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How to write a love letter: 60+ ideas & examples.

Some would say that writing a love letter is a dead form of communication, a relic from olden days that's irrelevant in the era of instant gratification where we find ourselves today.

At a time when we are separated by visible and invisible barriers, forced apart by social distancing, and almost completely reliant on more impersonal forms of communication like email, social media, and video chatting, a love letter is a particularly meaningful and romantic gesture because it's slow, intentional, and deeply personal.

Here's a step-by-step guide on how to write a love letter to a partner, a crush, or just about anyone.

How to write a love letter to your partner

Be ready to get vulnerable.

Writing a love letter to a long-term partner such as a boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse can be a great way to affirm or even rekindle your love for each other.

Mental health counselor Chaute Thomson, LMHC , points out that couples can often forget to keep connecting with each other as they get swept up in the hustle and bustle of daily life.

So, a love letter can be a moment to step back, get in touch with your emotions, and show some serious affection to your partner—particularly if it's not something you often do with each other.

"Allow yourself to be vulnerable and share your heart," she recommends. "Many times, we are scared to truly share ourselves out of fear of rejection or misunderstanding, but writing a love letter creates a genuine opportunity to connect with one another."

Really lean into your emotions—that's what's going to really make your love letter sing.

Start out the letter with a personal greeting

The greeting is important because it will set the tone for your entire letter, so you want to make sure you start off with something that will catch their attention and keep them reading.

Don't just start with "Dear [name]"—instead, greet them with something more romantic or personalized. Pet names and inside jokes work great.

• To my best friend...
• To my darling...
• To my soul mate...
• To my forever love...
• Baby, sweetie, bae, etc.
• Dear [pet name]...

Say why you're writing the letter

Is it an anniversary or another special occasion? Did your partner come through for you in a big way and you want to show appreciation? Have you just been feeling a lot of love for your partner and wanting to show your affection?

Whatever it is, say why you are writing the letter to give your letter some context.

Tell them why you love them and/or being with them

The body of the letter is where you will really pour out your heart.

For a longtime love, you want to talk about memories, overcoming obstacles together, what made you fall in love initially, why you still love them today, and what you see in the future.

Examples and ideas:

• Tell them why you love them. In some cases, this can literally be a list of the things you love about them and more importantly why you love these qualities or attributes.
• Literally "count the ways" you love them, and list some of the reasons for your love.
• Talk about how your life has changed since they became a part of it and why you are grateful for that.
• Talk about the future, where your relationship will be going next, how you will be there to support and "show up" for each other. Talk about why the future together is exciting.
• Reaffirm your love and commitment to them and how you will hold up your side of the relationship/partnership.

Use storytelling

Recall a romantic memory—the first date, the first time you saw them, your wedding day, an anniversary, a special vacation, the first time you laughed together or cried together, etc. The point is to make it meaningful.

• When I first saw you...
• The first time I heard your voice...
• When we first met, I immediately knew you were special because...
• I knew you were the one when...

Close the letter warmly

Closing or wrapping up the letter is important because it is where you sum up all the things you have just laid out in your letter. This section shouldn't be that long since you've put the meat of the letter into the body.

• I look forward to loving you for a lifetime.
• I am so lucky to be with my best friend and soul mate.
• These years with you have been the happiest of my life.
• My love for you will never end.
• Till death do us part—I said it then and I still mean it now.

How to write a love letter to your crush

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Writing a letter for a crush is a lot different from writing a love letter to a partner.

For starters, writing for a crush can be really scary because there is a risk in putting yourself out there if you have no clue if the feelings are mutual.

However, there is no way to know how they will respond if you don't open yourself up.

Many of the tips given in the previous section of writing a letter for a longtime love or partner apply to writing a letter to crush, though obviously the difference is you don't know them as well. 

Here are some general tips for letter writing for a crush:

Consider whether it's the right gesture

Love letters can be a really romantic way to let someone know you like them, but they can also come off strong and can veer into "creepy" territory if you're not careful.

Before writing a full-throttle love letter to a crush, you should have some sense of where they stand—some inclination that they might feel the same way about you.

If you know that you're both crushing on each other, a love letter can be a great gesture. Alternatively, you can write someone a love letter simply with the intention of making them feel loved, without making it about trying to start a relationship with them.

Sending an extremely affectionate love letter to someone who has no clue that you like them or who doesn't view your relationship romantically might be overwhelming and can make some people uncomfortable.

Consider whether you're writing this letter for their benefit or for your own; if the latter, it may make more sense to write the letter without sending it. This can still be a very therapeutic process for you!

Start with an attention grabber

It can be powerful to hear someone describe shared memories and interactions from their point of view. Consider describing how you've experienced your time together:

• When I first saw you, you took my breath away...
• When I heard you speak, it really impressed me or caught my attention...
• You are captivating and make me feel things I haven't felt before...
• The time we spend together is so precious to me...
• The first time I spoke to you, I knew you were someone special...

Compliment them

Many people love receiving compliments that make them feel good about themselves; if nothing else, most people are interested in hearing how other people see them.

Without going over the top, describe the little things that make this person special to you. Don't just focus on their outward appearance—talk about their inner qualities, such as their strength, resilience, playfulness, passion for their work, etc.

Pay attention to the details

Don't be too general in your letter. Don't just say that you like them or that they caught your interest. Tell them why you like them and how they make you feel.

• You make me happy because...
• I always look forward to seeing you because...
• I find you captivating because...

If you're feeling stuck, find inspiration. Look for examples of love letters that say things similar to what you want to say. Look at the great poets and writers and find inspiration in their words. You can even quote them if it feels appropriate.

Drop in a cheesy line

There is nothing wrong with a little cheese if it captures how you really feel.

• When I think about you, I end up with a stupid grin on my face.
• Since I met you, I've been feeling like I'm living the best dream of my life.
• We're all special, but you raised the bar on that.

Be clear about your intentions

Make sure they know why you're writing this letter. Are you just wanting to make them feel good? Are you telling them how you feel because you're hoping they might feel the same way?

If you're not sure where the recipient stands, it is important to let them know that there isn't any pressure on them to do anything, to respond to the letter in any specific way, or to feel the same way you do.

Talk about the future, if appropriate

If you and the recipient are already in a process of courtship (i.e., you both already know you like each other), it can be really romantic to daydream about the future.

When closing your letter, consider imagining what the relationship might look like:

• Talk about the fun dates you could go on.
• Talk about the silly arguments you might have.
• Talk about watching your favorite movies in an evening of Netflix and chill.
• Talk about the upcoming good days and the bad days.
• Talk about how awesome it will be dating each other!

General tips for writing a creative love letter

Set the mood.

Before you even put pen to pad, you need to get yourself in a letter-writing state of mind. According to Laura Louis, Ph.D. , a licensed psychologist at Atlanta Couple Therapy, your "state of mind is so important when preparing yourself to write a love letter.

To get yourself into a mindset of creativity and inspiration, you need to manage your environment."

Tapping into your five senses can help you get into the right head space.

For example:

• If possible, go to a place you find inspiring, creative, and romantic to write your letter. Alternatively, you can find a good photo of the location in mind (e.g., a photo of a beach at sunset) and place it in your work area where you can easily see it and draw motivation from it.
• "Music can be incredible for getting into that creative space," says Louis. If you are motivated by music, make a playlist that taps into that creative part of yourself and brings up positive feelings that you associate with the person you are writing the letter for.
• Don't discount aromatherapy to help get you into a love-letter-writing mood. "Certain scents can affect your mood. In particular lavender and eucalyptus are powerful in affecting your mood" and inspiring creativity, says Louis. Alternatively, you can use a scent that you love that reminds you of your loved one.

Think before you write

You don't need to be an expert writer to get your point across, but you should take the time to think about what you want to say before you start writing.

It's OK if you have to write and rewrite the letter a few times before you get to a version that you are ready to send.

Practice makes perfect. If you don't like what you've written, don't settle. Keep at it until you end up with something you love, which will ensure your recipient loves it too.

At the same time, don't put too much pressure on yourself. The recipient will most likely appreciate your efforts, and their focus will be on the sentiments shared in the letter and not on how "well" the letter was written.

Consider how you want the recipient to feel

A good love letter will make the recipient feel loved, cherished, accepted, desired, special, and important. As you're writing, think about not just what you want to say but also how you want the person to feel as they read your words.

Thompson suggests thinking about the five love languages as you write—aka touch, words of affirmation, acts of service, gifts, and quality time.

Which of these ways does this person enjoy receiving love? "Be sure to touch on what your partner's love language is when you are writing to tell them what you love about them," Thompson says.

Get the delivery right

The way you deliver your letter is almost as exciting as the letter itself. This is where you can get really creative and have some fun with it.

• Go direct and hand it to them in person.
• Use good ol'-fashioned "snail mail" and mail it to them with an envelope and stamp for a real treat. Who doesn't love getting mail that isn't a billing statement or promotional item?
• Break it up into little bits and send your love on a "scavenger hunt" with clues leading them to the places they can find the different pieces of the letter until they have the whole thing—which leads them back to you.
• Leave it in a place they will least expect, such as on the front seat of their car before they are about to leave the house or on the bedside table for them to find while you're out of town. Or if they take their lunch to work, tuck it away in their lunch so they have a surprise waiting for them when they open it up at work.
• Use Post-it notes and leave short excerpts or key parts of your love letter on the Post-its, placed in strategic places throughout the house. Or you can even cover an entire wall in your words of love for them if you're feeling ambitious.

Why writing a love letter is so romantic

We live in a "microwave society" where people want things "quick, fast, and in a hurry," Louis says. But that's what makes letter writing so special.

It takes time to put together and is a permanent testament to your love that doesn't disappear in a long thread of text messages.

Lover letters are one of the greatest exemplars of true romance. The letter isn't even the romantic part but rather the idea that your lover is thinking of you even when they are not physically in your presence.

Writing a love letter lets them know their importance in your life, captures what makes your relationship special, and demonstrates what makes the person you are with amazing to you.

Finally, a love letter allows your partner to see themselves through your eyes, which is, in itself, a gift.

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107+ Most Romantic Love Letters Of All Time

Writing romantic love letters can express your sentiments to someone you dearly love. You can reflect your relationship by coming up with feelings, honesty, romance and trust.

Do you remember the first time you wrote a love letter? I felt like I was sharing the depths of my soul with someone and that the words I was writing were powerful and special. Love letters are a timeless way to express your deepest and most intimate feelings, and they can be a great way to rekindle the spark in an existing relationship. Whether you’re writing a newlywed couple, a longtime partner, or a crush, writing a love letter can be a beautiful way to show you care.

Best Love Letters

• Napoleon to Joséphine

Ever since I left you, I have been sad. I am only happy when by your side. Ceaselessly I recall your kisses, your tears, your enchanting jealousy; and the charms of the incomparable Joséphine keep constantly alight a bright and burning flame in my heart and senses. When, free from every worry, from all business, shall I spend all my moments by your side, to have nothing to do but to love you, and to prove it to you? I shall send your horse, but I am hoping that you will soon be able to rejoin me. I thought I loved you some days ago; but, since I saw you, I feel that I love you even a thousand times more. Ever since I have known you, I worship you more every day; which proves who false is the maxim of La Bruyère that “Love comes all at once.” Everything in nature has a regular course, and different degrees of growth.

• Frida Kahlo to Diego Rivera

Nothing compares to your hands, nothing like the green-gold of your eyes. My body is filled with you for days and days. You are the mirror of the night. The violent flash of lightning. The dampness of the earth. The hollow of your armpits is my shelter. My fingers touch your blood. All my joy is to feel life spring from your flower-fountain that mine keeps to fill all the paths of my nerves which are yours.

• Georgia O’Keeffe to Alfred Stieglitz

Dearest — my body is simply crazy with wanting you — If you don’t come tomorrow — I don’t see how I can wait for you — I wonder if your body wants mine the way mine wants yours — the kisses — the hotness — the wetness — all melting together — the being held so tight that it hurts — the strangle and the struggle.

• Beethoven to his “Immortal Beloved”

Even in bed my ideas yearn towards you, my Immortal Beloved, here and there joyfully, then again sadly, awaiting from Fate, whether it will listen to us. I can only live, either altogether with you or not at all. Yes, I have determined to wander about for so long far away, until I can fly into your arms and call myself quite at home with you, can send my soul enveloped by yours into the realm of spirits — yes, I regret, it must be. You will get over it all the more as you know my faithfulness to you; never another one can own my heart, never — never! O God, why must one go away from what one loves so, and yet my life in W. as it is now is a miserable life. Your love made me the happiest and unhappiest at the same time. At my actual age I should need some continuity, sameness of life — can that exist under our circumstances? Angel, I just hear that the post goes out every day — and must close therefore, so that you get the L. at once. Be calm — love me — today — yesterday.

What longing in tears for you — You — my Life — my All — farewell. Oh, go on loving me — never doubt the faithfullest heart Of your beloved

Ever thine. Ever mine. Ever ours.

• George H. W. Bush to Barbara Bush

This should be a very easy letter to write—words should come easily and in short it should be simple for me to tell you how desperately happy I was to open the paper and see the announcement of our engagement, but somehow I can’t possibly say all in a letter I should like to. I love you, precious, with all my heart and to know that you love me means my life. How often I have thought about the immeasurable joy that will be ours some day. How lucky our children will be to have a mother like you…

• Ronald Reagan to Nancy Reagan

I know tradition has it that on this morning I place Happy Anniversary cards on your breakfast tray. But things are somewhat mixed up. I substituted a gift & delivered it a few weeks ago.

Still this is the day, the day that marks 31 years of such happiness as comes to few men. I told you once that it was like an adolescent’s dream of what marriage should be like. That hasn’t changed.

You know I love the ranch but these last two days made it plain I only love it when you are there. Come to think of it that’s true of every place & every time. When you aren’t there I’m no place, just lost in time & space.

I more than love you, I’m not whole without you. You are life itself to me. When you are gone I’m waiting for you to return so I can start living again.

Happy Anniversary & thank you for 31 wonderful years.

Your Grateful Husband

• Oscar Wilde to Lord Alfred Douglas

Everyone is furious with me for going back to you, but they don’t understand us. I feel that it is only with you that I can do anything at all,” Wilde wrote. “Do remake my ruined life for me, and then our friendship and love will have a different meaning to the world. I wish that when we met at Rouen we had not parted at all. There are such wide abysses now of space and land between us. But we love each other.

• Henry VIII to Anne Boleyn

But if you please to do the office of a true loyal mistress and friend, and to give up yourself body and heart to me, who will be, and have been, your most loyal servant, (if your rigour does not forbid me) I promise you that not only the name shall be given you, but also that I will take you for my only mistress, casting off all others besides you out of my thoughts and affections, and serve you only,” he wrote. “I beseech you to give an entire answer to this my rude letter, that I may know on what and how far I may depend. And if it does not please you to answer me in writing, appoint some place where I may have it by word of mouth, and I will go thither with all my heart. No more, for fear of tiring you.

• Vita Sackville-West to Virginia Woolf

I am reduced to a thing that wants Virginia,” she wrote. “I composed a beautiful letter to you in the sleepless nightmare hours of the night, and it has all gone: I just miss you, in a quite simple desperate human way. You, with all your undumb letters, would never write so elementary a phrase as that; perhaps you wouldn’t even feel it. And yet I believe you’ll be sensible of a little gap. But you’d clothe it in so exquisite a phrase that it should lose a little of its reality. Whereas with me it is quite stark: I miss you even more than I could have believed; and I was prepared to miss you a good deal. So this letter is really just a squeal of pain. It is incredible how essential to me you have become. I suppose you are accustomed to people saying these things. Damn you, spoilt creature; I shan’t make you love me any more by giving myself away like this — But oh my dear, I can’t be clever and stand-offish with you: I love you too much for that. Too truly. You have no idea how stand-offish I can be with people I don’t love. I have brought it to a fine art. But you have broken down my defenses. And I don’t really resent it.

• Ernest Hemingway to Marlene Dietrich

I can’t say how every time I ever put my arms around you, I felt that I was home. Nor too many things. But we were always cheerful and jokers together.

Dearest Marlene: I always love you and admire you and I have all sorts of mixed up feelings about you […] please know that I love you always and forget you sometimes as I forget my heart beats. But it beats always.

Whenever you need, romantic good morning message can help you express your deep emotions through words in most beautiful way.

Greatest Love Letters

• Abigail Adams to John Adams

My Dearest Friend,

…should I draw you the picture of my heart it would be what I hope you would still love though it contained nothing new. The early possession you obtained there, and the absolute power you have obtained over it, leaves not the smallest space unoccupied.

I look back to the early days of our acquaintance and friendship as to the days of love and innocence, and, with an indescribable pleasure, I have seen near a score of years roll over our heads with an affection heightened and improved by time, nor have the dreary years of absence in the smallest degree effaced from my mind the image of the dear untitled man to whom I gave my heart.

• Prince Albert to Queen Victoria

Dearest deeply loved Victoria, I need not tell you that since we left, all my thoughts have been with you at Windsor, and that your image fills my whole soul. Even in my dreams I never imagined that I should find so much love on earth. How that moment shines for me still when I was close to you, with your hand in mine. Those days flew by so quickly, but our separation will fly equally so. Ernest [my brother] wishes me to say a thousand nice things to you. With promises of unchanging love and devotion, Your ever true Albert.

• Mark Twain to Olivia Langdon

Out of the depths of my happy heart wells a great tide of love and prayer for this priceless treasure that is confined to my life-long keeping.

You cannot see its intangible waves as they flow towards you, darling, but in these lines you will hear, as it were, the distant beating of the surf.

• Zelda Sayre to F. Scott Fitzgerald

I look down the tracks and see you coming—and out of every haze & mist your darling rumpled trousers are hurrying to me—Without you, dearest dearest I couldn’t see or hear or feel or think—or live—I love you so and I’m never in all our lives going to let us be apart another night. It’s like begging for mercy of a storm or killing Beauty or growing old, without you. I want to kiss you so—and in the back where your dear hair starts and your chest—I love you—and I can’t tell you how much—To think that I’ll die without your knowing—Goofo, you’ve got to try [to] feel how much I do—how inanimate I am when you’re gone—I can’t even hate these damnable people—Nobody’s got a right to live but us—and they’re dirtying up our world and I can’t hate them because I want you so—Come Quick—Come Quick to me—Lover, Lover, Darling—Your Wife

• Richard Nixon to Pat Nixon

Dearest Heart,

…And when the wind blows and the rains fall and the sun shines through the clouds (as it is now) he still resolves, as he did then, that nothing so fine ever happened to him or anyone else as falling in love with Thee—my dearest heart.

• Orson Welles to Rita Hayworth

Dearest Angel Girl:

…I suppose most of us are lonely in this big world, but we must fall tremendously in love to find it out. The cure is the discovery of our need for company — I mean company in the very special sense we’ve come to understand since we happened to each other — you and I. The pleasures of human experience are emptied away without that companionship — now that I’ve known it; without it joy is just an unendurable as sorrow. You are my life — my very life. Never imagine your hope approximates what you are to me. Beautiful, precious little baby — hurry up the sun! — make the days shorter till we meet. I love you, that’s all there is to it.

• Marilyn Monroe to Joe DiMaggio

I don’t know how to tell you just how much I miss you. I love you till my heart could burst. All I love, all I want, all I need is you—forever. I want to be just where you are and be just what you want me to be. I know it’s lousy of me to be so late so often, and I promise to try a million times harder, I promise. Love, Marilyn

• Johnny Cash to June Carter Cash

Happy Birthday Princess, We get old and get used to each other. We think alike. We read each others minds. We know what the other wants without asking. Sometimes we irritate each other a little bit. Maybe sometimes take each other for granted. But once in awhile, like today, I meditate on it and realize how lucky I am to share my life with the greatest woman I ever met. You still fascinate and inspire me. You influence me for the better. You’re the object of my desire, the #1 Earthly reason for my existence. I love you very much. Happy Birthday Princess. John

Love is so powerful that it can be hard to describe. Express affection with good night love and make your partner blush before sleep.

Sweet Love Letters

Dearest darling, My heart only beats for you, and my eyes always look for you. You are the most special person who completes me in every sense. I am always going to love you more than anyone else, and I will always be by your side because we are meant to be together till eternity. Love you.

Dear…, I had never believed in love before I met you. I only had the idea that something like love existed, but when I laid my eyes on you, I saw it coming alive. You have made my soul come alive, and my heart couldn’t stop loving you for a mere moment. I am utterly grateful to destiny for you and your love. You are the sweetest thing in my life, and there is nothing else I would ever love as I love you. Thank you for being in my life and making me believe in true love. With you, I feel truly alive. Yours

My love is forever yours. Come rain and sunshine, I will treat you like a diamond and will never let you stay a mile from me. Even if you are far away from me, you will never leave my heart even for a second. My love for you will blossom until my dying days because I have felt purpose and I want to show you, love. While I might not have the most tantalizing words at my disposal to express my love to you, I will manage these three words (I love you) to let you know that my world revolves around you all year round. You know how I feel about you, I want you to also know that there is no mistaking in it. My love for you is real and I will love you forever because you are the only one that deserved to be loved this tenderly.

You are, without a doubt, the most wonderful thing in my life. I never dreamed I could feel about someone the way I do about you. You’re beautiful, sweet, kind, and caring, and I love you more every day. I can’t imagine a day without you, and I vow to make you feel as special as you make me feel. Thank you for making me the happiest person alive.

Since you came into my life, you have given me hope. My life has changed. You are the one I want to spend my entire life with, never to leave you. Without you, life would be meaningless. I would not have achieved this much without you. You are my world and everything. I am blessed to have you. I love you.

Every day I wake up early just to see you sleep beautifully in your sleep. You give meaning to my life. Believe me when I say I believe in love only because of you. You are my soulmate, my everything. On your special day, I want to shower you with love and all my blessings. Sharing my life with you has been an awesome journey, and I am confident that with you in my life, I can face any hurdle, and emerge victorious.

I wanted to write you a love letter. I know it’s a little silly but I thought I’d try anyway. It’s just that I feel so much when I’m with you that I try to put it in words, so that you know how I feel about you. You are such a gift to me. Having you in my life is such a blessing. Though, I can’t see you right now, I can picture how you are. I see your eyes and how they shine, I see the way you smile and how you look right before you laugh. I want to be next to you right now. I don’t want you to hold anything back. I hope that you know that I will always be there for you. I can feel you close to me even though you’re far away. Please believe me when I say I love you.

Darling, You are the best thing that has ever happened to me. I have no words to describe my love for you or tell you what your presence means to me. Everything you do makes me happy. Your warmth, compassion, and kindness soothe my soul. You are a beautiful angel that has lit up my life, and every day, I thank God to have sent you into my life. I love you a lot. Yours truly,

Dear, I am hoping this letter makes you smile. I want to tell you how much I appreciate you and your efforts in keeping this relationship healthy and happy. While arguments in a relationship are common, it is more about handling the differences that make the marriage strong. I want to thank you for your maturity and understanding in matters. Thank you for placing your trust in me and helping me understand where I was going wrong. I love you and want to continue to build a happy marriage with you. Yours…

My tenderness, my happiness, what words can I write for you? How strange that although my life’s work is moving a pen over paper, I don’t know how to tell you how I love, how I desire you. Such agitation — and such divine peace: melting clouds immersed in sunshine — mounds of happiness. And I am floating with you, in you, aflame and melting — and a whole life with you is like the movement of clouds, their airy, quiet falls, their lightness and smoothness, and the heavenly variety of outline and tint — my inexplicable love. I cannot express these cirrus-cumulus sensations. Letters to Vera by Vladimir Nabokov

I hope you never doubt my love and intentions for you. As the stars light up the night sky, so does your love for me light up my world. Regardless of the time and day, you will always have my unwavering love and loyalty. I love loving you, and nothing can change that. I believe in you, and I believe in us. So, never, ever lose hope because we have a beautiful future ahead.

There is something so incredible about you that I find myself falling in love with you every day. I may not have told you, but I want to tell you that you have given my life a purpose and a direction that was missing until you came into my life. It is difficult to imagine my life without you because you are the one who rules it. Love you,

You are only one in my mind and in my heart. Do you know the effect you have on me? Even in times of stress, I find myself calmer than usual. I always seem to find the lighter side in things and situations. This is so unlike me, the pessimist I used to be. You are the only angel in my heart of heaven.

Dear, I still remember our first date, the first time I laid my eyes on you. Seeing you in that white dress, I knew it was love at first sight. Here is a reminder that I still love you after all these years, and nothing can ever change that. Thank you for always being by my side and helping me grow in life. We have come a long way from our first date, but I will continue to date you all my life. Yours,

Dear, Nobody has ever measured how much love the heart can hold. But I know that if someone could, they would not be able to measure the love I have for you in my heart. I love you more than you know, more than I can ever tell you. Yours,

Sometimes, words are not enough to express the best feelings. I want you to know that you are like a dream come true to me, and with you in my arms, I feel so complete and happy. Thank you for choosing and loving me beyond conditions.

Hello dearest. I’ve longed to write to you in a while, letting you know how I feel inside. You gave me everything to make my life glow, and I can’t thank you enough for being the sweetest thing in the world. How can I describe my feelings for you in this short letter? This space won’t be enough to contain everything I feel about you. You keep showing me that in every age and any place, true love exists, and I’m so happy to have found you when I did. Having you in my world has brought me more satisfaction than anything can bring, including money. I can’t thank you enough for touching me deeply with the things you do for me. You are the best thing that came my way, and I feel alive each time I get to see your lovely face again. Have a beautiful day, baby.

Dear, I know how much you hate doing the dishes. I am writing to tell you that I appreciate everything you do, especially when I am not keeping well. It is the ultimate act of true love to put aside your personal feelings for when we require to be partners more than anything else. I promise to help you better and treat you to a wonderful homemade dinner! Yours,

I am writing to you, hoping to show you a glimpse of my mind and the priceless worth I have placed on you. You are everything I ever dreamed of and the only one who dared to love me, despite my shortcomings. You are my all in all, the sun of my universe, and the freshness to the air I breathe. Years ago, I had no one to write to in such great depth. But when the wave of love hit me, every pain and hurt of the past got washed away. Sweetheart, I desire to be the one who sets your heart on fire all the days of your life. It is only through this that I will be able to give you everything you deserve because you are a precious and irreplaceable soul. I love you.

Dear, You know you are my best friend, and I am so glad to have you as my life partner. Things have been super easy for me with you by my side because of how understanding you are. You have made my life truly fun by being in it, and it means the world to me. Yours,

The day I met you for the first time is still fresh in my memories. That day changed my life because you walked into my life, and everything turned so beautiful. Since then, I have become a happy man surrounded by positivity and love that you have showered me with. I wish that you always stay close to me and keep making me feel lucky every day.

Dear, I want you to know that you are loved and valued every day. Do not worry about the small stuff. You are going to be okay. Life is too short to think so much about trivial things. I hope you do not regret anything in life. Yours,

Dear, I wish I could explain in words how much I love you. But I can’t because there aren’t any words to express my feelings for you. I will not let the distance get between us, even if it takes a lot of effort. We will make this relationship work. Yours,

I have found the love of my life and my best friend in you. The way you understand me, support me, love me, and care for me is beyond words. I thank the Almighty for sending an angel like you in my life who filled my heart happiness and love. Your beloved,

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Heart Touching Love Letters

Dear… I love you since the moment you came into my life. I look forward get a glimpse of yours every day. You have touched me deeply like on one else. The feelings are so very difficult to express. Today I have gathered the courage to put forth my love before you. I just wanted you to know how I feel about you.

Sunshine, falling in love with you has been the most beautiful accident of my life, and I will always be thankful that it happened. You opened an entirely new world where I felt alive and adored. Had you not been there with me, I would have been a lost soul.

My darling, Everything you do flutters my heart and keeps me in awe of your beauty. Every day, you inspire me to become the best version of myself and achieve new milestones. Your giggles are so sweet and heart-touching that I can listen to them all day. You chirp like a little bird, and that makes me leap with joy. If there’s one thing I can ask from God, it will be your presence in my life. Having you around makes everything so much better that I cannot imagine my life without you at all. I love you a lot.

I can listen no longer in silence. I must speak to you by such means as are within my reach. You pierce my soul. I am half agony, half hope. Tell me not that I am too late, that such precious feelings are gone for ever. I offer myself to you again with a heart even more your own than when you almost broke it, eight years and a half ago. Dare not say that man forgets sooner than woman, that his love has an earlier death. I have loved none but you. Unjust I may have been, weak and resentful I have been, but never inconstant. You alone have brought me to Bath. For you alone, I think and plan. Have you not seen this? Can you fail to have understood my wishes? I had not waited even these ten days, could I have read your feelings, as I think you must have penetrated mine. I can hardly write. I am every instant hearing something which overpowers me. You sink your voice, but I can distinguish the tones of that voice when they would be lost on others. Too good, too excellent creature! You do us justice, indeed. You do believe that there is true attachment and constancy among men. Believe it to be most fervent, most undeviating, in. Jane Austen

My heart beat and soul mate, your love and care have given me the strength and courage to come this far. You have always been with me during the hard times, giving so much support, courage, love, and advice, and I’m proud to say that I am the person I am today because of you by my side. I know that saying I love you couldn’t express exactly how I feel about you, and our relationship. With all sincerity of heart and purpose, I want you to know that I am always thinking about how nice and loving you have been to me. Sincerely, it wouldn’t have been this easy without you, and I will always love you beyond human imagination, until the end of time.

Dear, You are good enough, smart enough, loveable enough, beautiful enough, and strong enough. I want you to believe all that and take good care of yourself while taking on this new journey. You are going to be okay. I believe in you. Yours,

Dear, Before I met you, I didn’t know what it was like to be happy, to smile for no reason at all. You make me the happiest. It is so much fun being with you. All my days have been happy since you came into my life. I cannot thank you enough for the brightness you bring into my life. I love you now and always. Yours,

You may not know, but you are the only one who will rule my heart. No matter how old I get, my love will grow with each passing day. Love you to the moon and back

It’s another occasion of love but I’m glad to tell you that my love for you isn’t in seasons, I love you both in and out of season. I love you each and every day and the thought of you is the reason behind my smile. You’re one person in my life who understands all of my feelings and the intents behind my actions. On this day, I want to express my love in action to you and tell you how devoted I am to loving you!

I found everything I was looking for when I found you. You compliment me just as much as you complete me. I am blessed to have you by my side. All my worries seem to vanish into thin air when you are beside me. I long for your presence. I get anxious to see you when you are not around. The more I spend time with you, the more I fall in love with you.

Our love is something that is truly special and there is no other love like ours in the world. I feel as if I have won the lottery with you, someone who is so special and magical, who makes my life and my world a thousand times better just by being there. When I look at you, I know that I have truly hit the jackpot. All you have to do in order to warm my heart is to be the loving, caring person that you are. Together, we can do so much and help each other realize our dreams because we truly have a love that is special.

Dear, I am truly sorry for the things I have done. I have been too caught up in my life and have not treated you with the love and respect you deserve. I want you to know that I hold myself accountable for all my actions, and I will prove my love to you if you give me a chance. I love you, my darling. Yours,

When you are with me, smiles and joy are surrounding me. When you are with me, flowers are blooming everywhere. I am so blessed that I have you as the love of my life. Miss you,

To make it easier to express your emotions and feelings of love to your partner, cute missing you text will help you describe exactly how you are feeling with the most simple wording.

Cute Love Letters

Dear, I love you now. I have loved you since the day I have known you. I cannot think of a day in my life without you. I love you just the way you are. You are perfect to me, just the way you are. You do not have to worry about anything being wrong with you. Yours,

My love has made me selfish. I cannot exist without you – I am forgetful of every thing but seeing you again – my Life seems to stop there – I see no further. You have absorb’d me…I would be martyr’d for my Religion – Love is my religion – I could die for that – I could die for you… John Keats to Fanny Brawne

My Love, There is nothing more beautiful in the world than the love that we share darling. For never have to people come together in such perfect harmony. We complete each other, in ways that we never even thought were possible. We met at a time when self-doubt plagued us both and probably in that hour of need we bonded. That bond grew stronger over time and I know now that we were meant to be all along. The fact that I have you in my life, to love and to hold makes me feel alive and you my dear make me feel blessed to have you.

Dear, I love you, and I wish to promise you that I will always love you. I promise to take care of our families, the ones we already have, and the ones we will have in the future. I will always be loyal to you since I truly love you. I hope I can marry you someday soon. Yours,

I want to promise you that there will be no day of your life when you will not find me by your side. There will be no day when I will not be loving you and pampering you because you mean the world to me.

Let me start by saying that I thank God every night since I found you. I’ve never been so certain of anything in my life like I am of us. You have totally changed my outlook in life and I thank you for that. I never thought that someone could love me like you do, but guess what? I love you that much too. You make my life complete. I love you so much. Today I promise you that I would do anything in my power to make you a great person, outstanding lover, and supportive partner.

I am thankful to you; you made my life such a wonderful place. I love myself, because I am in your space. Darling, I want you to know that you are my life’s most beautiful feeling. And, I would like to make you remember something, that I am yours. I love you and will always do.

Falling in love with you has been the best thing for me in this life. I still wonder how such a beautiful, loving, and caring girl can love someone like me. I think I have just been lucky. I promise to always be there for you, to keep you happy and smiling.

Dear, Hey love. You may not expect a love letter at this time, but my undeniable urge to express my love for you has made me write this letter. I just want to say that I love you and you make me the happiest person ever. I promise to keep you happy, and I will try to love you more than you love me. If it’s possible, I will try to love you more with each passing second. Always thinking about you. Yours.

I wish I could start my day with a warm hug from you because you are my lucky charm. And I wish I could end my nights with your smile because you are the source of all my strength. Having you around me makes me feel so much stronger and happier that I cannot put in words.

Feelings can be hard to express, beautiful good morning paragraphs can help you tell your beloved how much you care.

Beautiful Love Letters

Dear…., You know someone asked me today what I like the most about you and I couldn’t shut up. I may fail to express my love for you every time we are together but I am always thinking and talking about you. Maybe it’s time I start saying all those wonderful things about you, to you. You are the most beautiful, generous, and pure soul I have ever come across and I love you unconditionally. Please be mine forever. I can’t imagine a second of my life without you. I can’t wait to see you. Yours,

Every moment that I spend with you becomes a beautiful memory of my life. My feelings for you multiply with each passing day and my heart always skips a beat when you look at me with a smile on your face. You are the love of my life, and I am truly blessed to have you.

Your beauty is breathtaking. Your kindness is inspiring. Your love is astounding. I never thought I would be so lucky as to be with such a wonderful woman. I am grateful every day to have you in my life. Nothing in this world could make me love you less, and I can’t wait to see what our future holds.

Dear, My life is beautiful because of you my love. You entered into my life as a candlelight in the dark. You showed me the meaning of love not with your words but with your care. I know your shy nature doesn’t let you open up to me; but your eyes speak up the love you have for me. Love you a lot.

Where should I start from my boy, you bought so much joy in my life with your wonderful love. Since the time I met you, there is nothing else I can see. All the lovely moments that I spend with you give me so much happiness, there is a glint in my eyes. There is some kind of allure in you because I do not want to leave you. My only wish is to stay in your arms forever and think about the wonderful lovely life ahead. Baby, I want to confess it to you that I simply love you. I love you so much my baby, I mean it!

Darling – I love these velvet nights. I’ve never been able to decide … whether I love you most in the eternal classic half-lights where it blends with day or in the full religious fan-fare of mid-night or perhaps in the lux of noon. Anyway, I love you most and you ’phoned me just because you phoned me tonight – I walked on those telephone wires for two hours after holding your love like a parasol to balance me. Zelda Fitzgerald to F Scott Fitzgerald

If only I were a clever woman, I could describe to you my gorgeous bird, how you unite in yourself the beauties of form, plumage, and song! I would tell you that you are the greatest marvel of all ages, and I should only be speaking the simple truth…You are not only the solar spectrum with the seven luminous colors, but the sun himself, that illumines, warms, and revivifies! This is what you are, and I am the lowly woman that adores you. Juliette Drouet to Victor Hugo

Dear I was just remembering the day we met and lost myself in the memory lane of our relationship. It hit me again today how crazy I am about you and how much I love you. There isn’t anything in the world I wouldn’t do for you and if there is I don’t want to know about it. You have become the most important person in my life and I can’t thank my stars enough for having a caring, modest and good hearted partner. You make love feel magical. Yours,

Sweetheart, I wanted to write you a love letter. I know it’s a little silly but I thought I’d try anyway. It’s just that I feel so much when I’m with you that I try to put it in words, so that you know how I feel about you. I can’t see you right now but I can picture how you are. I see your hair and the way it falls on your shoulders, the way you smile and how you look right before you laugh. I want to be next to you right now. I don’t want you to hold anything back.

My dearest love, I wanted to tell you how much I simply adore you. I worship the ground that you walk on. I cherish every breath that you take. I pine for you when we’re apart. I have never felt this way about a man before. I love your smile, your cute butt, your outrageous laugh, your constant positivity. When you walk into a room it simply lights up and I’m so lucky to be on your arm when we go anywhere. All the greatest love songs ever made could never put into words my feelings for you. The only way love can last a lifetime is if it’s unconditional. The truth is this: love is not determined by the one being loved but rather by the one choosing to love. And I choose to love you every single day of my life.

Dear I know how much you love to express in words as you slip a note under my wallet everyday. So I thought of writing this letter to you. I just want to say that everyday when I get those loving notes, I smile and it reminds me how you have become the ultimate reason for my happiness. My life has been beaming with love since you came into my life and I will do everything to keep you in it. Thank you for being so special my love! Yours

I want to send you all the care and love with this letter. I thank my stars that I got you, and I promise to love you and go far and beyond to let you know you mean the world to me. Thank you for all your support and motivation, and for always choosing to see the best in me. I can’t wait to see you and hold you in my arms.

Say “I love you” with cute love paragraphs and make your sweetheart feel loved and cared.

Emotional Love Letters

I love how you make me feel when I’m with you. You are my happiness and spending time with you brings me so much joy. I want you to know that I will always love you, and I will never stop thinking about you till the end of time!

My love, The moment it struck me that what we had was true love was when I began to care deeply for someone other than myself, and all the love songs I heard became all about you. You are the very charm that my heart and mind recognize. I don’t want to ever give you reasons to doubt my love for you. We have become two imperfect people refusing to give up on each other. I love you with all that lives and breathes in me. In addition, thank you for sweeping me off my feet the way you did, and for bringing me all the love and peace.

…I know I sound bitter, but my darling, I don’t want to be. I’m honestly happy with my new life and my new friends. I feel I can breathe now. Most of all, I have you to live for. Realistically, there had to be a choice — you or them. How could it be both? I’ve never had a moment’s doubt. I love you. I believe in you completely. You are my dearest one, my reason for life. From Atonement by Ian McEwan

…But oh my dear, I can’t be clever and stand-offish with you: I love you too much for that. Too truly. You have no idea how stand-offish I can be with people I don’t love. I have brought it to a fine art. But you have broken down my defenses. And I don’t really resent it. Vita Sackville-West to Virginia Woolf

Knowing you are with me makes my life a dream come true. Remembering our first kiss is remembering since when my heart beats for you. When we first held hands, our souls became one. Seeing you is feeling everything is fine. My love, I share all my feelings with you.

You are the most beautiful person in the world. I am thrilled to be around you. There’s nobody like you in this entire universe. You are the only person with whom I would rather share my time. You are the reason why I wake up every day. You are the light that guides me through the darkness.

Dear, I love you. I am in love with you and I think I will always love you more than anything. I don’t say it enough and this letter is an effort to let you know how much I love you and how special you are to me. I am writing this letter to let you know that no matter what life throws at us, no matter if the world ends tomorrow, or the sun stops shining, just know, I will keep loving you. If possible more than ever. You are my sunshine. Yours

I am so completely in love with you. I wake up and sleep every day with your thoughts in my heart. Every day seems like a blessing and full of fun since I have met you. I feel so lucky and honored to be in love with you with all my heart. I love and cherish you more than I did yesterday but not more than I will tomorrow. I can’t explain the way you make me feel when I hear your voice or see your face, but I adore it. Loving you is the best thing that has ever happen to me. I never regret the day I met you, you mean everything to me. Best Friend, my love for you knows no bound. Thinking of your love strengthens my heart. I am proud of everything you do because you are the most fantastic person I have ever had contact with. My lifetime desire is to be with you forever and always.

Dear Babe, My home is your heart and I want to reside there forever. I lay my heart in the palm of your hand. I want to belong to you forever. You complete me and you make me whole. Among the list of reasons why I love you, the first on the list is the fact that you are you. I love everything about you and there is nothing I want to change. I love all your flaws and imperfections. I may not get to tell you this every day but I want you to always have it in your heart and in your mind that I love you so much.

You will be my best friend forever. I love you so much, babe. I couldn’t live without you. I need you around me 24/7. I love waking up beside you and seeing your face smiling at me. I love watching you sleep peacefully after making love to me. I love hearing you snore. I love laughing with you and talking to you. I love spending hours doing nothing but listening to music with you. I love going shopping with you. I love cooking dinner for you. I love taking walks with you. I will love you always.

Dear, I never knew that love could be so powerful before I met you. I gave you my heart and you, with your love, have made it feel like home. They say, home can be a person. If that’s true then you are mine. You are so kind and your warmth makes me feel content. I have never felt this way about my life before you became my life. You mean the world to me! Yours

I may not say this every day, but I love you so much that my day starts and ends thinking about you. When I am away from you, I keep looking forward to seeing you. I am proud of you my love, and honestly, I wouldn’t have been here where I am now if it weren’t for you. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for all the compromises you have made for me. My dear wife, I promise to be with you and support you through the rest of our lives.

Love is so powerful and most touching love messages can help put how you feel into words and make your partner happy.

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How to Write the Perfect Love Letter to Your Partner or Crush

We asked romance novelists and authors for their best tips on how to start and end your letter.

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What to include

Tips for writing a love letter, how to end your love letter.

Shall I compare thee to a summer’s day? When you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, do you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible? Does your main squeeze give you the over the fence, out of the park, World Series kind of stuff? If trying to write a love letter has you feeling more lost than literary, you’re definitely not alone. We'd bet money even William Shakespeare himself suffered a little writer’s block when he went to profess his feelings to his own Juliet.

How to start your love letter

We all know how intimidating it can be staring down a blank page, so let us help you out. Start off with a sweet salutation like, "Dear darling," "To my love" or using their special nickname so they know this letter is all about them. Don't be afraid to get mushy to really set the mood. Next, tell them why you're writing a letter instead of just signing a generic card. Maybe it's because you really want to put your feelings into words, you're so full of love that you can't hold back or because you know they're so special that they deserve a personal letter instead of just a card. If you're writing the letter in honor of Valentine's Day , a birthday, anniversary or other special occasion, this intro is a great place to do that. Then in the next paragraph or two, get right to the heart of the matter. The more personal, the better.

Romantic memories

A really effective love note, like any good piece of writing, is all about authenticity and specificity, says Devon Daniels, author of Meet You in the Middle . Instead of rattling off a laundry list of traits that could come off sounding insincere, pick a couple of things you love about them as an individual and really focus on those. For example, you might say, “Your commitment to helping others inspires me to be more giving,” or “I love that you’re never too busy to stop and play with our kids.” Once you focus on one trait, you’ll be surprised at how easily the words flow, Daniels says.

For Gina Hamadey, who wrote her husband a thank-you note each day for a month before writing her new book, I Want to Thank You , getting specific became even more important. She focused on things like how much she loves her husband playing music in the house to set the mood for the day or making really good eggs and coffee. “The most effective love letter is the one that shines a light on the person and all they are doing,” she points out.

What you love about them

While reading others’ steamy missives for inspiration can get your own creative juices flowing, resist the urge to copy the greats. “Don’t try to sound like someone else. You don’t have to be poetic or flowery unless that kind of thing comes naturally,” advises Kristan Higgins, author of Pack Up the Moon . Instead, Higgins suggests thinking about the first time you knew this was your ride-or-die person or the foundational aspects of your relationship. “You might say, ‘I knew you were going to be important because you irritated me and made me laugh the very first time we met,’” she says. Or you might point out how they make you feel safe or listen when you share your struggles.

“I learned that the most romantic and giving and loving letters aren't necessarily the ones that are the most poetic,” says Hamadey. “I think everyone in a relationship wants to be fully appreciated by the other person.” The phrase she used most in her letters was “you take such good care of us.” Sometimes, it’s the simplest truths that make the biggest impact.

Be candid and specific

When writing a love letter, you can’t go wrong by getting really granular about why you’re super into the person. This is no time to hold back. “The more specific you can be, the more romantic it will feel,” says Rachel Lynn Solomon, author of The Ex Talk . Instead of telling someone how much they always make you laugh, take it one step further by calling out a specific joke or instance that still makes you snort-giggle. That way, they'll know the letter is really about you two.

When Hamadey asked her husband Jake how the letters made him feel, he said it was the opposite of the old adage of missing the forest for the trees. “You and I say, ‘I love you’ a lot, and that is the forest, the love we have for each other,’” he told her. “This month refocused us on the nice trees that make up the forest.” When you focus on your own trees, you show the other person exactly how much they mean.

When in doubt, make a list

Both Daniels and Higgins love listing out the positive qualities that make your relationship really special. Daniels, who’s celebrating her 16th Valentine’s Day with her husband this year, says she might write down “16 things I love about you,” as a fun way to organize your thoughts.

If you haven't been together quite that long, you might list something you love for every month you've been dating, or some other number that's significant to the two of you. Making a list also gives you the opportunity to mix in some silly and serious angles, to balance out the mushy stuff.

Personalize it to your partner

If you know your loved one likes a particular style, consider getting creative with it that way. “The best love letters contain the personality and essence of the writer,” says Uzma Jalaluddin, author of Ayesha at Last , and Hana Khan Carries On . “My husband is not a writer, but he loves rhyming poems. As a result, my love notes are more love poems — of the ‘roses are red’ variety,”

Because this is love we’re talking about, a little spice never hurts. Don’t be afraid to sauce things up, Daniels advises. Even if you’ve never written a steamy scene before, the effort goes a long way. If nothing else, you can laugh about how ridiculous it came across later.

Relax and take your time

Writers know that the best way to beat the ol' creative block is taking the pressure off. Don’t beat yourself up over writing a Pulitzer-worthy masterpiece. Even if you’re the worst writer on the planet, your loved one will appreciate a letter that really comes from your soul. “No matter what, your person will love that you put in the effort,” Higgins says. “That’s what love is, after all. Showing up and giving it your best.”

Nothing will beat closing out your love letter than with the words "I love you." But if you're looking for more creative ideas, end your letter with what you want your future to look like, sum up how the past year (or 10!) has made you feel or pick a phrase you two often say when you're parting from each other in person.

There are also simple closing ideas, such as:

• Forever and always
• Eternally yours
• Yours always
• With all my love
• Longing to see you
• Patiently yours

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How to Write a Love Letter: Expert Tips, Ideas, and Examples

Hannah Yang

Love letters are a form of writing that’s as old as the written word. Even in the modern world, many couples still exchange handwritten love letters.

You can use a love letter to confess your feelings to a new crush, to court someone you recently started dating, or to add more romance to a serious relationship.

So, how do you write a love letter that can truly win someone’s heart?

Read on to learn our top tips for how to write an amazing love letter as well as some examples to inspire you.

What Should You Include in a Love Letter?

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Many people are hesitant to write love letters because they’re not sure what to include.

Luckily, there are many topics you can choose from. Here are three tried-and-true topics you can use in your love letter.

Topic 1: A Shared Memory

You can consider writing about a memory you’ve shared with the person you’re writing to.

Think back to all the romantic moments you’ve experienced with this person.

When was the first time you realized you were attracted to this person? What about the first time you realized how much you were in love with them?

Do you have any funny memories together that might make them smile or laugh? Any sweet stories you think you’ll still remember fondly in 50 years?

Topic 2: Reasons Why You Love This Person

Think about all the reasons you love the person you’re writing to.

Maybe you love the way they sing off-key when they’re doing chores. Or the puns they make every time they get an opportunity. Or the dimples they get in their cheeks when they smile.

Or maybe they’ve changed your life for the better, and nothing’s the same now as it used to be.

Chances are, the person you’re writing to knows you love them, but not necessarily why you love them. Listing the reasons is a surefire way to remind them how much you care.

Topic 3: Plans for the Future

So far, the topics we’ve discussed all have something to do with the past or the present.

Another fantastic option is to look toward the future.

Write about what you hope your relationship with this person will look like in a few years or even when you grow old together.

Do you hope to live in an apartment in a big city, in a large house in the suburbs, or in a cabin in the mountains? Do you hope to achieve your career dreams together? Do you want to have kids or pets?

A shared vision for the future is a strong foundation for a healthy relationship. Tell them about your vision and what you’ll do to make that vision come true.

You can begin writing your letter with a sweet greeting, such as:

• To my soul mate
• To my darling
• To my best friend
• Dear [favorite pet name]

After the greeting, you can start writing the body of the letter by stating the reason you’re writing. Is there a special occasion, or did you just want to express your feelings?

You could say something like, “I’m writing this because it’s our first anniversary, and I’m so grateful we’ve had this amazing year together.”

Or you could say, “You’ve been so supportive of me during my big promotion, and I realized that I don’t tell you often enough all the reasons I love you.”

Once you’ve explained your reason for writing the letter, you can dive right into the contents of the letter.

Now that we’ve covered what to include in a love letter, let’s talk about some tips for how to do it well.

Tip 1: Be Specific

One common pitfall when writing a love letter is to write a generic one. If you could give this love letter to any of the people you’ve ever dated and still have it work the same way, then it’s probably not the best love letter.

You don’t want your love letter to just be a longer version of “I love you, baby” or “You’re the best partner ever.”

Make your love letter one that could only work between you and the person you’re writing to.

One way to do this is by referring to special memories and personality traits that are specific to the person you’re writing about. You can also include some inside jokes only your partner would understand.

The more specific your letter is, the more likely your partner is to be touched by the gesture.

Tip 2: Be Appropriate

Make sure your love letter is appropriate for the amount of time you’ve been together and how well you know this person.

If you’ve only been dating someone for a week, for example, you probably shouldn’t write about how many kids you hope to have with them. That’s a red flag that will probably scare them away.

Similarly, if you haven’t used the word “love” with this person before, you might not want to drop it for the first time in a letter, unless there’s a reason you can’t do it in person.

Tip 3: Be Genuine

The most important thing to remember is to write your love letter from the heart.

Don’t write things you think will impress the person you’re writing to, such as flowery quotes you didn’t come up with yourself. Instead, write things in your own voice, even if they sound simpler.

Remember that it’s okay to be vulnerable and share things you’re afraid to say out loud. A love letter is the perfect time to tell the naked truth.

The best way to learn how to write a love letter is by looking at great examples. Here are a few examples of love letters from real people you can use for inspiration.

Example #1: A Letter from Frida Kahlo to Diego Rivera

Nothing compares to your hands, nothing like the green-gold of your eyes. My body is filled with you for days and days. You are the mirror of the night. The violent flash of lightning. The dampness of the earth. The hollow of your armpits is my shelter. My fingers touch your blood.

All my joy is to feel life spring from your flower-fountain that mine keeps to fill all the paths of my nerves which are yours.”

Example #2: A Letter from Johnny Cash to His Wife June

“Happy Birthday Princess,

We get old and get used to each other. We think alike. We read each other’s minds. We know what the other wants without asking. Sometimes we irritate each other a little bit. Maybe sometimes we take each other for granted.

But once in a while, like today, I meditate on it and realize how lucky I am to share my life with the greatest woman I ever met. You still fascinate and inspire me. You influence me for the better. You’re the object of my desire, the #1 Earthly reason for my existence. I love you very much. Happy Birthday Princess.”

Example #3: A Letter from Prince Albert to His Wife Queen Victoria

“Dearest deeply loved Victoria, I need not tell you that since we left, all my thoughts have been with you at Windsor, and that your image fills my whole soul. Even in my dreams I never imagined that I should find so much love on earth. How that moment shines for me still when I was close to you, with your hand in mine. Those days flew by so quickly, but our separation will fly equally so. Ernest [my brother] wishes me to say a thousand nice things to you. With promises of unchanging love and devotion, Your ever true Albert.”

Example #4: A Letter from Vita Sackville-West to Virginia Woolf

“I am reduced to a thing that wants Virginia. I composed a beautiful letter to you in the sleepless nightmare hours of the night, and it has all gone: I just miss you, in a quite simple desperate human way. You, with all your un-dumb letters, would never write so elementary phrase as that; perhaps you wouldn’t even feel it. And yet I believe you’ll be sensible of a little gap. But you’d clothe it in so exquisite a phrase that it would lose a little of its reality. Whereas with me it is quite stark: I miss you even more than I could have believed; and I was prepared to miss you a good deal. So this letter is just really a squeal of pain. It is incredible how essential to me you have become. I suppose you are accustomed to people saying these things. Damn you, spoilt creature; I shan’t make you love me any the more by giving myself away like this—But oh my dear, I can’t be clever and stand-offish with you: I love you too much for that. Too truly. You have no idea how stand-offish I can be with people I don’t love. I have brought it to a fine art. But you have broken down my defences. And I don’t really resent it …”

Example #5: A Letter from Orson Welles to Rita Hayworth

“Dearest Angel Girl:

...I suppose most of us are lonely in this big world, but we must fall tremendously in love to find it out. The cure is the discovery of our need for company—I mean company in the very special sense we’ve come to understand since we happened to each other—you and I. The pleasures of human experience are emptied away without that companionship—now that I’ve known it; without it joy is just as unendurable as sorrow. You are my life—my very life. Never imagine your hope approximates what you are to me. Beautiful, precious little baby—hurry up the sun!—make the days shorter till we meet. I love you, that’s all there is to it.

There’s nothing more unattractive than bad grammar.

Okay, so that’s not entirely true. There are probably some things that are less attractive, like terrible dental hygiene.

Even so, you should avoid writing love letters that are riddled with typos and grammar mistakes.

So, before you send your letter, run it through ProWritingAid first. ProWritingAid will highlight any errors and inconsistencies so you can fix them with a single click.

There you have it—our complete guide to writing a personal love letter.

If you’re in a long-term relationship, you can write multiple love letters throughout the years—for example, one on each anniversary or one each time you go on a trip together—to create a treasured collection that can remind you of your relationship when you look back.

Good luck, and happy writing!

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Sure—you can type out a mushy text or pick up a super-sentimental greeting card to convey to your sweetheart how much you care, but nothing will give them butterflies like a full-blown love letter. And if you're wondering how to write a love letter like the pros, we're here to help (it's us, we're the pros).

Though you may have infinite shared memories, a laundry list of their adorable idiosyncrasies and boundless dreams for your future together knocking around in your head, it's not always easy to put your feelings about the object of your affections into words. That's why we've penned this guide, which not only breaks down the anatomy of a winning love letter, but also provides some love letter examples that range from notes to your crush to epistoles to your forever person. We've also included a few helpful prompts to get you into the romantic mindset, because it's much simpler to listen to what's in your own heart than to try and summon Shakespeare's ghost to help you out with the writing. (We're kind of over the whole "Shall I compare thee to a summer's day?" trope, anyway.) You can do better than the bard—just take note of our tips and tricks below.

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What to Say in a Love Letter

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You've got the love, now it's time to let those romantic feelings flow through your pen. Here's exactly what to write in a love letter and where to place each sweet sentiment—from the beginning, to the middle, through the end of your message. Cupid should be taking notes.

How to Start a Love Letter

Starting always feels like the hardest, but when it comes to the format of a love letter, it's actually relatively easy. First things first: set your intention on why you're writing this letter to begin with. Of course, it's to express how much you care, but is it also a special time like Valentine's Day or an anniversary? Are you a long-distance couple looking for a little epistolary romance between weekends together? Are you dating casually and looking to take things to the next level? Writing to say "I love you," just because ? Or are you not a couple yet at all and you're making your first move as your crush's not-so-secret admirer?

It's important to take stock of all of these circumstances while writing a love letter because, depending on your relationship and the occasion, the tone will shift. That said, it's always a safe bet to address the recipient using their first name, preceded by either a classic "dear" or "my." If you're going for a playful tone, feel free to use a pet name that's personal to you. And if you're writing to someone who reads historical fiction and watches period dramas, then add an old-timey flourish with an opening like "My Immortal Beloved" (borrowed from Beethoven) or "My Adored [Girl/Boy/Person]"—taken from the 1845 Victorian letter-writing book, The Parlour Letter-writer, and Secretary's Assistant.

For your opening sentence, circle back to that initial intention and reference your reason for writing. Also, while you might be tempted to scrawl your most romantic thought on the page straight away, we prefer to set the mood with a meaningful sentiment that gets the letter on a slow burn track—so you can build with each paragraph and save that swoon-worthy declaration for the end. Here's what we mean:

My Timothée,

It's been three weeks since I've seen you last, but I still can't shake the butterflies I get from being wrapped in your arms.

Today, we celebrate two years together—and my love for you has grown deeper and stronger each and every day.

My Darling Pickle,

I'm just missing you a bunch today.

Love Letter Prompts

One of the most important rules of how to write a good love letter is to make it personal. Little details about the recipient's personality (how much you love their dimples, the way they get a skip in their step when they're excited) are lovely, as are silly anecdotes about the two of you (that time you won trivia as a team of two, how you dominated the dance floor at your friend's wedding). But don't forget to dig a little deeper here and include some more-serious notions along with the sweet and lighthearted ones. Remember, this is a romantic love letter for their eyes only, so tell them the things they might not hear from you as regularly as a simple "I love you."

Consider the following prompts to get some love letter ideas:

When was the first moment you felt a spark with them?

Speak about a cherished memory from an average day you spent together alongside a special occasion memory to show the range of fun times you have as a pair.

How have your feelings for them grown since you've known them?

Name a non-physical trait you think is special about your partner.

Describe how you hope they feel when they are with you (safe, supported, adored).

What's something they do every day that makes your heart flutter?

Reflect on a hardship you've supported them or they've supported you through.

Reference an inside joke the two of you share.

What makes the relationship between the two of you so special compared to others you've seen or experienced?

What experiences are you looking forward to in the future together?

How to End a Love Letter

You've spent a few paragraphs reminding your love of all of the good times you've shared together and why they're so special. Now it's time to conclude your letter with a statement and sign off that leaves them with a full heart. This is where you should go big, dig deep and make sure they know just how much they mean to you before they tuck your note away somewhere for safe keeping. If you're in a serious relationship, tell them what your hopes for your mutual future are. If you're about to walk down the aisle, reaffirm how much you're looking forward to forever with them, because they truly have your whole heart. And if you're writing to a crush, this is where you should make your big date pitch—you can even add a cheeky "check 'yes,' 'no' or 'maybe'" for a touch of 1990s romcom cuteness.

As far as how to sign a love letter goes, feel free to keep it simple with "Yours" or "All my love." We also love a flirty "XO," if your message leans more lighthearted. You can also take a page out of the pop culture book and use a romantic quote from their favorite novel, TV show or film. We're partial to the "Ever mine, ever thine, ever ours," sign off from Mr. Big on "Sex and the City" (by way of Beethoven). Here are some examples of how to end a heart-touching love letter:

You make the world around you more beautiful.

You are the love of my life—always and forever.

All my love,

My love, I will do all I can to keep you laughing, smiling and safe every day.

Eternally yours,

Now that you've got some cute love letter ideas from our advice above, it's time to see our tips in action. Check out some examples of short notes using our love letter template, so you can see exactly how to write a letter to someone you love, someone you're dating or just someone you're crushing on.

To Your Crush

First off, I'm so lucky to have you in my life. I always knew we'd be good friends since the first time we met, reaching for the same muffin at the campus coffee shop, and now we have enough fun memories together to fill a book series. The way you send me good morning memes always starts my day off right and makes me think of how much I love your laugh, how it makes everyone in the room crack a smile. I admire your drive, too. You make me want to be the best person I can be.

All that said—I'm really into you, in a "more than a friend" way. I know we were planning on catching a movie this weekend, but would you be down to make it an official date? Check "yes," "no" or "maybe" below.

To Someone You're Dating

I can't believe it's been one year together already! It feels like time is moving even faster than when we were running to escape that surprise rain storm while walking the beach last summer (and we were definitely sprinting at the speed of light to get back to the house). With you, every day seems like an adventure, every laugh sounds like a symphony and every hug feels like heaven.

I've loved you more and more each day—all 365 of them—and can say with full confidence that I can see you by my side in the future, an incredibly bright future.

You have my heart,

To Your Fiancé

To My Beloved Future Husband ,

I'm just writing to say I love you. Why wait for a special occasion to say it when you make every day feel like a holiday? My heart skips a beat each time your dimples pop out when you smile and swells with love every time I hear your keys jingling outside the front door when you're home from work.

I am counting down the days until we meet at the altar, walking away hand-in-hand as husbands. You're the still point in an ever-turning world.

To Your Spouse

My One and Only,

Happy Valentine's Day! What'll this be, our 15th one together? We must've eaten over 10 tons of chocolate truffles together over all of those years. You make me feel so loved each and every day and I will do everything in my power to make you feel just as supported, reassured and unabashedly special.

You still give me butterflies. And I wouldn't want to go through life with anyone else. I am yours—now and always. I love you so much, my forever valentine.

Your adoring spouse,

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How to write a love letter.

Really? A love letter? Yes, really. Sure, in this day and age, your options for how to say “I love you” are endless. You can text it. You can email it. You can say it face to face. You can write it in flour on the countertop, take a photo, and post it to Instagram. You can scribble a love note on a napkin and tuck it in a lunch bag. If you’ve got the courage, you could even write a song and serenade your sweetie.

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And all of those are great. You should definitely keep (or start) doing them to remind your love how much they mean. But when you really want to get your partner’s attention, there’s another tool to consider adding to your I love you repertoire: the good old-fashioned love letter.

Writing a love letter is the kind of gesture we 21st-century types don’t make every day—and that’s exactly what makes it so special. It’s something a little out of the day-to-day…unexpected…above and beyond. Odds are good your partner is going to want to read, reread, and hang onto it for a good long while. Love letters are just that meaningful.

Of course, the fact that letter writing is less common nowadays also means many of us are less than confident about how to write a love letter. (Is it a weird thing to do? How do I even start?) If that sounds like you, then read on for some helpful love letter writing tips.

Why Write a Love Letter  

Putting pen to paper gives you space to really open up, explore, and expand on what’s in your heart. That can be just the thing for when your feelings are so strong, you just know it’s going to take some extra time, thought, and heartfelt words to express all you’re feeling. A love letter gives you a chance to dive deeper and communicate things that can be hard to say face to face or capture in a text…even one with lots of heart emojis.

When to Send a Love Letter  

Here’s the short answer: Whenever you’ve got some saved-up affection, appreciation, and admiration to express to the one you love. To expand on that just a little, here’s a list of specific times perfect for a love letter:

• Official occasions: Valentine’s Day, your love’s birthday, Christmas, Mother’s or Father’s Day (if your partner is a parent), Independence Day (if you want to start some fireworks), or any meaningful holiday, really.
• Significant dates for your relationship: Wedding anniversary, anniversary of first date, engagement, the day you met, or any other date that has special meaning for the two of you.
• When things are great: A love letter when things are going well is a chance to appreciate your partner for all they to keep your relationship strong.
• When things are not as great: A love letter when things are tough is an opportunity to reset, remind, and apologize (if needed). It’s a chance to focus on the positive and recall happier times together, and most importantly, to express optimism in your future together, in spite of hard circumstances.
• A random Tuesday: Or Monday, or Wednesday, or Thursday, or…in other words, just because. A love letter from the heart can make any old day feel like an occasion. And sometimes, it’s the out-of-the-blue, utterly unexpected love letter that means the most…and that goes the furthest toward keeping a relationship strong.

How to Start a Love Letter  

Materials Nice stationery and a quality pen can add an appealing touch of significance and permanence to your love letter, and in the long run, they’ll help it stand the test of time. But if a sheet of notebook paper feels more like you, or more in keeping with the personality of your relationship, then by all means, get writing. The key is not to let your momentary lack of the perfect paper keep you from even starting. On the other hand, if you do want to go fancier with your materials, keep in mind that pencil stubs and notebook paper can still be handy for…

Writing a Rough Draft That’s right—rough drafts are not just for school essays, but for any important piece of writing, love letters most definitely included. Your rough draft might be as simple as a brainstormed list of lovable things about your partner in the notes app on your phone. Or it could be a fully fleshed-out practice letter you draft out on your computer or on scratch paper. Once again, go with the approach that feels most like you.

Top-of-Page Details Date your letter: Before diving in to the body of your letter, start off by writing the date near the top right of your first page. This is more than just a letter-writing convention—it also helps create a record of your relationship. When your love rereads the letter years from now, they will know this is a snapshot of your passion at this particular point in time.

Salutation: The word sounds formal, but in truth, the salutation is highly intimate. It’s the “Dear Joe,” or “Hey, Babe:” just above the body of your letter. For a newer relationship, you might stick to a simple “Dear Jane,” but for a more established love, here are some more passionate possibilities:

• Darling (Jill), My Darling (John), My Darling Girl, My Love,
• Dearest (Jack), My Dearest (Joanne),
• My Wonderful (Jim), My Beautiful (Jess),
• Hello, Gorgeous: or Hi, Babe:
• Dear Sunshine, Dear [insert pet name here],

What to Say in the Body of Your Love Letter  

There are no hard-and-fast rules for what a love letter should say, except that it should sound like you, including your voice, your personality, your sense of humor, etc. In other words, you should feel absolutely free to write from the heart; however, if you could use a little help getting started, here are some ideas and guidelines.

State a “Why” Start off by mentioning why you’re writing. This could mean anything from referring to the occasion, to saying you’ve been thinking about your partner:

• Occasion: On our first anniversary, I just wanted to remind you how lucky I feel…
• Just because: You know I love you every day, but today, I felt like putting it in writing….
• Miss you: I miss you seeing your face…
• Appreciation: Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about all you do for us…
• Compliment: Just so you know, you take my breath away…
• Tough time: Hey, I know things haven’t been the best between us lately. That’s why I want to make sure you know
• New love: Just wanted to tell you that I’m having the best time with you, and I can’t wait to…
• Thinking of you: You’re on my mind right now…

Go Into Detail Go on to add some specifics that could only come from you:

• List things you love about your partner: The more specific, the better—I love the way your eyes crinkle when you laugh, instead of just I love your laugh. Getting specific shows you really know your partner.
• Be sensual: All day long, I look forward to the thrill of being back in your strong arms…I love the feel of your soft lips on mine…
• But don’t be R-rated: Imagine that your adult child or grandchild might someday stumble across this letter. It’s okay to make them blush, but try not to make them say, “Eeeeewwww!”
• Get physical: It’s great to admire your partner’s sparkly blue eyes or rock-hard abs…
• But try to balance it out: I adore your offbeat sense of humor…I’m constantly amazed by your ability to fix anything…Or whatever else you happen to love about who your partner really is.
• Share a memory/Tell a story: I knew you were the one for me the moment you…I was just thinking about our trip to San Diego—the one where I lost my glasses…
• Talk about “us”: I love this life we share…I feel like you and I are a perfect fit…I’m so grateful for what we have together. Thanks for sharing it with me…

How to Wrap Up a Love Letter  

Sign It You’ll want to end your letter with some real passion, so consider using one of these closings before signing your name

• All my love,
• Love always,
• Forever yours,
• Passionately,
• Gratefully,
• All my heart,
• Always and forever,
• Hugs and kisses,
• Under your spell,
• With all my love on (Valentine’s Day) and always,

Seal It Beyond just the envelope, here are some additional ways to “seal” a love letter.

• With a kiss (lipstick optional)
• With a spritz of your signature scent
• With an enclosure (poem, quote, concert tickets, pressed flower, paper heart, candy, etc.)
• With a fancy wax seal or embossed sticker
• With your awesome origami skills in place of an envelope (hand-delivery only)
• With ribbon or twine tied in a bow

Deliver It Almost any delivery method you choose will add an extra element of surprise. If you get in the habit of writing love letters, you can try them all…and invent some new ones of your own.

• Mail to your partner’s home or place of work (It can be surprisingly fun to get mail from someone you live with or see every day.)
• In their bag, purse, or briefcase
• On the driver’s seat of their car
• On their pillow
• On the bathroom vanity
• Face-to-face

Prepare for Smiles, Hugs, Kisses…  

Long or short, heartfelt or humorous, if you write from the heart, with genuine affection and appreciation, your partner is going to love and cherish your letter. The thought you put into it may seem like a little thing, but it’s one of those little things that can add up over time to keep a romance going strong.

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Keely Chace is a Hallmark Master Writer who loves reading, running and spending time with her husband and daughters. She shares writing tips in her "What to Write" series on Hallmark & Community.

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How to Write a Love Letter to Your Partner

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Can you remember the last time you sat down with a pen and paper to handwrite a letter to your significant other? If the answer is no, you’re definitely not alone. Living in the era of DMs and heart emojis, it’s easy to forget how one of the most treasured ways to say "I love you" is still a good old-fashioned letter. Whether you’re dating , engaged , or have been together forever, letting your partner know how much they mean to you with a tangible note is always a swoon-worthy move .

“The vulnerable authenticity of a love letter is what will take [your partner’s] breath away,” explains couples counselor and writer Donna Keehn. We caught up with her to learn how to write a love letter from the heart and find inspiration. 

Meet the Expert

Donna Keehn is a marriage and family therapist and author based in San Diego, California.

“Remember,” she says, “your love letter is not meant to compete with all of the other love letters that exist ... [and] as long as the words expressed are sincere, it will be absolutely perfect for the person lucky enough to receive it.” Ready to get started? Below is everything you need to know to write a love letter.

What to Include in Your Love Letter

1. start with a meaningful greeting .

“With a love letter, the greeting can immediately reflect the depth of your connection and love,” Keehn shares. “But just because you’re being vulnerable and romantic doesn’t mean your tone has to be strictly formal.” Addressing your partner with a cherished nickname like ‘Sweetie Pie,’ ‘Love Nugget,’ or ‘Buttercup' can be just as touching as something like 'My Love.' Also, when in doubt, simply starting with your partner’s first name is intimate in its own way.

2. Recall Romantic Moments  

Reflecting on and sharing specific moments when you “knew” you loved someone is a beautiful start to the heart of the letter. Keehn suggests asking yourself, “Did you experience a moment where you realized all of the ways having this human being in your life has changed you [and] your life for the better? Think about these shared moments in a timeline fashion and capture the experiences and emotions in free-flow writing.” 

3. Write Out the “Why’s” 

Instead of going vague with statements such as “I love your personality,” Keehn encourages digging deeper and exploring the “why” behind what it is you love about someone. Without filtering yourself, try to articulate “ why you love their personality, their character, their kindness, their generosity, their touch...” Capture that magic!

4. Close With Candor 

This is the time to express how it really feels now that this person is in your life. “Don’t be shy!” Keehn laughs, “Put yourself fully out there at the end and toss insecurities to the wind.” As for the final line itself, you can of course never go wrong in baring it all through a simple, powerful ‘I love you.’

Tips for Getting Started (and Finishing Strong!)

Don’t know where to start, or having trouble finding a creative flow? “Take a deep breath, close your eyes, and think about your partner,” Keehn says, “[and] let your heart and head fill up with their presence.” By creating a safe space for yourself, thoughts, feelings, and words will start to bubble up without judgment. When they do, just write without worrying about how it sounds. Poetic phrases , concrete statements, and sweet nothings are all perfect. “If you’re feeling stuck,” she adds, “turn to outside inspiration, such as existing love letters, marriage vows, and, of course, Shakespeare, to guide the way.”

Take Your Time 

For a love letter that doesn’t feel trivial or forced, Keehn suggests going slow and piecing it together a bit at a time. “The vast majority of us want to rush through something when it feels awkward or outside of our comfort zone,” she says, “but when you think about it, just about everything we do, even really big things, are done in small steps…”

Pick a Personalized Medium 

Yay, you’ve written the content of your letter! A fun and, often overlooked, component of the letter itself, is what you write it on. “Let yourself have fun!” Keehn says, “The love letter doesn’t have to be on a fancy piece of stationary to be special.”

If your partner is a teacher, consider writing the letter on notebook paper and hiding it in their binder. Or maybe a chef? Create a “menu” front page that opens up to the letter inside. The possibilities are, truly, endless.

Iconic Love Letter Examples

To leave you feeling inspired, we’ve rounded up some of the most iconic love letters of all time.

Johnny Cash to his wife June:

“Happy Birthday Princess,

We get old and get used to each other. We think alike. We read each other’s minds. We know what the other wants without asking. Sometimes we irritate each other a little bit. Maybe sometimes we take each other for granted. 

But once in a while, like today, I meditate on it and realize how lucky I am to share my life with the greatest woman I ever met. You still fascinate and inspire me. You influence me for the better. You’re the object of my desire, the #1 Earthly reason for my existence. I love you very much. Happy Birthday Princess - John”

Composer John Cage to Merce Cunningham: 

“Today is beautiful and I am dreaming of you and enigma and how we are together today: your words in my ears making [me] limp and taut by turns with delight. Oh, I am sure we could use each other today. 

I like to believe that you are writing my music now: God knows I’m not doing it, because it simply seems to happen. The pretissimo is incredible the way you are and is perhaps a song and description about you … Pardon the intrusion, but when in September will you be back? I would like to measure my breath in relation to the air between us.”

Frida Kahlo to Diego Rivera:

Nothing compares to your hands, nothing like the green-gold of your eyes. My body is filled with you for days and days. You are the mirror of the night. The violent flash of lightning. The dampness of the earth. The hollow of your armpits is my shelter. My fingers touch your blood. 

All my joy is to feel life spring from your flower-fountain that mine keeps to fill all the paths of my nerves which are yours.”

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A Simple Guide To Writing Handwritten Love Letters

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage. Lao Tzu

Writing captivating love letters is definitely an art that can spice up your relationship or bring back the romantic flare you have been missing. Creating love letters is a great way to make your special someone feel loved and appreciated. Check out the tips below on how to write the perfect romantic love letter.  

Why a Handwritten Letter is Better Than a Text

Handwritten love letters have been utilized as romantic gestures for centuries . However, as the digital age has emerged, the art of writing love letters has been lost to some degree. While sending your partner or romantic interest emails, texts, or social media messages are good and fun; it just doesn’t have the same romantic essence as a handwritten letter. 

When to Send a Love Letter

If you have feelings for someone, it’s the perfect time to send a love letter. Whether it’s just a crush, a budding new relationship, or your 50th year of marriage, you can always send a love letter. Need some creative ideas for delivery? How about surprising your love with a romantic letter on their pillow, mailing your letter the good ‘ol fashioned way, or even posting it anonymously on Imperfect Ink and sharing the link with them. 

Love Letters to Crushes

While sending a love letter to a crush is a bit more nerve-racking than to someone you are already in a relationship with, it doesn’t mean you should avoid it. If you like someone, let them know. If you’re looking to grab your crush’s attention, a romantic letter will certainly do the trick. If you feel the connection goes both ways with your crush, go ahead and write the letter. Like most things in life, you will never know unless you try. 

How to Write a Love Letter

There is an art to any type of writing, including creating beautifully worded love letters. However, art is never a one size fits all situation. As you start to create your love letter, remember to always utilize the writing style that feels best to you. This will ensure that you feel comfortable as you write, while also showcasing your own unique personality and voice. Take your time with your writing process, and don’t be afraid to create some rough drafts as you make your way to the final product. If you’re stuck and are looking for a basic guideline for writing a love letter, check out the five formatting tips below.  

The first step in writing a captivating love letter is to start with a romantic greeting. Use a greeting that is romantic, cute, or even quirky. Maybe, “To my Darling” or “Dear Buttercup.” The most important thing is to choose a greeting that fits your relationship dynamic and to choose something the person you’re writing the letter to will love. 

In the first paragraph of your letter, be sure to share why you’re writing to them. Be open and honest as you draft your thoughts. Let your partner know why you love them and why you just couldn’t wait to express these feelings to them. Think about starting the letter off with a quote about love,  and then going from there. 

In the second paragraph, you really get into the heart of the letter. This is where you pour your heart out onto the page. Be yourself as you tell your love interest how you feel about them. Don’t be afraid to incorporate sentimental or flowery language into your letter. However, if humor is more your style, that can still be incorporated as well. The most important thing is to create a beautiful love letter that makes your partner feel special, while also highlighting your true personality.

As you wrap up your letter in the final paragraph, look to the future of your relationship. Express to them a final time how much they mean to you and what you want your future together to look like. If you want to spend the rest of your life with them, share that sentiment as you close your letter. 

The last step in creating your love letter is to sign it with a loving signature, similar to that of the romantic greeting you started the message with. Add a bit of extra romance with a signed letter that ends with, “With all my love always” or “Yours Forever.” Finally, put your letter in a pretty envelope and give it to your loved one.  

Read Example Love Letters from Imperfect Ink

Tips when writing a love letter to her.

• When writing a love letter to her, tell her why you love her, and highlight how being with her makes your life better.
• Be loving with your words, and be sure to compliment her as much as you can throughout the letter
• Write about a romantic memory the two of you share and let her know why it’s one of the favorite memories you two share. 

Read our guide on writing love letters to her

Tips When Writing a Love Letter to Him

• When writing a love letter to him, make the letter all about him and all the qualities you love about him. Compliments go a long way in showing appreciation.
• Create a letter that makes him know he is loved and appreciated.
• Be sure to highlight some of your favorite memories together and how these moments made you realize why you’ll love him forever.

Read our guide on writing love letters to him

To get more comfortable with the writing process and self-expression, connect with us at Imperfect Ink. You can always write and submit your personal work. It’s a great way to express your feelings safely and anonymously. Writing provides many wonderful therapeutic benefits. Sometimes we just need to get our thoughts out without the person the words were intended for ever laying eyes on them. With the Imperfect Ink platform, that’s exactly what you can do. So if you write that love letter to your crush and decide you don’t actually want them to read it, send it to Imperfect Ink so your words can still be appreciated in one way or another.

Frequently Asked Questions

Begin your love letter with a personable romantic greeting. Then share why you’re writing to them, describing the love you feel and your future with them before signing off with your signature. If you’re not ready to hand deliver your love letter to your crush, go ahead and post it anonymously on Imperfect Ink , a platform for sharing your hidden thoughts.

Start your love letter with a romantic greeting. The most important thing is to choose a greeting that fits your relationship dynamic and to choose something the person you're writing the letter to will love and appreciate. Find inspiration on Imperfect Ink .

When writing a love letter to your partner, tell them why you love them and highlight how being with them makes your life better. Be loving with your words, and be sure to compliment them as much as you can throughout the letter. Write about a romantic memory the two of you share and let them know why it's one of the favorite memories you two share. Go to Imperfect Ink for love letter inspiration.

You can end your love letter with Forever Yours, Thinking of You, xoxo, Kisses, Miss You, I want You, Affectionately, Fondly or read these love letters for inspiration.

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The Best Romantic Love Letters Ever Written

By HowAboutWe and Glamour

Writing romantic love letters can feel like a prehistoric practice in an age where we classify a 2 a.m. “you up?” text as “romance.” But there was once a time in our not so distance past where eloquent prose professing a burning affection (and written by hand!) was the norm. And not just the stuff of sensitive, heterosexual artist types either. History is filled with achingly romantic love letters between two women and between two men, from former kings, presidents, and war generals, and to between two best friends. 

For a little inspiration to warm your cold Tinder-hardened heart, we've rounded up the 10 most romantic love letters of all time, from George H.W. Bush's sweet notes to his wife Barbara, to the steamy letters between Virginia Woolf and her female lover. Here: A master class in affectionate prose.

1. Ernest Hemingway to Marlene Dietrich

Nobel Prize-winning American novelist Ernest Hemingway was a prolific, confident writer, famed for his stoic masculinity. But in his letters to actress Marlene Dietrich, he shows a more vulnerable side. Hemingway wrote Dietrich, his best friend, approximately 30 letters between 1949 to 1959.  "I can't say how every time I ever put my arms around you I felt that I was home," he wrote in one. (Dietrich's daughter, Maria Riva, maintained in a New York Times article that the two were merely close friends.)

2. Napoleon to Joséphine

While known for his ruthlessness as a ruler, French emperor Napoleon Bonaparte also possessed a softer side. In letters to his wife, Joséphine, the military leader reveals a vulnerability not found in his autocratic approach to expanding the French empire. Before you swoon: he divorced her when she could not have children. But Napoleon still continued to write to Joséphine for years after their separation. In one particular letter, penned while Napoleon was commanding the French army near Italy a few months after their marriage, he expressed how much he missed his wife.

"Since I left you, I have been constantly depressed. My happiness is to be near you. Incessantly I live over in my memory your caresses, your tears, your affectionate solicitude. The charms of the incomparable Joséphine kindle continually a burning and a glowing flame in my heart. When, free from all solicitude, all harassing care, shall I be able to pass all my time with you, having only to love you, and to think only of the happiness of so saying, and of proving it to you?"

3. Frida Kahlo to Diego Rivera

It's no secret that Frida Kahlo and her husband, fellow artist Diego Rivera, had a tempestuous relationship, but in her love letters to Rivera, you see only an intense love. Kahlo's letters to Rivera stretch across the 27-year span of the couple's relationship, and underscore the powerful if tumultuous connection the two shared. In one letter from The Diary of Frida Kahlo: An Intimate Self-Portrait , Kahlo wrote of that deep emotional intimacy.

"Nothing compares to your hands, nothing like the green-gold of your eyes. My body is filled with you for days and days. You are the mirror of the night. The violent flash of lightning. The dampness of the earth. The hollow of your armpits is my shelter. My fingers touch your blood. All my joy is to feel life spring from your flower-fountain that mine keeps to fill all the paths of my nerves which are yours."

4. Georgia O'Keeffe to Alfred Stieglitz

Another artist who excelled at writing spicy love letters: famed painter, Georgia O'Keeffe. Over the course of her 30-year romance with celebrated photographer Alfred Stieglitz, O'Keeffe exchanged more than 5,000 letters (that's roughly 25,000 pages) on everything from the mundane ongoings of her daily life to some of her more passionate encounters with Stieglitz. In all, the letters show a far more seductive side to the artist than her flowery paintings may initially suggest.

"Dearest — my body is simply crazy with wanting you — If you don't come tomorrow — I don't see how I can wait for you — I wonder if your body wants mine the way mine wants yours — the kisses — the hotness — the wetness — all melting together — the being held so tight that it hurts — the strangle and the struggle."

5. Beethoven to his "Immortal Beloved"

The identity of Beethoven’s “Immortal Beloved,” to whom the iconic composer and pianist wrote a number of letters in 1812, is still largely a mystery. But the letters themselves paint a very vivid picture of an epic love story. Many historians believe Beethoven's "Beloved" to have been a diplomat’s daughter, named Antonie Brentano, to whom the composer dedicated his "Diabelli Variations Op. 120." In one of his letters found after his death—which was famously quoted in the Sex and the City movie—he wrote:

"Though still in bed, my thoughts go out to you, my Immortal Beloved, Be calm-love me-today-yesterday-what tearful longings for you-you-you-my life-my all-farewell. Oh continue to love me-never misjudge the most faithful heart of your beloved. Ever thine. Ever mine. Ever ours."

6. George H. W. Bush to Barbara Bush

Late U.S. President George H. W. Bush was surprisingly romantic in his letters to his wife, Barbara. In 1942, on the heels of World War II, Bush enlisted in the Navy, and while stationed overseas, wrote letters to both his parents and to his then-girlfriend, Barbara Pierce. To this day, only one love letter to Barbara remains from the former president's time overseas, as Barbara reportedly lost the majority of her letters in a move after the pair were married. In the surviving letter, Bush joyfully explained how he envisioned the couple's future.

"This should be a very easy letter to write—words should come easily and in short it should be simple for me to tell you how desperately happy I was to open the paper and see the announcement of our engagement, but somehow I can't possibly say all in a letter I should like to. I love you, precious, with all my heart and to know that you love me means my life. How often I have thought about the immeasurable joy that will be ours some day. How lucky our children will be to have a mother like you..."

7. Ronald Reagan to Nancy Reagan

Another former President whose romantic writings are worth mentioning: Ronald Reagan. In a letter to his wife, Nancy, in 1972, prior to their 20th anniversary, Reagan (who, at the time and prior to his presidency, was serving as the Governor of California) penned a romantic note to his wife expressing his undying love for her, and explaining that he never wants to leave her side.

"The important thing is I don't want to be without you for the next 20 years, or 40, or however many there are. I've gotten very used to being happy and I love you very much indeed."

8. Oscar Wilde to Lord Alfred Douglas

In June of 1891, Irish poet and playwright Oscar Wilde met Lord Alfred “Bosie” Douglas , a then-21-year-old Oxford undergraduate and talented poet, who would come to be the author’s muse and lover. In fact, it was during the course of their affair that Wilde wrote Salomé and the four great plays which, to this day, are the cornerstone of his literary legacy. Unfortunately their relationship was not accepted at the time and the duo carried on their affair in secret. Wilde's surviving letters, luckily, make the enduring power of their love clear. 

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“Everyone is furious with me for going back to you, but they don't understand us. I feel that it is only with you that I can do anything at all,” Wilde wrote. "Do remake my ruined life for me, and then our friendship and love will have a different meaning to the world. I wish that when we met at Rouen we had not parted at all. There are such wide abysses now of space and land between us. But we love each other."

9. Henry VIII to Anne Boleyn

The King of England for 38 years, Henry VIII wrote his lover, Anne Boleyn , a collection of secret, romantic letters which still survive today. Henry was a despotic ruler with six wives—two of whom he beheaded, including Anne. But he was also noted as a great romantic, as shown in the letters Henry wrote Anne during their years-long courtship. 

“But if you please to do the office of a true loyal mistress and friend, and to give up yourself body and heart to me, who will be, and have been, your most loyal servant, (if your rigour does not forbid me) I promise you that not only the name shall be given you, but also that I will take you for my only mistress, casting off all others besides you out of my thoughts and affections, and serve you only,” he wrote. "I beseech you to give an entire answer to this my rude letter, that I may know on what and how far I may depend. And if it does not please you to answer me in writing, appoint some place where I may have it by word of mouth, and I will go thither with all my heart. No more, for fear of tiring you."

10. Vita Sackville-West to Virginia Woolf

Celebrated writer Virginia Woolf and English poet Vita Sackville-West exchanged a series of love letters to each another that were, unsurprisingly, beautifully written. But it was perhaps a letter from Vita, sent from Milan on January 21, 1927, that offers the clearest, most unguarded, glimpse into their love story. Unlike Woolf's flowery, ornate prose, West is far more straightforward: "I just miss you, in a quite simple desperate human way."

“I am reduced to a thing that wants Virginia,” she wrote. "I composed a beautiful letter to you in the sleepless nightmare hours of the night, and it has all gone: I just miss you, in a quite simple desperate human way. You, with all your undumb letters, would never write so elementary a phrase as that; perhaps you wouldn’t even feel it. And yet I believe you’ll be sensible of a little gap. But you’d clothe it in so exquisite a phrase that it should lose a little of its reality. Whereas with me it is quite stark: I miss you even more than I could have believed; and I was prepared to miss you a good deal. So this letter is really just a squeal of pain. It is incredible how essential to me you have become. I suppose you are accustomed to people saying these things. Damn you, spoilt creature; I shan’t make you love me any more by giving myself away like this — But oh my dear, I can’t be clever and stand-offish with you: I love you too much for that. Too truly. You have no idea how stand-offish I can be with people I don’t love. I have brought it to a fine art. But you have broken down my defenses. And I don’t really resent it."

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How to Write a Love Letter

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This article was co-authored by Crista Beck . Crista Beck is a Dating and Relationship Coach and Matchmaker. With over a decade of experience, she specializes in helping people become open to love and find a partner. Crista has been featured in numerous media sources such as ABC, NBC, Fox, and TEDx. She is also the author of the book, Break The Glass Slipper: Free Yourself from Fairy Tale Fantasies and Find True Love in Real Life. Crista holds a BS in Communication Studies with a focus on Interpersonal Communication from The University of Texas at Austin. This article has been fact-checked, ensuring the accuracy of any cited facts and confirming the authority of its sources. This article has been viewed 2,670,875 times.

Everyone seems to use text messages and emails to communicate to each other these days. So there’s something about a good, old-fashioned love letter—especially a handwritten one—that makes it a rare and special treat. Love letters are keepsakes that can be held, reread and cherished. They are the perfect gift for someone you love. Writing a love letter is not hard but it takes some time and contemplation to express your true feelings.

Preparing to Write Your Letter

• Maybe there is a song that reminds you of the person you love. Find that song and play it while you think.
• You can also bring a picture of your love with you to look at.

• Think about what your significant other is to you? Your best friend? Your soul mate? Make a list of everything you appreciate and adore about your partner.
• Now create sentences with your list. “I love how soft your hands feel in mine,” or “I love the way you look at me and let me know everything will be all right,” or perhaps, “Your smile and easy laughter can make my whole day.”
• Don’t just focus on physical characteristics. This can make the letter feel shallow and incomplete. You don’t want to completely avoid physical attraction in your letter either, though, because then it can feel a little too platonic. Love letters are meant to be tastefully sensual and respectful—not necessarily erotic.

• Think about the story of when you two first met or felt sparks fly. There was a moment in time when you knew you wanted to be with that person. Write down that story and everything you remember about it—from the clothing they were wearing to the place it happened and how nervous or confident you felt about approaching them.

Drafting the Love Letter

• Take your time and don’t rush. If this is the first love letter you have ever written, then keep that in mind. There is a learning curve for everything, so accept that you may have some difficulties or make mistakes.
• Use your own voice to express how you feel. Don’t imitate the way someone else writes or speaks. You want this message to be uniquely yours and to reach your partner the way only you can. It must be sincere and reflect the real you on paper.
• Keep your partner in mind as you write your letter as well as the level of your relationship. Declaring your love to someone for the first time will probably be a little different on paper than writing a letter to your wife of 20 years.
• Remember to state your love somewhere in the letter. A simple "I love you" works just fine.

• Don’t insult your lover or depreciate yourself or your feelings in the letter. Be confident about how you feel and what you are saying to avoid confusion. [5] X Research source

• The goal of the love letter is to express very deep feelings that you have a hard time conveying in person. Take this opportunity to say more than you usually say and to take it to a deeper level. Use the ideas you jotted down earlier to guide you.
• If you don’t write poetry, consider including a poem from a favorite poet or a quote that expresses more of what you’re trying to say. Always give the writer credit to avoid looking like you tried to steal it and trick your partner into believing it was yours.
• If you want to be cheesy, go ahead. Just be authentic, and if your partner loves you, he or she will love your letter too.

• A good way to keep your letter positive is to talk about how you feel right now. Yes, you want to go over those special stories about how you fell in love but you also want to be sure your partner knows that you still feel strongly for them or even more so.
• Try something like, “Now, a decade later, I still get butterflies when you smile at me,” or "I love you more now than I ever have before."

Finishing Your Letter

• If you don’t have any stationery, a piece of plain or notebook paper will do fine as well. The message is definitely more important than the type of paper you write on.
• You can make regular paper look old or even make your own paper if you want to do something fun.
• Use either a black or brown ink to keep the writing grounded and classy-looking. Avoid “teacher colors” like blue, green, and red that will make it look like you’re marking up a homework assignment.

• If you want to be a bit more romantic, try a simple but passionate farewell. "With undying love" or "Forever yours" can work well.

• Alternatively, roll the letter up like a scroll and tie it closed with a piece of nice ribbon or string.
• A romantic stamp, such as the Garden Bouquet stamp, can add a lovely embellishment to your envelope. If you want to, put the stamp upside down, which customarily means, "I love you."

• You may want to wait a little while before you send out your letter. After you have finished, put it away and check it before it is time to send it out. Look for errors and make sure there is nothing that you will regret later in there. Then send it out, and be prepared for a passionate response to your labor of love.

Sample Love Letters

Expert Q&A

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To write a love letter, choose a nice piece of paper or stationary to show that you took your time with the letter. As you begin writing, start with an intimate opening, like “To My Dearest” or “To My Lovely.” After you address your beloved, tell them why you’re writing the letter. For example, you might write “I’ve been thinking a lot about how much I love you, and I want you to know that I cherish you.” In the body of the letter, share memories or stories that show your love and appreciation. Then, talk about your future together before ending your letter with a positive statement that describes how you feel, like “I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with you.” To learn how to add a personal touch to your love letter, keep reading! Did this summary help you? Yes No

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30 Love Letter Prompts for a Note They'll Treasure Forever

Make your special person smile (or even cry some happy tears) with these sweet and simple love letter starters.

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It's not always easy to put your feelings into words, but writing a love letter is actually easier than you might expect. All it takes is a few inspirational love letter prompts to get your pen moving over the paper and your feelings down on the page. Pretty soon, you'll have your special someone smiling or even dabbing away a tear when they read what you've written.

Cute Prompts for Writing a Love Letter

Write a message that's almost as adorable as they are with these love letter prompts for boyfriends, girlfriends, or partners. These sweet ideas make it easy to get started, whether you're writing a longer message or need a short love note prompt to inspire you.

• When do you think your someone is cute, even when they aren't aware of it?
• What are the three most adorable qualities your loved one has?
• Talk about a moment your partner did something super funny and why you thought that was cute.
• What is your pet name for your special someone? How did you choose it?
• Think of a favorite food and tell all the ways your boyfriend or girlfriend are even better than that treat.
• What's your favorite part of their body? Why do you find it adorable?
• What do they do that makes you laugh?
• If you were going to describe your girlfriend or boyfriend to someone else, how would you get the other person to realize how cute they are?
• What makes your partner happy? How do you feel when you make them happy?
• What's the most adorable memory you have of your time together so far?
• What are all the reasons you love them? What quirky things do you love?
• 16 Heartfelt Love Letters for Your Boyfriend to Make Him Melt
• 16 Romantic Love Letter Examples & Ideas to Inspire You
• Decoding Common Types of Love and Relationships

Getting started is the hardest part about writing a love letter, but once you begin writing, it gets easier. One good way to start a love letter is with a really specific compliment about the person's features or personality. This gets their attention and lets them know how special you think they are.

Touching Love Letter Prompts for Him, Her, or Them

Want to write a love letter that will make them cry? If you want to write a really touching love letter to your husband , wife , partner, or anyone else, it's all about being vulnerable and sharing those things that really matter to you.

We love these heartfelt prompts that can help you get started:

• What was the moment you knew this relationship was special?
• What does this person do that makes you feel truly seen?
• How has your love inspired you to be a better person?
• How has this person been there when you really needed them? Why did that matter so much to you?
• How did your partner teach you about love? What have you learned together?
• Describe the moment you realized you needed your partner in your life.
• What are some of the ways you imagine the two of you having a future together?
• Is there something about the person that makes your heart skip a beat? What do you think is miraculous about them?
• What specific things do you treasure most about your relationship?
• When have you seen your special someone overcome something really difficult? What did this tell you about them?

Deep Love Letter Prompts to Help You Open Up

If your connection is very deep and significant, it can be difficult to know what to write in a love letter to convey that depth of feeling. These powerful prompts will help you share those deep, meaningful thoughts with your girlfriend, boyfriend, or significant other:

• What is something that reminds you of the depth of your love for your partner? Use nature, outer space, or anything else you choose and describe how that thing is like your love.
• What are some of the ways this person inspires you every day?
• What are you grateful for about your partner?
• How does this person make you feel loved? How do you hope you make them feel?
• What is something about your partner that you see and appreciate but they don't know about themselves?
• How has this person changed your life?
• Have you gone through something challenging together? What did you learn about your relationship from that experience?
• When you imagine your life without this person, how do you feel? What about when you think about them in your life forever?
• What is it about this person that makes you feel emotionally safe?
• How do you know this is the kind of love that lasts?
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Love Letters That Come From the Heart

Love letter prompts can help you get started writing, but it's also helpful to look at examples of love letters for even more inspiration. Take some time to think about the person you love and brainstorm some of the specific things that make them so amazing. Then pick up your pen, and get started. No matter what you write, they'll love it if it comes from the heart.

Love Letters

Back in the day, love letters weren’t considered something unusual. Men declared their love with handwritten letters. Ladies sent them to their loved ones, waiting for them to return from wars. The digital era has made our communication easier and more convenient. When was the last time you took a pen and wrote to somebody? Admit it, it’s much more convenient to print the text and instantly send it in one click via email. Still, note there is something deep and fascinating in the handwritten lines and love that you can’t convey through a standard message via email. Even if you aren’t used to writing a love letter on paper, it doesn’t really matter. More importantly, the letter is written from the heart, even if it is electronic. We’ve collected good examples of beautiful and sincere love letters for all occasions. Use them to surprise and delight your loved one or be inspired to write your own love letter. One thing we know for sure – he or she will be completely enchanted after receiving your love note.

The most romantic love letters

Is Valentine’s day coming up or are you preparing for your anniversary? Check out the ideas of the romantic love letters for him or her. Write them on a beautiful postcard and they will be a great addition to the gift (just don’t forget to prepare a gift itself!). Beautiful and romantic letters of love are a great chance to share your sincere feelings and unconditional love.

• Sweetheart, No one bring so much happiness to my life as you. In your company, I find love that I have never known before. I can’t imagine what my life would be without you. I want to spend the rest of my life with you. You have given me so much love and encouragement that I don’t think I will be able to return all that to you. You have been lighting up the dark and bringing joy to my heart. When I am with you I feel alive and strong. Yours,
• Love of my life, I cannot believe another year has passed. It feels like we just met yesterday, but at the same time it feels like I have known you all my life. You make time meaningless. In fact, you make everything else feel meaningless because the only thing that matters is you. You have brought so much light into my life. I would be lost without your torch. Thank you for everything you have done for me — and thank you for helping me grow into the woman I have become.
• Dear, Every time I see your name pop on my screen, I can’t help but grin. You have really touched my heart, and you make every day brighter with your comments, thoughts, opinions and the way you share them all with me. I wonder if we could talk like that in person – share those thoughts, that laughter and that fun together. The truth is, I think I’m falling in love with you, and if you feel the same way, I think we should get together and see where this relationship goes. Hopefully more than your friend
• Honey, you know with you by my side, my day seems happier and full of love. When I heard that you never felt so much in love, I just wanted to be with you, to hug and kiss you until we both ran out of breath. I must be the luckiest girl in the world because I have your love. Every time I think about you, I can’t help but smile. You’re the reason I smile all the time now. I love you, Honey. I heard that you cherish everything between you and me. That’s really great. I never thought I would have such a lasting influence on you.

Sweet love letters to write to someone you love

With the help of sweet love letters, you can say so much to someone you love – to thank him or her for having appeared in your life and made it better and more colorful; to share pleasant and beautiful memories; to express your affection, warmth and care. This is a reason to touch your loved one and to get a few more words in response. Words of love.

• Beloved, The moment that I first saw you, you were standing in the middle of the crowd, laughing and talking to a friend. There was something about you, maybe it was in the way you laughed or the way your eyes lit up, and I knew that there was this undeniable attraction that I felt for you. I was shy, nervous and I hesitated just a little bit when I asked you to dance with me. We were strangers and, when you said yes, I swear my heart skipped a beat. Ever since that night, I have known that we were destined to be together and not a day goes by when your love does not prove me right. I love you, much more that you can imagine, and I just want you to stay mine forever.
• To my forever person, I love us. We’re the cutest. I know that sounds braggy, but I mean it when I say that I think we make the perfect couple. We understand each other. We listen to each other. We inspire each other to become stronger with each passing day. Happy anniversary. I cannot wait to spend another year alongside you, because there is no place I would rather be. You’re stuck with me. You better remember that!
• I know I am bad at expressing my love but I so want to do this. You have changed me for real. You have changed something inside me, I don’t think I was used to this before I met you. I was so lost in my thoughts, you have made me realized the power of my thoughts. You have had the most magical affect on my life. When I am with you I don’t think about anything else, but your love. I want to truly confess my love to you, you have been the most important part of my life and will remain in time. I truly love you!

The best love letters of all time

You don’t need to wait for a special occasion or right time to do something romantic. Make a surprise for your loved one! For example, you can send a letter through postal service put a letter under the pillow, in the closet or on the plate during dinner or breakfast. With the help of the best love letters, every day can be made special.

• What we have together is unique. It is a special bond that is strong and unbreakable. We can make it through anything we encounter and we only grow stronger from the trials we face together. Together, we are strong. Being with you has made me a better person and I can’t believe that I found you. Ever since I met you, I never want to let you go. The attraction that you and I share is one that is so intense and I never want to be separated from you.
• I need you, my fairy-tale. Because you are the only person I can talk with about the shade of a cloud, about the song of a thought — and about how, when I went out to work today and looked a tall sunflower in the face, it smiled at me with all of its seeds.
• Though still in bed, my thoughts go out to you, my Immortal Beloved, Be calm – love me – today – yesterday – what tearful longings for you – you – you – my life – my all–farewell. Oh continue to love me – never misjudge the most faithful heart of your beloved. Ever thine. Ever mine. Ever ours.

Old love letters

You may think that writing a love letter is very difficult, but believe us, it’s not. All you need to write a great love letter is a bit of inspiration. We have found for you the perfect love letters of famous people that will surely inspire you!

• “Since I left you, I have been constantly depressed. My happiness is to be near you. Incessantly I live over in my memory your caresses, your tears, your affectionate solicitude. Your charms kindle continually a burning and a glowing flame in my heart. When, free from all solicitude, all harassing care, shall I be able to pass all my time with you, having only to love you, and to think only of the happiness of so saying, and of proving it to you?” Napoleon
• “Nothing compares to your hands, nothing like the green-gold of your eyes. My body is filled with you for days and days. You are the mirror of the night. The violent flash of lightning. The dampness of the earth. The hollow of your armpits is my shelter. My fingers touch your blood. All my joy is to feel life spring from your flower-fountain that mine keeps to fill all the paths of my nerves which are yours.” Frida Kahlo
• “Everyone is furious with me for going back to you, but they don’t understand us. I feel that it is only with you that I can do anything at all. Do remake my ruined life for me, and then our friendship and love will have a different meaning to the world. I wish that when we met at Rouen we had not parted at all. There are such wide abysses now of space and land between us. But we love each other.” Oscar Wilde

How much I love you letters

In the era of text messages and hasty e-mail, “I love you” letters, especially handwritten ones, can be considered a rare and special gift. Believe us, your sweetheart will appreciate this gift and will reread the lines of your message filled with love and tenderness for a long time.

• You have no idea how you’ve changed my life. I used to feel so alone and afraid in this world. I didn’t believe I could find someone who could truly love me for who I am. I never thought that I could find that one person who can revive my faith in everything. And yet here you are, the pillar of strength that keeps me going, the light that guides me towards a better future. You can’t imagine how much of an impact you’ve made in my life. I can only hope to do the same for you. I want to be that person for you if you’d let me. I love you so much that I won’t stop until I’ve made sure that you’re the happiest man on earth.
• To my soulmate, I love you. I love you. I love you. I can never say those three words enough and unfortunately I feel like you haven’t heard them at all lately. I’m sorry about that. I’ve been so overwhelmed with work that I haven’t had the time to give you much attention, but that will change soon. You know why? Because I love you. I love you. I love you.
• Darling dearest, I tell you how much I love you all the time, but I never really explain why I feel that way, so I’m going to do that now. I love the way your voice sounds when you say my name. I love the way your smile tilts when you’re trying not to laugh. I love the way your kisses feel against my neck. I love the way your voice sounds, even if you hate it. I love the man you were when I met you and I love the man I can see you growing into. I love every version of you. I love every messy piece.

Cute love letter ideas

You don’t need to be serious to talk about feelings. Love letters don’t need to be too long, complex and filled with banal hackneyed phrases. Just be yourself when you write a romantic note, express your own thoughts and feelings and your loved one will appreciate it. We offer you some cute ideas of the love letters!

• Baby, I wish I could be there to help you relax. I wish I could take away all the tiredness you feel and replace it with joy and happiness. I wish I could help soothe your mind. But in the meantime, while we’re not in each other’s presence, I hope this letter is enough to lift your spirits. Always remember that I’m thinking of you every moment of the day. And if only thinking about you could help you feel energized and awake, I’m sure you’ll never feel tired again!
• My dearest (does that sound too corny?) I wanted to write you a love letter, but it’s going to sound more like a thank you note. Maybe it’s both. I want to thank you for washing the dishes when I forget my dirty ones are still in the sink. I want to thank you for agreeing to watch shitty reality shows with me and letting me pick the songs during car rides even though we have completely different tastes. I want to thank you for all of the hugs you have offered me to squeeze the sadness out and all of the pep talks you have given me when I doubted myself. Most of all, I want to thank you for existing. Thank you for being my partner. Thank you for being my best friend in the world.
• Honey, I don’t want to wait until your birthday or our anniversary to remind you how much you mean to me. Hint: You mean everything. I know I don’t always say how I’m feeling because I have a nasty habit of keeping my heart guarded, but I hope you realize how much I care about you. I never thought it was possible to have this much love for someone, I never thought my heart could handle it. I know there are days when we argue and don’t see eye-to-eye, but you are the only person I would want to have those arguments with. (Besides, the make up sex isn’t half bad).
• Cutie pie, You are lucky you’re cute because you drive me insane. Even when you forget to put your folded laundry into their drawers or leave the kitty litter dirty for days at a time (sound familiar?), I still want to throw you against the wall and have my way with you. Is that weird? Or does that just mean I’m madly in love? Maybe it’s both.

Long meaningful love letters

If you find it difficult to write a love letter by yourself, pick up one of these ready-made beautiful and meaningful love letters. Choose exactly the words that have long wanted to say to him or her!

• I hate it when we have to be apart. It’s the most unnatural thing. When we first met, I knew that I had found my soulmate, and yet here we are being kept apart by circumstances. But I just want to look at the bright side of this. When this is over and we can be together again, we can say that this made our relationship stronger. We can say that even distance is no match for the love between us. We can tell everyone that we’re stronger than those few miles between us. But as reassuring as that may be, we still need to face the fact that we’ll be apart for a while. I miss being with you and being around and kissing you. I’ll miss the sound of your laugh, and the way your head tilts back when you can’t hold back. I’ll miss holding your hand as we sit around and do nothing. I’ll miss it all, but that just makes me look forward even more to the day that I get to see you again in person. So until then, here’s a letter to get you by. I love you and I’ll see you soon.
• Dear I know we’ve only known each other for a few months now, but I’ve just got to let you know how I feel. From the first day we met, it was like I’ve known you forever, and I’m kind of shy so that’s saying a lot. You were just so nice, and you made me feel at ease right away. That’s the kind of guy you are, though, nice to everyone. I don’t think I’ve ever heard you say anything mean about anyone, and that’s kind of rare among our friends, don’t you think? Anyway, it just makes me realize how special you truly are. So, I’m kind of nervous about saying this, but here goes. I really like you. Not just as my friend, but as a guy that I’d like to be my boyfriend. Maybe I should have waited for you to say something first, but I just couldn’t wait any longer. I’ve wanted to tell you for weeks, but I didn’t have the courage until now. I hope you feel the same way about me. I’ll be sitting on the bleachers after school, and I hope you’ll meet me there.
• I don’t know where I should start! Let me start by saying, I love you. I have loved you for as long as I can remember. I guess the first time I told you was when I realized how much you meant to me. We have known each other for years now. Once we got together, I couldn’t believe how good things were going. It was too good to be true. It was perfect in the beginning. I loved you, and you loved me. I felt like that’s the way it should still be. I know we’ve been through tough times. And because of that I think we have become stronger than we know. We have lasted a good while together, too. I’m so incredibly sorry for everything that I did wrong. I wish you could just tell me, and I would change it all. I want you to know that you are someone I will never ever forget. I loved you, and still love you, and will always love you, no matter what. We’ve been through a lot. But that love is still there. I hope you find happiness. I hope all your dreams come true. You deserve a lot.

Beautiful love letters

Who said that a love letter must be written by hand? You can boldly send it by email! Choose a beautiful love letter for your girlfriend or boyfriend from our collection, copy it and send. This is a great way to show your attention, to say that you miss him or her, congratulate on a holiday or once again remind him or her of your feelings.

• My Love, There are a thousand ways to say I love you around the world, but only one way to prove it and that is by actions. You have proved that you love me unconditionally time and again. You were that one person who was by my side when all the world was against me. I have known ever since that day that you were the one for me. I try to love you and take care of you as much and as well as I can. I hope you know that I have the best intentions always, so forgive me if I ever hurt you or caused you pain. I love you for now until forever and will never leave your side.
• My tenderness, my happiness, what words can I write for you? How strange that although my life’s work is moving a pen over paper, I don’t know how to tell you how I love, how I desire you. Such agitation — and such divine peace: melting clouds immersed in sunshine — mounds of happiness. And I am floating with you, in you, aflame and melting — and a whole life with you is like the movement of clouds, their airy, quiet falls, their lightness and smoothness, and the heavenly variety of outline and tint — my inexplicable love. I cannot express these cirrus-cumulus sensations.
• Dear, Tonight is our senior prom, and I just know it’s going to be the most special night of our lives. How do I know that? Because the most special girl in the world is my date. I can’t wait to see how beautiful you look in your dress. I know you took a long time picking it out. I bought you a corsage to go with it, but you’ll have to wait until tonight to see it. One thing I know for sure, a lot of girls are going to get mad at their dates tonight when they can’t take their eyes off of you. Be prepared for an amazing evening, and know that I love you.
• When we first met, you and I were both emerging from unhappy relationships, but we helped each through them. We confided in one another, we comforted one another, and we healed one another. We built strong trust and communication and, before long, we were deeply in love. I fall deeper in love with you every day. I can’t tell you how much you mean to me, or how much I love to just be with you. You make me smile and laugh out loud! You make me feel comfortable, confident, and protected. For the first time in my life, I feel whole and fully alive, and it’s all because of you. I love you!

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75 Sweet, Romantic, And Emotional Love Letters For My Love

Love letters have always been a sweet and thoughtful way to express feelings. Even in today’s modern age, writing love letters for your partner can spark romantic vibes .

Don’t hesitate to express your emotions in these letters. In this article, we’ll give you tips on how to write a love letter and share a collection of emotional and romantic letters to send to the love of your life.

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Practical Tips For Writing A Love Letter

Writing a love letter can be tricky, but here are some simple tips to help you:

✅ Begin by addressing your beloved with a term of endearment or a simple ‘My dear’. ✅ Clearly express the reason for your letter, whether it’s a special occasion or simply to share your emotions. ✅ Pour your heart out sincerely, reminiscing about a cherished memory or acknowledging their impact on your life. ✅ Be genuine in listing the qualities you admire and explaining how they’ve made your life better. ✅ Share your aspirations for the future together, showcasing your commitment. ✅ Finally, end with promises of love or a light-hearted remark, sealing the letter with affection.

Romantic And Emotional Love Letters

❤️ Sweetie,

Remember the day we first met? It’s still crystal clear in my mind. That day changed everything for me because you walked into my life, making everything beautiful. Since then, I’ve been a happy man, surrounded by your love, positivity, and devotion. I hope you’ll always stay close, continuing to make me feel lucky every single day. With love,

[Your Name]

I hope this letter brings a smile to your face. I want to express my gratitude for your efforts in keeping our relationship strong and joyful. In every relationship, disagreements are normal, but it’s how we handle them that strengthens our bond. Thank you for your maturity and understanding. I appreciate your trust in me and your guidance when I needed it. I love you and look forward to continuing to build our happy marriage together.

Yours sincerely,

❤️ My Dearest,

You are the most important part of my life. I can’t imagine a future without you because you are my soulmate. You give my life purpose, and for that, I’m endlessly grateful.

I love you forever,

There’s something extraordinary about you that makes me fall in love with you every day. You’ve given my life direction and purpose. My love for you grows stronger with each passing day. I can’t imagine my life without you because you are my everything.

With all my love,

❤️ Dearest Love,

I believe we’re meant to be together. Being with you makes my heart dance with joy. I never want these feelings to end.

❤️ Darling,

Falling in love with you has been the best thing that’s ever happened to me. I feel incredibly lucky to have you. I promise to always be there for you, making you happy and keeping you smiling.

Do you remember watching “Sleepless in Seattle” together? Remember when Sam Baldwin says, “ I knew it the first time I saw her. It was like coming home, only to no home I’d ever known. I was just taking her hand to help her out of a car, and I knew. It was…magic.” ? That perfectly describes how I feel about you every day. Thank you for brightening my life.

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❤️ My Beloved,

We complement each other perfectly, making us stronger together. I’ll always be there for you, giving me strength like no other.

Words can’t fully express my feelings for you. You are like a dream come true, and with you, I feel complete and happy.

Yours always,

❤️ My Sweetheart,

You bring me so much joy and happiness that I often find myself tearing up with gratitude for having you in my life.

With love and gratitude,

Since the day I met you, I’ve been captivated by you more and more. Your smile makes me happy, holding you feels like holding my entire world. I’m blessed to have you as my girlfriend.

Remember that quote from your favorite movie, “The Fault In Our Stars”? They say, “You don’t get to choose if you get hurt in this world, old man, but you do have some say in who hurts you.” I deeply regret hurting you and promise to do better. Please find it in your heart to forgive me.

❤️ My Dear Love,

Our relationship feels unbreakable. Knowing you’re always there for me gives me immense comfort.

Loving you always,

I know you dislike doing the dishes, but I appreciate everything you do, especially when I’m not feeling well. Your selflessness is the truest form of love. I promise to help out more and treat you to a special homemade dinner.

With love and appreciation,

I Love You Letters For Her

❤️ My dear honey,

I’ve found my true love and best friend in you. Your understanding, support, love, and care mean more to me than words can express. I thank the heavens for sending me an angel like you, who fills my heart with happiness and love. I promise to cherish and protect our love because you are the most precious gift in my life.

Your beloved, Name

❤️ Dearest,

I can’t believe I’ll soon call you my wife. My love for you is beyond measure. This love letter is to tell my future wife that I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with you, sharing all the moments, big and small.

Soon to be your husband,

❤️ Sweetheart,

When we walk together hand in hand, I feel like the happiest and strongest man alive. Your gaze makes me feel like I can conquer anything. Thank you for always believing in me and bringing out the best in me.

I love you endlessly.

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❤️ My dear,

You’re carrying our child, and I can’t thank you enough for this incredible gift. I’m here for you always, ready to help in any way I can. I understand the challenges your body and heart are going through, and I want to support you in every possible way.

Truly yours,

❤️ My love,

As I write this letter, tears of happiness and emotion fill my eyes. Words can’t capture how much you mean to me. You are my sunshine, my guiding light, and the center of my universe. Thank you for choosing me every day. Sending you all my love and hugs.

You’re not just my partner; you’re my best friend. Having you by my side has made everything easier. Your understanding nature has brought immense joy into my life, and I’m incredibly grateful for you.

Yours forever,

Every day with you feels like a beautiful adventure since you said ‘Yes’ to being my girlfriend. Your smile brightens my day, your laughter is music to my ears, and your presence is a warm embrace I never want to let go of. Thank you for being mine.

❤️ My dear darling,

Every moment with you has been precious since we started dating. From our first nervous date to sharing our dreams and fears, every memory is etched in my heart forever. I’ll carry them with me always.

Yours truly,

It’s been 21 days since I last saw you, and I miss you terribly. This long-distance relationship isn’t easy, but I want you to know I’m counting the days until we’re together again. Planning a surprise weekend getaway for us, and I hope you’ll love it.

This year, we faced a significant challenge together. Despite sickness and the negativity of the pandemic, you’ve been my rock, both mentally and physically. I’m filled with immense gratitude for having you in my life.

Financial troubles are common, but your unwavering support during my job loss due to the pandemic means everything to me. I couldn’t have asked for a better partner. I love you dearly.

At the party yesterday, everyone admired your beauty and fitness. I told you the same, but I want to express my appreciation again for all the effort you put into looking lovely for yourself and for me. I’m proud to have you as my wife.

I Love You Letters For Him

❤️ My Love,

I’m really happy about our strong bond. It feels like we can tackle anything together. Knowing you always have my back is a big comfort.

Love always,

❤️ My Dearest Love,

Falling in love with you was so easy. It’s like our souls recognized each other, and now we’re inseparable. Your kind heart makes me want to be with you even more.

Your Forever,

❤️ To My Everything,

I don’t think I can ever fully express how much your love means to me. There just isn’t enough time. But if I could, I’d give you the world.

All my love,

❤️ Dear Lovely,

The way you look at me sets me on fire. When I see love in your eyes, it surrounds me. I could spend forever with you looking at me like that.

I love you so much,

❤️ To the Only One for Me,

I choose you no matter what happens in life. You’ve given me your heart, and I’ll always take care of it.

❤️ To My Sweetest Love,

Just seeing your face makes me incredibly happy. Our love is amazing, and I can’t wait to explore it together.

With all my heart,

❤️ To the One Who Has My Heart,

When I first saw you, I knew you were the one for me. I love you endlessly.

Forever yours,

❤️ My Kind and Humble Man,

I might not be great with words, but I’m so proud to be with you. You’re humble and kind, everything I could ask for.

Love you always,

❤️ Hey Sweetie-Pie,

Life has been tough, throwing me lemons, but since meeting you, life feels sweet. Thanks for showing me that.

Living the dream with you,

Every day, I wake up smiling because you’re with me. I love you so much, forever and always. I hope you want to be with me forever too.

❤️ To the One Who Makes My World Spin,

I love you deeply, putting your happiness before mine always. I’ll love you endlessly and go anywhere for you.

Lovingly yours,

❤️ To My Soul Mate,

I can’t get enough of you! All I want is to be with you from morning to night .

Loving you forever,

❤️ To My Beau,

Your humor, care, and cheesy jokes make me love you more each day! Thank you for loving me and making me feel special.

Hugs and kisses ,

My Heart Belongs To You Love Letter

❤️ Hey Sweetheart,

When you came into my life, it felt like I finally had someone to share it with. You’ve brought so much joy and love, making me feel blessed every day . Thanks for being my rock.

❤️ My Dear,

I know you love leaving little notes for me, and they always bring a smile to my face. Your love fills my days with happiness, and I promise to cherish every moment with you.

Thank you for being so special to me!

❤️ To My Special Someone ,

You’re more than just my fiancé; you’re my everything. From being my partner to my best friend, you’ve captured my heart completely. I’ll love you endlessly.

You’re the ruler of my heart, and my love for you grows stronger every day. This letter is a small token of my affection, expressing just how deeply I care for you.

Love you endlessly,

❤️ Hey Love,

Since the day I met you, my life has been brighter. Your love has transformed me, and I’m forever grateful. This note is a simple thank you for being my rock. I can’t imagine life without you.

❤️ To My Partner,

Your strength and determination inspire me every day. With you by my side, I know we can conquer anything life throws our way. Here’s to us, forever together.

With love always,

I Love You Letters For My Love

❤️ Hi Honey,

Your presence fills my world with happiness and blooms flowers of joy everywhere. I feel incredibly blessed to have you in my life. This letter is a declaration of my endless love for you.

Missing you dearly,

I love you more than words can express. This letter is a reminder of my unwavering love for you. No matter what, I’ll always be here, loving you with all my heart.

You’re my sunshine,

❤️ My Sunshine,

Waking up next to you every day is a gift. Your embrace brings me comfort like no other, making me feel incredibly lucky to have you in my life.

Lots of love,

Since the day you became my girlfriend, my life has been filled with joy. I’m grateful for every moment we share and look forward to our future together.

❤️ Hey there,

You’re my inspiration and constant support. Your actions speak volumes, and I’m grateful for your presence in my life. With you by my side, I feel unstoppable.

Thank you for being you.

❤️ To My Admirable One,

You’re taking on so much, and I want you to know that I’m here to help. We’re a team, and I’ll always support you through thick and thin.

I Love You Letters To Your Partner

❤️ Dear [Name],

Since you came into my life, it’s been filled with love and affection. I feel incredibly fortunate to have you by my side. Thank you for everything.

❤️ Hey [Name],

Your love has turned my heart into a home. You’re so kind and warm, making me feel content like never before. You mean everything to me.

❤️ To My Beloved,

Time flies when we’re together. From the moment we met, I knew you were the one for me. I can’t wait to see what the future holds for us.

Forever loving you,

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I promise to always stand by your side, loving and cherishing you every day. You mean the world to me, and I’ll never stop loving you.

You still give me butterflies, even after all this time. I feel like the luckiest woman alive to have you in my life.

❤️ To My True Love,

I’ve never been in love like this before. You’ve shown me what true love is, treating me like royalty. I’m incredibly lucky to have found you.

❤️ To My Fiancé,

You’re my lover, my best friend, and my protector. I love you more than words can express and will continue to do so forever.

Sending hugs and kisses,

Funny Love Letters

I used to think love was blind because someone as beautiful as you fell in love with someone like me. But whatever the reason, I feel incredibly lucky that you’ve accepted my love.

❤️ Hey You,

You know it’s love when I can still be in the same room with you even when you’re not feeling great. And even if I have to step out sometimes, my love for you never fades.

Always yours,

I want to walk beside you and gaze into your eyes, but I’m afraid I might stumble. Yet, I choose to sit with you, cherishing our moments together, looking into your eyes and kissing you without any distractions.

❤️ My One True Love,

There’s no one else I’d rather argue with about dinner plans. My love for you stretches to the moon and back, endlessly.

I am yours forever,

They say there are plenty of other options out there, but why would I go for anyone else when I have you, my queen? Thank you for choosing me every day.

❤️ Hey Sweetie,

I’ll love you for eternity and beyond. You’re amazing, and being in your arms feels like home (especially after you’ve showered).

Affectionately yours,

Dear Darling,

Is it silly that I talk to our pet dog Bruno about you? I think he adores you as much as I do. Please don’t leave me for him. He can join us, but I want to be with you forever. Also, I can’t wait to see you tonight.

❤️ My Lovely Husband,

You leave messes everywhere, but that’s part of who you are, and I love you for it. I wouldn’t have you any other way!

Adoringly yours,

I know I’m not perfect. My habits may annoy you, but you still love me despite my flaws. Thank you for loving me and putting up with me.

❤️ Hey Cutie,

We’re like peanut butter and jelly, a perfect match. You’re sweet, and I’m a bit nutty. I love you deeply!

Stuck on you,

Short love letters

❤️ We’ve been through tough times together with our families, but here we are, still standing.

❤️ Congrats on your work success, honey! You totally deserve it more than anyone else.

❤️ This past year has been rough, but it made me realize how much you mean to me. You brighten up my days and always support me.

❤️ There were some really tough times, but you made them easier to bear. I’m grateful for your understanding and support.

❤️ Wow, you cleaned the whole house just to make me happy!

❤️ Before I met you, I had some bad experiences, but you showed me what love really means.

❤️ Time flies since we became parents. We haven’t had much time to think about things lately.

❤️ I messed up, but you gave me another chance. Thank you for trusting me again.

❤️ I don’t always express my feelings well; especially about how much you mean to me.

❤️ Remember those sweet letters you used to write me? I cherish them so much, but I’m not sure if I’ve told you how much they mean to me.

Final Words

Love letters remain a timeless gesture of affection, capable of kindling romantic sparks in any era. Embrace the opportunity to pour your heart onto paper for the love of your life and let the timeless tradition of expressing love through letters enrich your relationship.

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The Poems That Taught Me How to Love

Lessons from Pablo Neruda’s mind-bending verse.

By Nicholas Casey

My friend Ravi introduced me to the love poems of Pablo Neruda when we were teenagers. On the cover of the writer’s “Selected Poems,” Neruda stands wearing a checkered beret, his hands clasped, with the painted statue of a woman looming in the background. His eyes have the look of a man whose heart has been broken many times. “Tonight I can write the saddest lines,” begins one of the first poems in the collection. “I loved her, and sometimes she loved me too.”

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Not all of his poetry is so somber. I’m thinking now of the line “I want to do with you what spring does with the cherry trees.” On the page, Neruda is always mixing intense landscape imagery and the emotions they evoke in him, using nature as a transcendent metaphor for the erotic. But I wanted to read these lines out loud — and did so, ill-advisedly, to a girl I liked in Spanish class. Maybe I was drawn to Neruda because then his simple, straightforward verses were the only poetry I could understand in Spanish. With “Selected Poems,” I was learning the language, but I was hoping Neruda could teach me to talk to women, too.

When I turned 19, I was finally Neruda’s age when he published his first book of love poems. I was a college junior and longing to see Chile after years of Spanish classes. I came to Santiago as a study-abroad student in the summer of 2004. I knew South America was my place when I found an older woman collecting change on the metro while reciting Neruda’s 20th love poem. The other passengers mouthed the verses with her.

Finally, at the end of the term, I got a ticket to Patagonia, to see the southern landscapes that I had imagined while reading Neruda. “Ah vastness of pines, murmur of waves breaking,” read one, “Twilight falling in your eyes.” And yet, unlike in the poems, I had no muse, a fact cruelly highlighted by the waiter in Punta Arenas who told me I could not order the crab stew because it was only for two.

It was my last day in Ushuaia, and I was in the attic of the hostel where I was staying with the Neruda book in my bag when I met someone. She told me she was German and studied Latin American literature at the Free University of Berlin. That seemed to be enough to have signaled destiny to me. There were also the little coincidences that had poetry of their own. When we left town the next day, we were assigned seats together on the bus, as if by fate. It was an 11-hour ride, which included a short ferry over the Strait of Magellan, and we poured our hearts out to each other. When we got to Punta Arenas, we ran into the same waiter I saw when I was alone days before. He looked at her, then at me, and reached out to shake my hand, smiling.

We went to bed (separate ones: I was still a shy teenage poem reader), and I read her Neruda’s “The Queen”: “When you go through the streets/No one recognizes you./No one sees your crystal crown, no one looks/At the carpet of red gold/That you tread as you pass.”

By morning, I knew I had to do more than read something to her. But there was time only for a walk to the bus station and then my ride to the airport. She gave me a hug, and I got on the bus. Suddenly the bus was rolling out of the station and she was waving at it — and at that moment, my heart was breaking.

Finally I had some presence of mind: I went to the driver and said: “Please, stop the bus. I forgot something.” The driver stopped, and I got off to give her a long kiss. I looked her in the eyes, and then went to Santiago.

This, it seemed, had been the greatest accomplishment of my life to that point. In my journal, I documented it with my own Nerudian lines: “Walking to the bus was the feeling of being besieged on all sides by the perfect day, with the certainty that no matter how hard you step, that fragile perfection, crafted long ago by some distant genius, will keep giving you sure footing.”

The footing didn’t last long though. No texts came on my cellphone for a couple of weeks, and then she told me she had a boyfriend back in Germany named Jan.

“Tonight I can write the saddest lines,” goes the Neruda poem.

I’m all right now. As Robert Frost once wrote: “I shall be telling this with a sigh/Somewhere ages and ages hence.” Neruda’s poems feel more sentimental today than they did back then. I realize they belong to a time, long gone, when he and I were both 19 and still coming of age. When the idea of being a writer finally came to me, I was drawn less by the pangs of the heart and more to the suffering of wars and conflict, and became a foreign correspondent. In Madrid, where I live these days, I still have my copy of “Selected Poems.” Neruda’s face looks out timelessly from the cover. It gives me chills when I see that the same pages that were white when I first read them are yellowing after 20 years.

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55 Love Letters to Him to Make Him Cry with Happiness

Do you ever have such strong emotions that you just can’t put them into words?

When you are with your boyfriend, maybe your nerves get the best of you, and you can’t say what you truly feel.

Looking into his eyes, you lose your courage, but you still want him to know how much you care.

Writing a love letter is an enduring way to express your emotions , and it’s often easier to write your feelings on paper than it is to speak them out loud.

• 55 Love Letters for Him to Make Him Cry

1. To My Soulmate

2. to my strength, 3. to the one i love endlessly, 4. to the person who gives me direction, 5. to the one i’m always thinking of, 6. to the one i’ll always support, 7. to my true love, 8. to the person i care for deeply, 9. to the one i love unconditionally, 10. to the one who treats me like a queen, 11. to the guy who gives me confidence, 12. to my hardworking lover, 13. to my caring boyfriend, 14. to the one i long for, 15. to my carefree lover, 16. to my one and only, 17. to the person i’m proud of, 18. to my kind lover, 19. to the best thing that ever happened to me, 20. to the one i’m thankful for, 21. to my provider and protector, 22. to the one who deserves happiness, 23. to my long-distance lover, 24. to the one i wake up beside, 25. to the one i’ll always support, 26. to my world, 27. to my amazing lover, 28. to my amazing boyfriend, 29. to my handsome man, 30. to the one who makes me complete, 31. to the person who changed my life, 32. to the guy who gives me butterflies, 33. to my biggest supporter, 34. to the one who fills me with pride, 35. to my imperfect lover, 36. to the one who has been there through it all, 37. to my passionate lover, 38. to my bright-eyed lover, 39. to my best friend, 40. to my safe space, 41. to my mysterious lover, 42. to the person i’m falling in love with, 43. to the one i’m so lucky to have, 44. to my peaceful lover, 45. to the person in my favorite chapter, 46. to my faraway guy, 47. to the one i miss so much, 48. to the man i’m reminded of daily, 49. to my best friend and lover, 50. to my guy who smells yummy, 51. to my conversation partner, 52. to my favorite chef, 53. to my walking buddy, 54. to my rock , 55. to my dance partner, start with why you're writing, recall a special moment, share what you love about him, acknowledge his impact on you, dream about your future together, end with a promise, sign off with love, final thoughts, deep short love letters for him.

• A Letter to My Boyfriend that Will Make Him Cry

Long Love Letters for Him that Make Him Cry

Romantic love letters for him that make him cry, cute love letters for him, 55 love letters to him to make him cry.

If you have ever received a love letter, you know how special it can make you feel.

Maybe you think your boyfriend isn’t the type to display his emotions outwardly. If so, consider writing him a heartfelt love letter.

The following letters will get you started, but feel free to tailor them more specifically to your relationship!

Why You Should Send Love Letters to Him

Think love letters are old-fashioned? Think again! Sending a love letter to your man is one of the most heartfelt ways to show him just how much he means to you. Here's why you should start penning down your feelings:

• Personal Touch: Texts are great, but a letter? That's next-level thoughtfulness. It shows you took the time to sit down and let your feelings flow.
• Keepsake Forever: He can keep your letters as a tangible reminder of your love, something to hold onto during rough days.
• Deepens Connection: Sharing your deepest feelings can strengthen your bond, making your relationship even more intimate.
• Surprise Element: Imagine the look on his face when he finds a love note from you; it's an unexpected joy!
• Express the Inexpressible: Sometimes, words spoken just don’t cut it. A letter allows you to express those complex feelings eloquently.

So, grab that pen and let your heart do the talking. It’s about making him feel special and loved in a way only you can.

Sometimes, a short and sweet letter is the perfect avenue for expressing your deepest feelings.

These deep love letters for him will tell him everything you want him to know.

You are my inspiration in life and the most important thing to me. When I think of you, I cannot imagine a future without you. You are my soulmate , and I know deep in my heart we are meant to be. Without you, my world would feel meaningless. Thank you for filling my life with purpose.

You give me strength when I feel weak. I know you are always there to support me, just like I will always be there for you. Knowing you have my back and I have yours fills me with joy and love. I’m so thankful for our relationship and how it has helped me get back on my feet.

Never before have I met someone who makes me feel so beautiful just by glancing at me. When I look into your eyes, I can feel your love for me.

This is how I know our relationship is meant to be. I love you endlessly and can’t wait to see how our love grows further.

Before you, I felt directionless in life. I didn’t know what I wanted or where to go next. But the moment I first saw you, I could finally see a future for myself – a future with you. From here on out, I will live my life for you and for us because I love you.

You are the first thing I think of when I wake up and the last thing I think about before falling asleep. You consume my thoughts every day. All I want is to love you with my whole heart and give you the life you desire. I hope you know that I would give you the world if I could.

No matter where life takes us, know that I will always be by your side. I know things have been chaotic with bills and other responsibilities, but I will never abandon you. Loving you is my favorite thing to do, and I hope you know I will always be your support to fall back on.

I never really believed in true love before I met you. I thought it was just something that people exaggerated, but the first time we went on a date, I knew. That’s the moment everything clicked for me, and I realized that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with you.

When I look at your face, I am overwhelmed with happiness. Our relationship is the healthiest and most real thing that I have ever experienced. I care for you so deeply, even more than I care for myself. I hope you know that I would go to the ends of the earth for you.

My love for you will never waver. It is as real and unchanging as the sky or the sea. I always had this idea of what I wanted in a boyfriend , but I never could quite find what I was looking for until I met you. You are everything I could ever want and more.

A Letter to My Boyfriend That Will Make Him Cry

If you want to share your most romantic thoughts and appreciation , these letters will melt his heart and bring a tear to his eye.

I am so unbelievably lucky to have someone who cares for me, respects me, and supports me in all I do. You treat me like a queen, and I’m filled with gratitude when I feel your love. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for all that you do for me.

I may never be the most gorgeous woman in the room, but you make me feel like I am. I’ll never be the smartest, but you have a way of making me feel that I’m the most intelligent person you have ever met. You give me that confidence I’ve never had, and for that, I love you.

I could never have imagined that I would be with such a kind and hardworking man. You are my protector and my provider. I love you so much for all you do for me, and I hope you know that it never goes unnoticed.

You are the most caring man I have ever met. You work hard so hard for us so that we can build our dream life together, and for that, I’m so grateful. I hope to spend every day for the rest of my life showing you how much I appreciate you.

Whenever we are apart, my heart feels a longing so deep that it’s hard to explain. You are my soulmate, and every minute apart is time I don’t get to spend with you. I miss you so much when you are away because I know that my soul and yours are meant to be together.

Our love is so easy, and that’s why I know it’s meant to be. I fell in love with your beautiful personality before I even realized it had happened. Every moment with you feels so light and carefree, and every day we spend together, I’m more certain that you are the one.

You are my one and only, always and forever. I will stand by your side, whether you are filthy rich or dirt poor, in sickness and in health. Your heart is so beautiful, and I promise to always be gentle with it. I’ll never abandon you.

Maybe I haven’t told you lately, but know that I am so proud of you. I see all your efforts, and I appreciate them more than you know.

You are so dedicated and hardworking and everything I’ve ever wanted in a partner. Your beautiful soul has completely won over my heart.

Your kind heart and humble nature are like no other. Not only that, but you are such a passionate lover with a gentle touch. No one could ever compare to you. I give you my heart, and I hope that you will give me yours.

Maybe you’re wondering, “What are some good examples of long love letters for my boyfriend?” The following are more lengthy messages that are sure to make him cry tears of joy .

I may not be the best at expressing my emotions, but I just want you to know how much you mean to me. I love you unconditionally, forever. 

Every time I look at you, I find more things to love about you. You’re the best thing that ever happened to me. I hope that you will be with me wherever I go in life. You have made me feel more supported and appreciated than I have in a long time.

If I listed all the reasons I’m thankful for you, you would be reading for a lifetime. So, instead, I’ll just tell you my favorite things about you.

I love how you make me feel and how you treat me with so much care and respect. I adore your smile, your beautiful eyes, and the way you light up a room. Most of all, I admire your hard-working nature and your beautiful soul.

When I look at you, I see not only my lover but also my best friend, my provider, and my protector. I believe with all of my heart that my soul was made to be with yours.

I hope that one day I’ll walk down the aisle and say, “I do.” I dream of the day we start a family of our own. Eventually, we’ll grow old together, but I can promise you that I’ll never get tired of being with you.

I know I don’t tell you enough, so I’m writing this letter to tell you how much I care for you. Whenever you hurt, I hurt too. If I could take away all your stress and pain, I would do it a million times over.

It makes me happy to see you happy. I would do anything to cheer you up. I know life can sometimes be hard, but you deserve all of the happiness in the world and more.

Even though we are miles apart , my love for you grows stronger every day. I miss your voice, your sweet touch, and your gentle smile, but I know that we'll be together again soon.

What keeps me going when the distance feels like too much to bear is knowing that you will always be there waiting for me. There is no other lover better for me than you are. Your love is worth waiting a lifetime for.

When I woke up this morning and saw you lying beside me, I couldn’t help but feel like I’m the luckiest girl in the world. When you hold me in your arms, I feel so safe and secure.

In all of my life, I have never experienced such a healthy and stable relationship. I know deep down in my heart that I can fully trust you. I am confident that you will never betray me, and I promise that I will never betray you.

I know you have been stressed lately. You are such a hard worker, and you want to please everyone around you. I wish I could take a load off your shoulders because I care deeply for you. Your well-being is my number one priority.

Even though I can’t take away your stress, I will be your rock and support no matter the circumstances. You can come to me with anything, and I will be there for you.

When I look back to the beginning of our relationship, I can’t believe that our love has blossomed into what it is now. I am so lucky to have someone so respectful, caring, and affectionate.

You are my best friend and the one I will love forever. You are truly my world, and I promise to spend every day appreciating you and this beautiful life we have together.

When I think about this beautiful life we are living together, my heart swells with pride and joy. I am so proud of the person you have grown into. Every day you become a better man and a better lover.

Because of that, I will work hard to be the best version of myself for you. You deserve all that I have to give and more, and I want to dedicate my life to making sure your dreams come true.

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Sometimes, just showing your boyfriend how romantic you are is enough to bring him to tears. These love letters will show him how deeply you feel for him.

You are the most amazing boyfriend, and I’m so fortunate to have found you. Your sweetness and affection are what drew me to you, but your humble and kind character is what made me stay. I love all that you are and all that you’ll ever be.

Maybe I never said it out loud, but you are the most handsome man I’ve ever laid eyes on. I feel an attraction towards you that I’ve never felt before.

My desire for you is insatiable and knowing that you are mine, I think I must be the luckiest woman in the world.

I crave your touch constantly. I miss holding your hand, touching your sweet face, and giving you kisses. When you hold me in your arms, I feel complete. Whenever we are in public, I smile to myself, knowing that you are mine and no one else’s.

When you came into my life, everything changed. I was on the wrong path, but you helped me get on the right course. You shifted my mindset and made me believe that love is real. Because of you, I feel like I can conquer the world.

Even after all the time we’ve spent together, I still get butterflies when you look at me with that spark in your eye. You give me a thrill every time you kiss me, even if it’s the thousandth time. I am head over heels for you and always will be.

Your love is what keeps me going even in my darkest hours. Knowing that I get to come home to you at the end of the day is my biggest motivation. Thank you for being my rock and always supporting me. I adore you and every moment I get to spend with you.

When I was a child, I used to dream about the life that I’m living right now with you. What we’ve created together is so magical and everything I ever wanted. I wouldn’t trade any of it. I’m so proud of all that we’ve built and the love we share.

Every day that we spend together is a day that I can be thankful for. I love learning new things about you. Discovering all of your quirks and imperfections has been my greatest adventure. I love you, flaws and all, and always will.

You have been there for me through thick and thin, and for that, I’m so grateful for you. Never have I had someone stick by me through everything. My confidence in you is unwavering, and I know we can make it through anything. I love you to the moon and back.

Consider a sweet letter to a boyfriend that lets him know how much you care while showing your playful side. These cute love letters will make him smile like never before.

One of my favorite things about you is how your eyes light up when you talk about the things you enjoy. Seeing you get so excited is adorable and fills me with joy. I love hearing about your passions and interests because they are what make you so unique.

Your smile is so bright and one of the best parts of my day. When I get home from work and greet you, your eyes light up, and it’s the cutest thing in the world. Your happiness is contagious. You make me feel so appreciated, and I want you to know I appreciate you, too.

You are my best friend and the only person I feel like I can be fully myself with. I know I can tell you anything and everything that’s on my mind. You always listen to me and know the right thing to say , and it’s one of my favorite parts about you.

I love that you can be your most authentic self with me. You are my safe space, and I want to be yours as well. Nothing about you could ever make me stop loving you. You mean so much to me, and that includes all of your flaws.

Every time I discover something new about you, I feel like a kid on Christmas morning. Unwrapping more and more of who you are is what lights me up inside. I hope to spend the rest of my life learning everything there is to know about you.

I find everything about you so endearing – the way you walk and talk, your beautiful eyes and smile, and even the way you make your cup of coffee in the morning. The most simple things about you make me fall more and more in love with you every day.

Waking up beside you is my favorite part of the day. I love cuddling with you and being in your arms while the rest of the world is still quiet. It’s in these moments that I find myself wondering how I’m so lucky to have you. What did I do to deserve someone like you?

I love when you fall asleep before me because I get to watch you in your most relaxed and natural state. Watching you breathe and dream overwhelms my heart with happiness. You always look so peaceful. Even when you start to snore, it’s the cutest thing in the world to me.

The beginning of our chapter was so beautiful. It felt almost too good to be true, like the start of a romance novel. Every morning I pinch myself because sometimes I still can’t believe my life with you is real. I can’t wait to write many more chapters with you.

I Miss You Love Letters for Him

Navigating the days without your guy brings a unique set of challenges. These “I miss you” love letters aim to reflect your feelings of longing, with honesty and a tender tone that mirrors your emotions of missing him dearly.

My Love, it feels like you've been gone forever. The house is too quiet without you, and I miss our daily routines. I can't wait until we're back to sharing coffee in the morning and talking about our days at night. I miss you so much.

Hey, Babe, I hate how empty the bed feels without you. I've been staying up late because I can't seem to fall asleep on my side without you on yours. Everything reminds me of you, and it just makes me miss you more.

Darling, I've been trying to keep busy, but everything I do just reminds me of you. I went to our favorite café yesterday, and it wasn't the same alone. I miss your laugh and the way you make everything more fun.

Love, I know we said we could handle the distance, but it's harder than I thought. I miss having you around, hearing about your day, and just seeing your face. Can't wait until you're back and we can catch up on everything.

Hey, You! I was doing okay with this long-distance thing until I found your shirt in the laundry. It still smells like you, and it hit me how much I miss you. Just wanted to tell you that.

My Dearest, every time my phone rings, I hope it's you. I miss our conversations and hearing about the little things that happen in your day. It's those small moments I miss the most. Looking forward to your next call.

Honey, I've been trying to cook that recipe we saw together, but it didn't turn out right. It made me realize how much I miss your cooking and your company in the kitchen. Can't wait to mess up more recipes with you.

Sweetheart, I saw a couple at the park today, and it made me miss our walks and talks. It's the simple things like that I miss the most. I'm counting down the days until we can do that again.

My Everything, I've been wearing your hoodie because it makes me feel closer to you. It's a small comfort, but I really miss you being here, making me laugh, and just being my rock. Looking forward to having you back.

Love, I was listening to our song, and it made me both happy and sad. Happy because it's ours, but sad because you're not here to dance with me in the kitchen. I miss those spontaneous moments with you. Can't wait to create more memories.

How to Write Your Own Love Letters for Him

Crafting a love letter for your boyfriend is a timeless way to express your deepest affections and thoughts. Whether he's just across town or you share the same address, a handwritten note adds a personal touch that digital messages can't match. Here’s how to pour your heart out on paper.

Begin by explaining why you felt compelled to write. Maybe you saw something that reminded you of him, or perhaps you just felt an overwhelming sense of love. “I saw a sunset that took my breath away today, and it made me think of you.”

Think of a moment you shared that felt like a snapshot of pure happiness. Describe it in detail, letting him relive it through your words. “Remember that rainy Sunday we spent in bed with coffee and old movies? That was perfection.”

List the qualities that make him special to you. Be specific about what sets him apart in your eyes. “I love the way you scrunch your nose when you laugh and how passionate you get about your hobbies.”

Tell him how he's changed your life for the better. Focus on the emotional growth or happiness you've experienced. “Since you've been part of my life, I find myself smiling more, stressing less.”

Share your hopes and dreams for the future you envision together. It could be as simple as more lazy Sundays or as grand as adventures abroad. “I can't wait for all the mornings we'll start together and the nights we'll end in each other's arms.”

Conclude your letter with a promise that underscores your commitment and love. “I promise to always find new reasons to fall in love with you every single day.”

Choose a sign-off that feels right to you, whether it's a simple “I love you,” a playful “Yours forever,” or an intimate “With all my heart.”

A love letter doesn't have to be perfect; it just needs to be honest and from the heart. It's the thought and effort that counts the most.

Ensuring your partner feels appreciated is vital for a healthy and loving relationship .

If you have trouble speaking your true feelings out loud, consider writing a love letter for him so that he feels loved and cared for.

You can tweak these love letters to your own unique situation, so your boyfriend knows he is special. He’ll probably cherish your words more than you think!

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Opinion Opinion | Apr 30, 2024

I am writing about the community engagement service that has encouraged me to volunteer more in my community. For this service, I decided to volunteer at the animal shelter in Eagle. My love for animals is what brought me to choose this area as my main community service.

This organization has a love and understanding for the animals who are either surrendered, strayed, or transferred from other locations. On my first day walking into this shelter, I was immediately met with happy faces and excited dogs at the front desk. Working with these animals, I saw the effort the employees put into making sure any animal who was sick, injured, or with behavioral concerns protected the people working and other animals. Each day began the same way, by greeting the staff and taking the dogs on a walk around the baseball field, I enjoyed every moment of it.

Looking back, my enthusiasm to volunteer at the shelter began when I decided I wanted to adopt a dog from a shelter. Although this is still a work in progress, it will always break my heart when I see all these shelters filled with abandoned animals looking for their forever homes but at risk of being euthanized. Since there is little I can do to help all of those animals I begin with those whom I can reach like local shelters by working with adoption events, volunteering to foster dogs, and taking them on frequent walks. I write this letter with the hope that I can open your eyes to animal shelters to encourage people to adopt rather than buy pets, every animal deserves to feel love in a home of their own. The best way to show adoptable dogs is by promoting adoption events that show these dogs in a different light.  

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