loved because you always put each other first."

Best Man Wedding Speech Example

"Hello, everyone. My name is Luke and I’m the best man . I met Robert eight years ago when I became his neighbor. His reputation preceded him as I had heard about the 'Block Party King' before my closing papers were inked. 

Rob has never been the guy to wear fancy clothes. In fact, I’m still in shock seeing him in that tux tonight. And he’s never been the guy to show off even though the work he’s put into his vintage Mustang could make Henry Ford himself envious.

But when it comes to cooking, he should receive an award. His pulled pork is a staple at our summer block parties and his homemade barbeque sauce has remained our neighborhood’s best-kept secret. But the most satisfying part about his delicious dishes is that there’s always plenty to go around. And Rob makes sure your plate is never empty. I have no idea how he pulls it off, but Rob has a covert ability to scoop seconds onto your plate without you ever seeing him do it. I hope you all came hungry tonight, folks. You’ve been warned! 

The first time I met Jasmine I could immediately tell she was an amazing person. She laughed at his jokes which I never thought anyone would get. She supported his career and the nonstop travel involved. But most importantly, whenever we’re all hanging out, Jasmine is the one always topping off Rob’s plate with more pasta, more chicken, more of everything. When she’s around, it’s never empty. 

And that’s when I saw what a perfect match they were for each other. I know they will always put each other first, make sure their needs are met, and will never allow the other to go hungry.

So let’s raise our glasses to toast the newlyweds! As you begin this next chapter together, may your plates and your hearts always remain full."

Father of the Bride Wedding Speech Example

"Good evening, family, and friends. I’m Daniel Lee, the father of the bride. I’d like to welcome you to this special occasion where we get to celebrate the love between my daughter Allison and her new wife, Kristin. 

Standing up here today, I’m reminded of all the moments that led to this significant one. The dance recitals that ended with standing ovations and the soccer games that concluded with winning scoreboards. 

But, while those were fun and rewarding times, those aren’t the moments I cherish most with Allison. The memories that make me smile the brightest are those in-between the big stuff moments. It’s the makeshift magic shows in our living room using a bedsheet that Allison confiscated from our linen closet to convert into a curtain. It’s the countless tea parties she hosted with exclusive invitations just for me and her beloved stuffed bear, Buttons. And it’s the way she’d beg to stay up for just five more minutes but was asleep on the couch by minute number two.

Those everyday, blink-and-you’ll-miss-them moments with Allison are the ones that gave color to my life and filled my heart with a happiness I never knew could exist.

So, my beautiful daughter, as you begin your life with Kristin today, I have one wish for you: May your warmest memories come from the ordinary moments throughout your marriage, and may those moments give you a reason to smile brighter every day. Cheers! I love you both." —Daniel

What Not to Say in a Wedding Speech

Your job when delivering a wedding speech is to keep things light—tell an anecdote, make an emotional connection, then wish the couple well before you close out. Anything that doesn't feel definitively positive should be avoided. "I would advocate against bringing up negative details, specifically past relationships or past spouses," says Carter. "Skip anything that you wouldn't want to be physically recorded and played over and over again—this is a rule of thumb."

Keep it light, delicate, and present- and future-focused, Carter adds. "If you're going to go into the past, make those stories really intentional," she says. "Bring those stories back to who they are now. Your mission is to create a great environment and vibe and to potentially give some information about one of the newlyweds, so that it's enlightening for all guests."

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How can I make a wedding toast in Spanish (1 sentence)?

!Hola! I'm going to make a wedding speech for the groom next week in Spain. I will give the speech in English, but I'd like to end it with the Spanish quote (bride is Spanish). Any suggestion on the one sentence wedding toast in Spanish?

Thanks in advance :)

P.S. I've asked reddit for help, but I only got the inappropriate ones (some quite funny though)

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  • 1 what you want to say to her? you need some tipical phrase for this context? like ¡viva los novios! , you want to express some feeling to the couple in spanish, or some joke like Aunque os lo habéis buscado, os deseo toda la felicidad ?? –  Jordi Castilla Commented Sep 14, 2015 at 12:10

The best sentence you can use is ¡Vivan los novios! It is short, easy and very, very usual in a wedding, so everybody will understand it even if your pronunciation is not so good. You cannot go wrong with that.

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This wedding ceremony script leaves the couples vows section empty, so that it can be filled in with personalized vows written by each partner. It includes a short passage from Corinthians 13 (Corintios 13), making this a perfect choice for a slightly religious or Christian wedding ceremony. This script leaves the vows as a surprise for the couple and officiant. Una ceremonia de boda cristiana. Este guión deja los votos como una sorpresa para la pareja y el oficiante.

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We are gathered here on this beautiful day to witness the union of [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B] in holy matrimony. 

Todos los aquí presentes, recuerden que este es un día de gran celebración, porque una vida matrimonial – una vida compartida – es una gran bendición. 

Above section in English:  Everyone here present, remember that this is a day of great celebration, because a married life - a shared life - is a great blessing.

As [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B] embark on this journey together they will be able to nurture a love that makes them better versions of themselves. Marriage is a garden we sow with love, and harvest in personal growth.

A medida que caminan juntos por este camino, el amor que comparten les dará la fuerza para probar cosas nuevas, para aceptar las alegrías y los desafíos como oportunidades de aprendizaje, y confiar el uno en el otro para recibir apoyo y cuidado constantes, mientras trabajan juntos hacia objetivos comunes.  

Above section in English: As they walk this path together, the love they share will give them the strength to try new things, to embrace joys and challenges as learning opportunities, and to trust each other for constant support and nurturing, as they work together toward common goals. 

[PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B], on your journey together, keep your spouse in the space of highest priority in your heart. The love that you share must be guarded and cherished forever, for it is your most valuable treasure.

Always remember these words:  Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. Love never fails.

El amor es paciente y amable. El amor no es celoso ni jactancioso ni orgulloso ni grosero. No exige que se hagan las cosas a su manera. No es irritable, y no guarda registro de las veces que lo han agraviado. No se regocija de la injusticia, sino que se regocija cuando la verdad triunfa. El amor nunca se da por vencido, nunca pierde la fe, siempre guarda esperanza, y resiste en todas las circunstancias. El amor nunca falla. 

  • The above passage from 1 Corinthians 13: 4-8 / 1 Corintios 13: 4-8 is repeated twice, first in English and then in Spanish. If you only want to share the passage once during the ceremony, you may wish to alternate lines, delivering a few in each language.

DECLARATION OF INTENT & VOWS EXCHANGE

OFFICIANT TO THE COUPLE

You have chosen to write your vows, and it is with these words you express your binding promises to love, honor, and cherish one another. If you are ready to make these promises to each other I invite you now to face each other and declare your intentions.

Cuando estén listos para compartir los votos que escribieron, pueden comenzar. 

Above section in English: When you're ready to share the vows that you’ve written to each other, you may begin.

RINGs EXCHANGE

Gracias, thank you for sharing your vows with all of us. 

The rings you are about to place on each other's fingers are symbols of the love you expressed. They will remind you of the vows you have just spoken, and of the eternal love that you have for one another.

Estos anillos simbolizan su profundo amor y los votos inquebrantables que han compartido. Cada vez que los miren, dejen que les recuerde la belleza de este día.  

Above section in English: These rings symbolize your deep love and the unbreakable vows you have shared. Every time you look at them, let it remind you of the beauty of this day. 

OFFICIANT TO PARTNER A

[PARTNER A], place the ring on [PARTNER B]'s finger and repeat after me.

As this ring encircles your finger…From this moment forward...So will my love forever encircle you...You will never walk alone...My heart will be your shelter...My arms will be your home...We will walk thru life as partners & best friends...I promise to do my best to love, cherish and accept you...Just the way you are...I give you my heart until the end of time...I have no greater gift to give. I promise to love and cherish you always, and my greatest love and companion.

If you would prefer to say these vows in Spanish: Así como este anillo rodea tu dedo… a partir de este momento… de igual forma mi amor te rodeará para siempre… Nunca caminarás en soledad… Mi corazón será tu refugio… Mis brazos serán tu hogar… Caminaremos por la vida como pareja y mejores amigos… Prometo hacer todo lo posible para amarte, apreciarte y aceptarte… tal como eres… Te doy mi corazón hasta el final de los tiempos… No tengo mayor regalo para dar. Prometo amarte y cuidarte siempre, mi mayor amor y acompañante. 

  • PARTNER A REPEATS THE WORDS PHRASE BY PHRASE.

OFFICIANT TO PARTNER B

Now,[PARTNER B] , place the ring on [PARTNER A]'s finger and repeat after me.

If you would prefer to say these vows in Spanish: Así como este anillo rodea tu dedo… a partir de este momento… de igual forma mi amor te rodeará para siempre… Nunca caminarás en soledad… Mi corazón será tu refugio… Mis brazos serán tu hogar… Caminaremos por la vida como pareja y mejores amigos… Prometo hacer todo lo posible para amarte, apreciarte y aceptarte… tal como eres… Te doy mi corazón hasta el final de los tiempos… No tengo mayor regalo para dar. Prometo amarte y cuidarte siempre, mi mayor amor y acompañante. 

  • PARTNER B REPEATS THE WORDS PHRASE BY PHRASE.

PRONOUNCEMENT

By the power given to me by the American Marriage Ministries and by the State of [WEDDING STATE], I now pronounce you Husband and Wife (or legally married partners). ¡Ahora están casados! You may kiss each other.  ¡Beso! ¡Beso!

OFFICIANT TO THE RECEPTION

Ladies and Gentlemen, it is my honor to present for the first time, Mr. and Mrs. [COUPLE'S MARRIED NAME]!

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