Best Man speech examples for your brother
Oliver Lucas
Published 12 Sep 2023
So youâve read our blog on how to write a best man speech for your brother? Youâve come to the right place for more inspiration. Here, you will find real-life examples of best man speeches written by one brother to another, including those written for older brothers, younger brothers and even twin brothers. They are long, medium and short in length so whatever your situation you will find some inspiration here that can help you in constructing your brotherâs best man speech.
Best Man Speech for Older Brother
As this is my first time being best man, I was a little worried as to how long the speech should go on for. I asked around and the accepted norm seemed to be that it should go on for as long as it takes the groom to make love to his wife on their wedding nightâŠ. So on that note ladies and gentlemen, thanks very much, youâve been a great crowd. SIT DOWN pause STAND UP Seriously now Ok ok the real speech now.
Good evening Ladies and Gentlemen â For those of you who don`t know me, I`m Andrew, Paulâs younger brother. It`s great to be stood up here today because, after all these years, PAUL has finally admitted that I am the best man.
I would firstly like to thank both Paul & Gerri for giving me time to prepare this speech, well two weeks anyway.  First, let me start by saying that Gerri looks absolutely beautiful today and it is a real pleasure to welcome her into our family. pause Today, I feel like Iâm gaining a new sister and losing a brother. It is such a mix of emotions: happiness, joy⊠relief!
So lets start with the traditional bit, on behalf of the bridesmaids, groomsmen and ushers Iâm sure they would like me to thank Paul for his kind words and I have to agree with him they all look wonderful, they asked me to tell you they thought your not too bad yourself mate. Iâm sure you all agree that Gerri looks fantastic.. One in a million and Paul looks like he always does âŠ. Won in a raffle! And heâs copied my outfit today! No really they are a great couple, Pure and Simple⊠Gerriâs pureâŠ..
You will probably not be aware that Paul and Gerri had great trouble over the seating plan. Fortunately, Paul gave the room layout some serious thought and took the weight of the decision away from Gerri as any supportive partner should do. What Gerri doesnât know is that Paul decided the seating should be according to the cost of your present, so the more expensive your present, the closer the person would be seated to the front. So I hope you at the back heard Paul when he thanked you for the teaspoons!
During my research on the internet into best mans role I also looked into weddings in general, I looked at the three key elements of the wedding service itself: â The AISLE â itâs the longest walk youâll ever take The ALTER â the place where two become one The HYMN â the celebration of marriage. I think Gerri must have done the same research as I did, because as she was walking past me, Iâm sure I heard her whispering to herself, AisleâŠaltarâŠhymn, aisle altar hymn, Iâll alter him etcâŠ
All I can say on that Gerri is good luck your gonna need it. Before I launch into a deluge of secret tales about Groomâs shady past, I have moreâŠÂ On leaving school Paulâs teenage years can be defined as several years of drinking, throwing up, and sleeping in the toilet cuddling up to the bowlâŠsomething sadly he still hasnât grown out of yet.
It shouldnât be too hard to believe that my brother was a deeply ugly baby. So ugly in fact, that when he was born the midwife had to be restrained from slapping our parents. And come to think of it, I recall my mum telling me she suffered badly from morning sickness âŠâŠ. right up until Paulâs 1st birthday.
Paulâs been suffering from a terrible headache all day. He was going for the wet hair look and the toilet seat fell down.Â
Some advice before I finish, I would like to give Paul some advice on what people thought were the ingredients to a long and happy marriage so here are a few. Turn and look at <groom>. Firstly, set the ground rules and establish whose bossâŠand then do everything Gerri says! Secondly, never be afraid that Gerri will leave you â sheâs spent time training you, sheâs not going to throw that away lightly! Thirdly, never forget to say those 3 little words every day for the rest of your life â âYOUâRE RIGHT DEAR!â. Whenever youâre wrong, be a man and admit it âŠ
Whenever youâre right, just âSAY nothing!â As they say a man who gives in when he is wrong is a wise man. A man who gives in when he is right is married. And finally â there seems to be a bit of confusion over where Paul and Gerri are going on their honeymoon. I thought, perhaps like many of you that they were off to the sunny climes of Mexico but now Iâm not so sure. After speaking to Paul just before we sat down for the meal I think theyâre going to North Wales âŠâŠâŠ. Or at least I think thatâs what he meant when he said that straight after the wedding he was going to Bangor for a week! Toast Joking aside though, knowing the feeling that you get when you realise you have met the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with, itâs a feeling that you want to make the most of, and we are here to celebrate that with you bothâŠlong may it continueâŠ
Iâd like to finish up by saying what a great honour itâs been to be best man today. On behalf of the bride and groom, Iâd like to echo what I said earlier and thank everyone for sharing their special day. On behalf of myself, I would just like to say that if you have enjoyed this speech half as much as Iâve enjoyed giving it, then I can only apologise. I started planning it about a month ago and you must feel that Iâve been delivering it for equally as long. So then, Ladies and gentlemen, it gives me immense pleasure, not to mention relief, to invite you all to standâŠâŠ
Iâd like you to raise your glasses in a toast to Paul and Gerri, the new Mr and Mrs Bailey who we wish well for the future, and hope they enjoy a long and happy marriage. Paul and Gerri.Â
Best Man Speech for Younger Brother
Good afternoon Ladies Gentlemen girls and boys! We have arrived at that point in the day where we must rise from the comfort of our chairs and make fools out of ourselves, well some of us anyway! I will however try and postpone mine for as long as possible and hand you over to David, Kathyâs father to say a few word
Thank you David.
I would now like to hand you over to Nigel to make his excuses/say a few words. Well Nigel, I hope you made the most of your speech as now youâre a married man, thatâll be the last time you get to speak for 3 minutes without being interrupted or corrected!
Ladies and Gentleman, Boys and Girls I hope you are having a wonderful time, For what seems to be the tenth time today I find myself rising from a warm seat with a piece of paper in my hand.
I would like to read some messages from those who could not make it to this auspicious occasion. Now I will read a few cards which Nigel and Kathy have requested that I read.
To Kathy Iâm Sorry I could not marry you myself so I got one of my mates to do it, but best wishes on your special Day. From the Pope âŠ
Congratulations on your special day Nigel we will miss you. All the girls from the fantasy lounge XX
I have never actually been a best man before and I am not renowned for my speech writing. I promise you though that Iâll try my best, because Nigel has promised that if I do a good job today, I can be Best Man at his next wedding, too.
It is really a great honour ladies and gentlemen but in all honestly Iâm actually a little bit nervous doing this. I do feel a bit comforted by the fact Iâve actually already rehearsed this speech in front of a live audience. â Yep it was Nigelâs geriatric home â and I think it went well â they all peed themselves.
For those of you who donât know me, my name is Tom and for those of you that do ⊠well I apologise. My full name is actually âTom would-you-like-a-drinkâ. For those of you who I meet in the bar later, Iâd appreciate it if you could use my full name. [pause] I am Nigelâs older brother and isnât it good to see that I am finally receiving the recognition I deserve by being named as Best man. It is well known that I can talk and I couldnât help but notice that there is a bet on about the length of my speech. Well, just to let you know, having backed myself at 2 hours 38 minutes and with the kitty currently standing at around ÂŁ50, I must apologise in advance, so please try to make yourself comfortable and enjoy the ride.
I would like to thank the bridesmaids Lynn, Sheryl, Claire and Alison whom Iâm sure you will agree all look radiant. And how nice it is to see Claire out of her emo/hippy outfit.
I would also like to thank Harry and Nick for carrying out the really difficult task of telling people where to sit in church, Nana Julie for laying on the horse and carriage, Rob for doing the invitation inserts and Uncle Jim for doing the video.
I would also like to thank Auntie Pam, Auntie Sue and Sarah for the glorious flowers in the church and everyone else who has helped with the hall.
Now it gives me great pleasure to ask you all to raise your glasses for some very important people, with out them here today the day would not be the same, Would you raise your glasses to toast. The bar staff!!
Before I begin, Kathy could you please place your right hand on the table, Nigel place your left on top of Kathyâs. All will be revealed in good time.
I can confirm to you all that last night Nigel slept like a babyâŠâŠâŠthat is to say he wet the bed twiceâŠâŠâŠ..and woke up many times crying for his Mummy!
The only problem i think we have encountered so far is that Nigel and Kathy had a bit of an issue with the seating plan, because they really couldnât decide where everyone should sit. So, true fashion, Nigel decided to link it to the wedding present list He decided to put those who brought the biggest items nearest the front, and work back from thereâŠSo ***** [âpauseâ and look around at the back for ******* ] Nigel and Kathy wanted to say thanks for the oven glove!
Nigel and Kathy have been together for a few years now and seem to have found their soul mates in each other.
In life, itâs difficult to imagine Morecambe without Wise, tom without jerry, Romeo without Juliet, Del without Rodney, and of course Nigel without Kathy.
As I have mentioned before, it is a great honour to be Best Man, but with the role comes the job of writing this speech, and to be honest I wanted to make the process as easy as possible. Â So where do you begin for ideas.
The first and most obvious place seemed to be the Internet, so with a multitude of resources at my fingertips I dutifully began searching the web.
After a couple of hours searching I found some REALLY good stuff on the net, but âŠ.then I remembered I was supposed to be looking for Best Man tips!
I was actually able to locate tons of ready-prepared speeches on the internetâŠ. but sadly, not one of them were about a couple called Nigel and Kathy âŠ.so it looks like itâs down to me after all. All this research lead me to discover that according to tradition, I am supposed to sing the groomâs praises, and tell you all in detail about his many good points. Sadly I canât sing and I will not lie.
Kathy is a lovely person. She deserves a good husband. Nigel, you should be on your knees thanking God you married her before she found one!
Seriously Nigel, you are really lucky. You will leave here having gained a wife that is warm, loving and caring. A wife who is entertaining, funny, intelligent, and who radiates beauty wherever she goes. [pause] [face Kathy] And Kathy[pause] how lucky you are as well [pause] you leave today having gained a .[pause] Gorgeous dress and a lovely bouquet of flowers. [pause]
Nigel has had a chequered life and it started some 27 years ago when quite small he entered our family and joined Mark and me. This was a sad day and a real disappointment to us, we now had to share our toys with one more person. However it was not long until Nigel was exposing himself to the whole country literally sitting on a potty in the middle of the countryside as the world went on by. Later he went on to school and by the age of sixteen he finally left primary school.
Now instead of stories you will all have to listen to my martial advice instead. Iâm not sure Iâm the best person to dish out advice! But I do have the following words of wisdom for the happy couple.
Firstly, set the ground rules and establish who is the boss:
Then do everything Kathy says.
Always remember to tell your wife those three important little words [pause] âYouâre right dearâ.
Kathy A husband is like a tiled floor [pause] lay it right first time and you can spend years walking all over it.
A happy marriage is a matter of give and take the husband gives and the wife takes. [pause]
Remember the 5 rings: the engagement ring, the wedding ring, the suffering, the torturing and the enduring
Donât forget Nigel if you buy her flowers, she knows you are guilty, and she will remember to the second the last time you bought her some ⊠and the reason why!
Are any of you are wondering why I asked Nigel to place his hand on Kathyâs? Well I can now reveal that Nigel, as my final role, it is with great pleasure that I have been able to give you the last 10 minutes in which you have had the upper hand on Kathy. I hope you enjoyed it, as it will almost certainly be the last.
May your love be modern enough to service the times and old fashioned enough to last for ever.
Hereâs to love, to laughter, and happily ever after. As Nigel and Kathy start their new life, please stand and toast the new husband and wife,
If you would all be up standing in my toast
To the new Mr and Mrs Wood
Nigel and Kathy!
Best Man Speech for Twin Brother
There comes a time in every personâs life when they meet their one true love, their soulmate, their destiny. The person, who will know and understand them for the rest of their life. That moment came for Alan, 32 years ago when he met me. Hello.
I suppose I should introduce myself. For those of you who donât know me, my name is Stephen, Alanâs younger sibling. To be asked by Alan, on this important day, to the best man is an honour for me and honourable of him, after all these long years, to finally admit that I am the best!
Firstly, thanks to the others for their speeches and for keeping them mercifully short. I hope to follow their example with my own. Rest assured though, unlike most traditional best man speeches, which are full of sexual innuendo, Iâve promised Alan and Aileen that if there is anything slightly risquĂ©, Iâll whip it out immediately.
I would like to say how lovely and well turned out everyone looks today. Itâs nice to see that most of you have made the effort. Of course none more so than our lovely bridesmaids who look fantastic in their beautiful dresses. Thanks also to them for their invaluable contribution to todayâs events and for getting Aileen here on time. No mean feat, as I understand she put up quite a struggle.
Speaking of beautiful, our bride looks simply stunning. It is easy to see how Alan has come to be so enchanted. If I may say, your beauty makes Alan look more handsome than he actually is. Of course I jest, as Alan looks dazzling today although it could just be the light reflecting off his hair. There is so much silver in there now that he doesnât wash it so much as polish it these days. But I think sheâs made a wonderful choice ⊠for her first husband.
So as I said before, Alan is my brother, twin brother to be precise, so we met long before we can both even remember. We were always and still are very close. There is nothing I wouldnât do for him and likewise, thereâs nothing he wouldnât do for me. In fact, we spend most of our time doing nothing for each other.
Looking back on our childhood, Alan displayed 10 important character traits, which I believe have moulded him into the man he is today:
- Honesty â He always told on me.
- Generosity â He was a picky eater so I always got his leftovers.
- Integrity â We only did what he wanted to do.
- Kindness â Every year he always, always gave me half his birthday cake.
- Courage â He cleaned the top windows while I did the bottom.
- Thriftiness â He was always very careful with money. I once saw him drop a fifty pence piece and he was down so quickly it hit him on the back of the head.
- Discipline â He always did his homework.
- Reliability â He always let me copy it.
- Endurance â Iâve spent 32 years trying to convince him he was adopted.
- Trustworthiness â For years he has taken care of the family silver though why he chooses to wear it on his head I do not know.
He was also very clever as a kid. When I was younger I always heard everyone say âoh that Alan, heâs so smart. What a brilliant boy â heâs so giftedâ. At that time I was under the delusion that I was smart too but after our school days, Alan went off to University while I went off to the DSS to sign on every fortnight. Obviously after this we never saw quite so much of each other but I did ask some other people their opinion and how they would describe him:
Charming, urbane, witty and entertaining are all words. . But no-one said them so I wonât either. One actually told me they thought he was arrogant, conceited, selfish and insensitive. So thanks for that ⊠Aileen. Only joking⊠it was his Mum. No, of course it wasnât, because he was adopted.
Joking aside, Alan has been a great friend to me and while it would be impossible to summarise the last 32 years I would like to say that over this time he has been the best anyone could hope for in a brother, a companion and a best friend. I trust him implicitly so I know I can go to him for advice and support in the dark hours or just for frivolous stupidity. There is no better way I would like to pass the day than in his company doing nothing in particular.
When he told me he was getting married I was obviously delighted and I wish them both all the happiness in the world. While not being married myself, I like to think Iâve picked up a few things over the years.
* You should never go to bed on an argument â always stay up and argue.
* The woman should always get the final word in an argument. Anything after will be the next argument.
* The best way to remember your anniversary is to forget it once.
* Whenever youâre right, say nothing! Itâs not worth it.
* Buy flowers only occasionally as it becomes suspicious otherwise.
* If asked the old classic: âDo I look fat?â â Do not hesitate, do not say âwhere?â and under no circumstances say âstand back so I can get it all inâ.
And finally, consider the words of Oscar Wilde âWomen are meant to be loved, not to be understoodâ.
You will be happy to know that we are nearing the end of the speech so before the toast I will now take this opportunity to congratulate the happy couple. Anyone who has been lucky enough to spend time in their company, know what a great pair they really are. It seems everyone here today is having a great time and this is mainly down to the weeks and months of planning by Alan & Aileen. They have done an incredible job, and spent an incredible amount of money to make this such a special day. So from myself, my family and everyone here, thank you for the wonderful memories.
Now it gives me great pleasure to ask you all to stand and raise you glasses to the newly wedded couple.
âMay you live as long as you like and love as long as you liveâ.
To Alan & Aileen.
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Brotherâs Best Man Speech Example
Oh, boy! Youâre the groomâs brother, and now heâs asked you to stand up for him at his wedding as his best man. What a tremendous honor! Brothers have an incredible bond, and we know that you are probably pretty stoked to be asked to perform the best man duties.
Planning the bachelor party is what you are looking forward to most, but donât forget about the best man speech . If the toast has you a little tense and stressed, weâre here to help. Weâve created the ultimate guide on how to write a kick-ass brother of the groomâs best man speech.
Weâre sure you’re going to rock this!
THE MEAT & POTATOES OF A GREAT BEST MAN SPEECH
We know that there is a lot of pressure on the best man for preparing a wedding toast that is funny, memorable, and even a little emotional. After all, it is probably the most anticipated speech of the night. Why?
Well, generally speaking, the best man speech tends to include some hilarious outtakes from your time with the groom. And sometimes even some embarrassing moments. So, sure the pressure is on. Luckily with this guide, you will be able to put the anxiety to the side, quell the nerves and write a best man toast that everyone will enjoy.
WHAT SHOULD YOUR BROTHER OF THE GROOM SPEECH INCLUDE?
- A welcome and a thank you to the guests.
- Memorable stories about your relationship.
- A bit about the groomâs exceptional traits and accomplishments
- About meeting the love of his life
- A message to the bride
- Raising your glass to toast the newlyweds
HOW TO WRITE A ROCKSTAR BROTHER OF THE GROOM TOAST
- Be personal; you are the brother, after all.
- Discover a theme (funny, emotional, heartfelt, inspirational, etc.)
- Follow a brother of the groom speech template or outline to keep you organized.
- Write it down! Donât just wing it, have your speech written on paper or on your phone.
- Practice, practice, practice! Make sure to practice your speech before the wedding day. You can do it in front of a friend for feedback or just in the mirror. You can thank us later.
- Donât spend too much time taking jabs, although a few are welcomed and sometimes needed to break the ice.
- Donât wait until the night before to create a rough draft. Come back to it several times to perfect what you want to convey.
- Practice! Youâll be surprised how much nerves and emotions can take over at the moment, but if youâre familiar with your words, youâll stay on track!
BROTHER OF THE GROOM, BEST MAN SPEECH OUTLINE EXAMPLE
If public speaking is not your forte, we recommend that you follow a brother of the groom speech outline or template. Nerves are a real thing, we know! Having an outline to follow can help you ease into the speech and dismiss any nerves or anxiety.
Itâs such a simple public speaking trick, but it really works because it keeps you organized. Here is an example of an easy-to-follow brother of the groom speech outline.
- Introduce yourself and share your relationship with the groom
- Thank other speakers, guests, and vendors
- Congratulate the newlyweds
- Say some favorable words about your brotherâs new spouse
- Add in a joke or funny story about the groom
- Read any messages from guests that could not attend
- Propose a toast to the couple
TIPS FOR KNOCKING YOUR BROTHER OF THE GROOM SPEECH OUT OF THE PARK
If you really want to create a memorable brother of the groom speech, we have a few tips. We donât think you should roast the groom or embarrass him beyond words, but you can definitely have a little fun with your brother of the groom’s best man toast.
- Find a killer opening line – this will set the tone for the toast
- Quote a few famous quotes or a poem
- Stay sober (at least until after your speech)
- Check your tone. No one wants to hear a boring speech. And since yours is the last toast of the night, make sure it is full of energy; itâs upbeat, engaging, and captivating.
- Avoid inside jokes
- Keep it short! The couple and guests will be ready to get the party started, so keep it short.
- Donât wing it or write it the night before. Put some real thought and preparation into it. Start writing your brother of the groom speech at least two weeks ahead. This will give you time to perfect it, practice it, and get comfortable presenting it.
- Remember to be yourself.
- Donât try to be a comedian if you arenât naturally funny.
HIRE A PROFESSIONAL BROTHER OF THE GROOM SPEECH WRITER
Once you get started writing your brother of the groom toast, you may find that you have writer’s block. Or maybe you have plenty that you want to say, but it seems messy, and youâre not sure how to get it to flow seamlessly. If this is where you are, donât be afraid to hire someone to help. Some freelance writers can help you write a best man speech that you (and the groom) will be proud of. Google it, and weâre sure you will find someone to help.
HOW TO GET A DIG IN ON THE GROOM DURING SPEECH – TACTFULLY
We know most wedding guests expect to hear some funny (or hilarious) dig on the groom during the best man speech. But, please have some heart and make sure you do it tactfully. It is, after all, his wedding day. Here are a few ideas on how to do it.
Wonât Be Winning Any Singing Competition:
“I’d like to tell you that [groom] sings with a lot of feeling. But I canât lie to youâif he had any feelings, he wouldn’t be singing at all – not even in the shower.”
Culinary Expert He Is Not:Â
âWe shared an apartment for years during college. When we moved in, we decided that it was his job to cook all of our meals, and my job was to go from room to room removing all the batteries from each smoke alarm.”
Chats A Lot:
“[Groom] has many talents of which I am proud of most. Like his innate and uncanny ability to chat for hours on absolutely any subject âand days if he actually knows something about it. Oh, wait! Thatâs not one that Iâm proud of.”
WHAT NOT TO TALK ABOUT IN YOUR BROTHER OF THE GROOM SPEECH
Just as there are things you âshouldâ include in your brother of the groom speech, there are also things that you should exclude from your toast. If you want your brother to still love you after your speech and your parents to keep you in the will, donât include any of these things in your brother of the groomâs toast.
- The exes – donât bring up ANY, and we mean ANY exes
- Nothing negative, especially about marriage
- Inside jokes
- Nothing of a sexual nature
AWESOME EXAMPLES OF BROTHERâS BEST MAN SPEECHES
Staying sentimental.
âGood evening, ladies and gentlemen. My name is Nick, Iâm Joeâs brother, and Iâm honored to be serving as his best man tonight.
Those who donât know much about me and Joeâs relationship, let me fill you in a bit. Iâm the older guy, which means I’ve been around for his entire life. And Iâve had the privilege of watching him grow into the best man I know, aside from our own father.
I like to think that Iâve impacted his life somehow, but really, heâs impacted mine the most. I wanted a little brother so much before he came into my life. I wished, and I wished, and I couldnât be more thrilled or feel incredibly lucky that God decided to give me Joe. Helping me build my sense of humor and giving me an ego boost along the way, heâs shaped me into becoming a better man myself.
Partners in crime, wingmen, and best friends, I am so happy that heâs chosen to spend his life with Cindy. If I could mold a woman specifically for my brother, it would have been her in every way. Youâve both gotten so lucky.
Letâs all raise our glass to Joe, his beautiful new wife, and the incredible journey theyâre about to embark on.â
FUNNY AND UPBEAT
SHORT BROTHER OF THE GROOM SPEECH
âGood evening, everyone; from the moment that [Groom] met [Bride], I knew that this was going to be something special.
The way you two talk to each other, youâre so alike sometimes that honestly, it kind of scares me.
But to quote Mark Twain, âTo get the full value of joy, you must have someone to divide it with.â May your love be timeless.â
HEARTFELT BROTHER OF THE GROOM TOAST
âMost of you here know me, but for those that donât, I am George, the groomâs older brother. I would like to say that I have been an inspiration to how Gregory has lived his life and the man he has become, but honestly, he has been more of an inspiration to me than I have been to him. His zest for life, undying love for family and friends, and his kind and generous heart are things that I, as his older brother, try to emulate.
As I stand here today, watching my baby brother marry the love of his life, Meghan, I cannot help but dream of the triumphs that we are all about to witness between the two of them.
Meghan, I cannot imagine any more perfect woman and wife for Gregory. Your calm and loving ways compliment him, ways I never knew possible. The way you look at him makes me long for that type of love when I finally find a wife (thatâll put up with me). And I know every best man includes this in their speech, but I can honestly say that I have never seen you look more radiant or beautiful than you do today. My wish for you is that the glow you have today is what you feel every day and what my brother sees every morning and night.
May your love continue to grow and blossom as each year and milestone passes. Ladies and gentlemen, please raise your glasses to toast my baby brother and his wife for life. To Gregory & Meghan!â
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The Ultimate Best Man Speech Guide (Examples And Templates Included)
- Posted by by Lisa Plaitt
Being picked to be the best man is such a great honor. You will feel blessed that the groom has thought of you, and considers you the best man and friend for the job.
But, as the wedding draws nearer, thereâs one thing on your mind. No, itâs not the bachelor party⊠Itâs the best manâs speech(see also: Best Ways to End Your Best Manâs Speech ).Â
As the best man, you will likely have many responsibilities in the run up towards the wedding. Youâll have to try on suits, organize the bachelor party, but the best man speech is the thing that most look forward to, or dread!
Standing up in front of many guests, some of which you may not have met before can be nerve wracking to say the least. Itâs such an important task, and a part of the wedding that many guests look forward to.Â
A best man speech needs to hook the audience in, reveal some funny stories about the groom, and even the bride, but also wish the couple well, and spread some laughter amongst the audience.
But, you have to do all of this in one single speech that canât be too long, and canât be too short!Â
So, how can you nail the best man speech? Well, thatâs where we come in handy. We can offer you this ultimate guide to creating a best man speech, including tips, structure and examples you can take inspiration from.Â
How To Structure A Best Man Speech
Not everyone is gifted with the ability to speak clearly and confidently to a crowd. It can be very nerve racking, and make you anxious to say the least.
If youâre unsure of how to go about planning your best man speech, then we can help you out with this simple structure to follow and keep yourself on track.Â
This structure is a sort of guide, you donât have to use it, but itâs a good idea to follow the structure so you cover all bases when doing the speech.
It can also help you when actually performing the speech, as youâll know what needs to come next and in which order to go over your stories and anecdotes.
A good best man speech begins with:
- An Introduction
Use the introduction to introduce yourself to the crowd. Not everyone will know who you are in the wedding, so itâs a nice way to break the ice and get rid of any awkwardness.
Try introducing yourself with a funny one liner about who you are and how you know the happy couple.
- Talk About How You Met/Know The Groom
Next, itâs a good idea to briefly cover how you met the groom, or how long youâve known each other. You can give a little history of how far back you go, and mention how honored you are to be the best man.Â
- Anecdotes About The Groom
Here comes the fun part! Now is the time to start telling a funny story about the groom. The emphasis here is on funny and not too embarrassing or gross. Choose two or three short anecdotes or stories, but donât overdo it.Â
- Balance Poking Fun With Sincerity
After youâve had your fun, balance this out by saying something meaningful and sincere about the groom, his qualities or your friendship.Â
- Briefly Talk About How You Know The Bride
In this section, you can talk about your first meeting with the bride, how she came into the groomâs life, and how great of a match you believe them to be.Â
- Wish Them All The Best
Finally, wish the couple all the best for their future together with a sincere, caring comment. Then, toast to the happy couple!Â
Best Man Speech Doâs And Donâts
There are definitely a few doâs and donâts when it comes to speaking at someoneâs wedding. Youâll want to keep it concise, funny, but not too over the top jokey. Hereâs our recommendations of what to do, and what not to do.Â
First things first, youâll want to plan ahead, and write a few stories and anecdotes down that you can remember. Do this for a few weeks before the wedding, so it gives you time to come up with the right memories to share.Â
Try brainstorming ideas with other members of the family or bridal party to come up with the best things to share about the groom and his bride. Then, you can narrow down the list and find the most impactful or most important things to talk about.
You should also consider who this speech is going to be said around.
If the groomâs very traditional great aunt or grandma is there, it could be a good idea to avoid any crass, rude stories that could make family members uncomfortable. Save those lines for the bachelor party!Â
Do pause for reactions. You donât want to talk too fast or fly through the speech as those who have laughed at the last line may miss the next one. Always leave small gaps or pauses for reactions, applause or responses.Â
Finally, make sure you focus on the couple, not just the groom.
This day is about the two of them. While you are doing a speech because you are the best man to the groom, it is important that you bring in the bride/partner in your speech so that overall you are wishing both of them well on their new adventure.Â
What Not To Do
Donât wing it! You may have some liquid courage on the night, but you need this speech to be a crowd pleaser, so be sure to take your notes and go over the speech in your head just before you have to do it.Â
Donât use foul language, or inflammatory language. You donât want to cause a dark cloud over the event by offending anyone or causing a scene.
The same goes for mentioning exes (who could well be at the wedding) or bringing up sore subjects during the speech. Keep it fun, lighthearted, and hilarious.Â
Donât use cliches like The groom is like a brother to me. Instead, demonstrate your close bond by telling a story or giving an example of when he treated you like family, and made you feel welcome.
This is far more impactful and will really get the audience involved in your speech.Â
Finally, and this is an important one- donât make it about you. This is not your shining moment, your time will come.
Ensure youâre not talking about yourself too much, and always bringing it back to the bride and groom, because thatâs what the audience really wants to hear about.
Itâs a chance for them to see the couple in a different light, from your perspective, not learn everything about you.Â
Tips For Writing A Best Man Speech
Weâve also got some brief tips for writing and performing your best man speech!
- Practice before the actual speech
- Donât include inside jokes- they will fall on deaf ears
- Keep it short and sweet â donât go over the top with long stories/memories
- Donât use cringey cliches
- Donât mention exes- even as a joke
- Use clean language
- Donât say anything political/inflammatory
- Tell a story about the groom and the couple as a pair
- Donât just focus on the groom
- Always end on a high â make a nice toast and comment about the couple
Qualities To Talk About In The Best Man Speech
Throughout your speech, it is important to keep a running theme. If the joke you are telling is unrelated, it wonât have as much drive and impact.
For instance, if youâre talking about the groomâs thoughtfulness, use funny anecdotes that relate to this, and bring it back to that whenever possible.
Here are some other qualities that are worth mentioning:
- Sense of humor: If the groom is known for his quick wit and humor, be sure to incorporate this into your speech. Share a funny story or two that showcases his sense of humor and make the guests laugh.
- Generosity: If the groom is known for his kindness and generosity, talk about a specific instance where he went out of his way to help someone in need. This will show the guests the type of person he truly is.
- Loyalty: Mention the groomâs unwavering loyalty to his friends and family. Talk about how he has been there for you and others in the past and how this trait is so important in a relationship.
- Intelligence: If the groom is intelligent and knowledgeable, highlight this in your speech. Talk about his impressive achievements or interests that show his intelligence and passion.
- Adventure: If the groom is someone who is always up for a new adventure, talk about his love for travel or exploring new things. This will show the guests his spontaneous and adventurous side.
For example, you could say:
Where do I begin with the groomâs sharp sense of humor? Heâs a true master of wit, who can leave even the most experienced comedian in awe. A particularly memorable instance was when him and his bride went on a picnic; after he inadvertently dropped their sandwiches into a nearby pond, he remarked âWell, it looks like weâre having fish sandwiches today!â. The bride couldnât help but laugh out loud at how quickly he turned an unfortunate situation into something humorous â that is simply the type of person this groom is.Â
Groom has always had a very caring, loving nature. He would do anything for anyone. Except that one time I asked him to water my plants while I was on vacation. He brought all of the guys over to âwater my plantsâ! Thanks for that, Groom. Just kidding, Groom is incredibly thoughtful and compassionate towards all who meet him, which is a quality I believe brought him closer to Bride.Â
You want to talk about his great qualities, poke a little fun, or share a funny story, but then talk about how these qualities have translated into his relationship with his partner, or how they have brought them closer together.Â
Best Man Speech Examples
Good evening everyone. For those of you who donât know me, Iâm Tom, younger brother and best man of the groom. For those of you that do know meâŠheeeeeeey!Â
I have known Jack forâŠX years now (your age) and have always looked up to him. He had it all, the career, the intelligence, the sense of humor, and now the girl. Then again, I got the good looks.Â
In all seriousness, I have always looked up to my big brother. Heâs always had a flair for sports, and genuinely has a heart of gold.
Being the youngest of the two of us, Jack has made me a better man, mainly because of the character building he put me through as a child. Jack would love taunting me by stealing my favorite stuffed animals.Â
I cherished my favorite, Mr. Snuggles, until one day Jack told me to come downstairs and see the new toy that our Rottweiler had been given.
I was so excited to see our little furry boy happy and playing with his toy until I realized that Jack had offered up Mr. Snuggles in sacrifice with a huge grin on his face. It was a day I wonât forget.Â
Despite the taunting and the terrorizing, Jack has been the man that Iâve always aspired to be. In all of the years Iâve been around Jack, heâs always been tenacious and worked hard for what he wants. And heâs always gotten it.
After asking Jenny out the first time, and she said no , he didnât give up. He knew she was the one for him! Itâs a good thing he has the patience of a saint, as it took another 3 attempts to get the first date!Â
With Jack being the older, but not often the wiser brother, he managed to get himself into some mishaps in the past.
When he did finally get a chance to take Jenny out on a date, he turned up at the wrong house, and managed to slip and break his shoulder all in one fantastic, first meeting with the parents.
Smoooth, brother. At least he made it an unforgettable start to their journey together.Â
With Jenny at his side, Jackâs clumsy mishaps are less and less. You truly bring out the best in him, Jen. I would say welcome to the family, but youâve been a part of our lives for some time already, and I am truly blessed to be able to call you my new sister.Â
From day one, youâve fit right in, as you too have taken on the role of teasing Jack just as I wanted. Let me tell you guys, there have been many pranks that Jenny and I have pulled off on Jack.
One time, we hid all of his left shoes, until the confusion nearly drove him to madnessâŠand he had to deliver his board meeting like some kind of two right footed lunatic.Â
Other times, weâve hidden around the house just when Jack is coming home from a long day at the office, to ambush him with Nerf guns until he pleads for mercy! Letâs just say justice has been served for Mr. Snuggles.Â
I quickly realized that Jenny and Jack were cut from the same mold. You two are a real example of what it means to marry your best friend, and I canât wait to see what the future holds for the two of you.
So everyone, if you could raise your glassâŠand toast- to the bride and groom!Â
Hi everyone! For those of you who donât know me already, I am Zach, the best man of James! When James asked me to be the best man I felt like it was such an honor.
Then he reminded me that itâs not just about organizing the bachelor party and I have to actually come to the wedding soâŠhere I am.Â
Iâve known James for so many years now, having met him at high school. In those years, itâs become clear what a fantastic friend he is. Heâs handsome, kind, brilliant, funnyâŠand sorry (looks at Groom) mate I canât read your handwriting here. Iâll just wing it.Â
Just kidding. Me and James have been through thick and thin. Iâve watched him go from a weedy, awkward teenager to a less weedy, awkward adult!
Britney would probably argue with me over the adult part! James has always had that boyish sense of humor thatâs often gotten us into trouble over the years.Â
I remember James would always be the class clown in high school. But for some reason, it was always me getting in trouble. One day, I glanced over in class to see James scribbling away on his desk.
Heâs probably carving out some obscenity in the wood I thought.
This is why it came as such a shock when later that day it was I who was called into the principalâs office, and as I walked with my head hung in shame to my fate, James smiled wide and proudly.
Little did I know it was my name he had carved into the wood, so I could sit in detention after class!  Â
Ever since that day, James and I have been at war with one another to get the other one back! But deep down, I know that James would do anything for me. If I needed someone at 4am, James is that friend.
Despite our differences, I know heâs as good as family to me, and all of the Hendersonâs have welcomed me into their home on many occasions, and now Britney gets to have that same privilege.Â
Britney brings out the absolute best in James, and has given us an incredible gift in bringing two wonderful boys into our lives. With Britney, James gets someone who is beautiful, smart, caring, and BritneyâŠwell, you get James.Â
In all seriousness, if Britney gets half as much joy in being married to James, that I have had in being his friend over the years, then she will be incredibly lucky indeed.Â
On behalf of all the groomsmen, bridesmaids and myself, I would like to thank James and Britney for having us be a part of their special day. I know how hard youâve worked to make this a day to remember, and youâve definitely succeeded.Â
I wish you both all of the happiness, joy and good luck in the world, as you take these steps towards your future together. To the bride and groom, everyone! (Cheers).Â
Hello everyone. My name is Joe and Iâd just like to thank John for finally confirming that I am in fact â the best man, after 20 years of friendship. 20 years is a long time.
Just think, back thenâŠLow rise jeans were in fashion, Spiderman was the favorite superhero, and Ben Affleck and J-Lo were together. So really, nothing has changed in 20 years, and the same goes for our friendship.Â
If I ever needed building up, or bringing back down to earth, John was the man to do it. Heâs always been there for me, through thick and thin. And letâs face itâŠduring the college years, we were more thick than thin!
But, we had each otherâs backs no matter what.
I remember one time in college, we decided that reading books and writing our own essays just wasnât for us anymore. We decided to pay someone to write us an essay, and we would switch it up to pass the class.
From that day on a keen businessman was born- be careful everyone- youâll probably get a bill for your food!Â
It all would have gone swimmingly if John hadnât forgotten to change the name on the essay, but he never took me down with him!
Since then, Iâve realized what a tenacious person, good friend and loyal individual John was, and itâs an absolute blessing to be up here with you tonight as your best man.Â
There is one very important person who is not sitting on this top table with us today, and that is Johnâs mother, Cathy, who sadly passed away just last year.
Iâve joked a lot about John tonight, but I know that Cathy would be incredibly proud to see the man that you have become, and over the moon of how happy you are today with Mia.
So, if you wouldnât mind joining me in raising a glass to Johnâs mom, who canât be with us today, but is with us in spirit. Cheers.Â
On behalf of the wedding party, I would just like to say a huge thank you to John and Mia, for including us in their special day.
Itâs been a wonderful day so far, and all Miaâs hard work planning and prepping has truly paid off. John, you just sit there and look pretty.Â
In addition, Iâd like to thank both Miaâs parents, and Johnâs dad who have helped make this day extra special for the happy couple, which Iâm sure they are eternally grateful for.Â
Iâd also like to say that the bridesmaids have done an incredible job helping Mia plan the perfect wedding, and for making sure that Mia looks every bit as beautiful as she does today.
They also had the difficult task of getting Mia to the church on time, which if you know Mia is a very big achievement, indeed.Â
Finally, Iâd like to thank the groomsmen for organizing and completing the best bachelor party Miami has ever seen. I only hope it was the send off John was hoping for before he begins the next stage of his life with Mia. (But I highly doubt it)Â
John, Iâve loved being your best friend, and I thank you for bringing Mia into our lives. Sheâs a beautiful person, intelligent, and brings out the best in everyone she meets. Her only downfall is her taste in men! Just kidding.Â
Seriously, I think everyone will join me in saying that we wish you only the best for your future together, and that we all can share one day in a love like yours. Cheers to the bride and groom!Â
Ladies and Gentleman, I have an announcement to make. If there is anyone here tonight that is feeling nervous, apprehensive, or maybe even a little nauseous at what lies aheadâŠthen itâs probably because youâve just married Adam.Â
For those of you who donât know who I am, I am the best man, James. There are few words to describe Adam. Handsome, funny, but smart isnât one of them. You see, Adam was my best man, at my wedding, and boy he did not hold back!
So, as we stand here today, know that my time has come for me to get you back!
Before I start the character assassination that is my best manâs speech, let me just thank Adam and Olivia for having us be a part of this very special day.
I know how much work has gone into making today as great as it has been, so thank you both for pulling it off! To be honest, I never thought Adam would find someone to marry, let alone someone as beautiful and amazing as Olivia!
Iâve known Adam for a very long time, all the way back to when he still had hair! We first met during our studies at X University. At first I thought we had nothing in common, but I quickly found out that we did. We would both likely fail our first year!
Our time at University was one of the best in my life, and Iâve far too many stories to tell you about our lovely Adam here.Â
But, as the BEST man, I wonât do to him what he did to me. Instead, Iâll talk about his lovely qualities over the years. First up, is his beautiful singing voice. I canât tell you how many times I heard the works of Marvin Gaye after he met Olivia.
We quickly banned singing in the shower at our dorm because of all the love songs he would belt out after going on a date with Olivia. To say he was smitten from the start is an understatement.Â
And why wouldnât he be? All those who know Olivia know what a lovely, and caring person she is. She deserves a good husband. Thank god Adam got there first before she could find one!Â
Another defining quality that drew Olivia to Adam is his caring nature. Weâre incredibly proud of Adam for working as an EMT and helping people every day.
Iâll never forget the time a few years back during a friendly soccer game where I slipped and fell over on my side, snapping and breaking my ankle.
Adam was at my side within SECONDSâŠto let me know he caught my fall on video. Emergency Medical Services *Scoff*. Only when he saw the angle of my ankle did his medical training kick in.
All jokes aside, Adam and Olivia have always been there for me, and I them. Iâd like to think of them as family rather than friends, and can only hope that continues going forward.
Adam and OliviaâŠIâve never met two people more perfect for one another. You are both kind, old souls, and you make each other incredibly happy. So, if you all could raise your glasses with me, and toast to this amazing coupleâŠto the bride and groom! Â
Hello everyone. My name is Kane, and I am the best man, and longtime friend of Rob. I was, however, somewhat surprised to be asked to be the best man, as Rob has never been able to admit this over the years.
At first, I thought this was great. I get to plan a bachelor party for Rob, but then he reminds me I have to write a killer speech that would likely make everyone laugh.Â
I had no idea where to start, so I decided to trawl the internet for inspiration. After a few hours, I found some reallyâŠ.reallyâŠgreat stuff. But then I remembered I needed to write a speech, so I got off YouTube.Â
I asked friends and family for advice, and according to tradition, I am supposed to sing Robâs praises and tell you all about his fantastic qualities. Well, sorry to tell you, but I canât sing and I donât lie. So thatâs out of the window.Â
But, Sophia told me I canât say anything too rude or controversial about Rob. Instead, I can only say nice funny things, so with that in mind, thank you and goodnight all.Â
Just kidding. Seriously, Rob is one of the most kind, funny, caring and compassionate people I have ever met. This is a quality that I think brought Sophia closer to him.
His willingness to do anything for anyone, without accepting anything in return is what makes Rob extra special, and a joy to be around.Â
In turn, Sophia is one of the sweetest, and funnest ladies I have ever met! Weâve shared many great memories together, with my partner included, as Sophia and Rob are actually our childrenâs godparents.Â
Iâve known Rob for years. We grew up only a few doors apart on our street. I thought there was no kid cooler than Rob. He had all of the best hot wheels, Pokemon cards, and I had a huge crush on his big sister, Natalie *winks at groomâs sister*.
Looking back, I was probably a big nuisance always wanting to go play over his house, but I had some of the best time of my life growing up with Rob by my side. Weâve been there for every big moment of each otherâs lives.
Graduation, getting our first jobs, our first cars, and now I get to be here for the biggest day of his life, where he gets to marry the beautiful Sophia.Â
Sophia and Rob, your love for each other shines through you. Sophia, Iâm happy to step down as I can see that you two are truly best friends, and meant to be.
I canât think of anyone better to look after my Rob here, and I know he will do everything he can to look after you for the rest of his days.Â
Thank you both so much for a fantastic day. If the rest of your lives is half as good as today has been, then you are in for a joyful marriage indeed. Please join me everyone in raising a glass to the newly weds, Rob and Sophia. Cheers!Â
Best Man Speech Frequentl Asked Questions
Does the best man have to do a speech.
The best man does not have to give a speech if he really does not want to, or if there isnât enough time because there are other people doing speeches, but it is tradition and expected of the best man to do a speech.Â
When Does The Best ManâS Speech Happen?
The best man speech will typically happen after the groom has said a few words. However, every wedding is different, and the bride and groom may organize the day differently depending on how they think the speeches should flow.Â
How Long Should A Best Man Speech Be?
A best man speech should be short and sweet, but not too short, and not too long. A happy medium is about 5-6 minutes in length. You donât want it to be shorter than 3 minutes as it may seem too brief.
The point is to keep the audience engaged, and deliver a few anecdotes, thank the bride and groom, and raise a toast.Â
What Should You Include In A Best Man Speech?
There are a few things that you should include in the best man speech. This is who you are, and how you know the bride and groom.
In addition, you need a fun story about the groom and you, and why you think the bride and groom are an excellent match, followed by your best wishes for the couple and a toast to their future together.Â
Who Should You Thank In A Best Man Speech?
In the best man speech, you should thank the bride and groom of course, but you can also thank the bridesmaids or groomsmen for their efforts, or say thank you to the parents of the bride and groom, especially if they have contributed a lot to the wedding.
To summarize, writing a best man speech is not all as bad as it seems.
With this ultimate guide, youâve got all of the tools you need to succeed, and successfully deliver a hilarious, fun, lighthearted speech that is sure to wish the couple all of the best for the future.
Whether you are looking for examples, tips, what to do, or what not to do, weâve covered it all in this handy guide.
Now, instead of stressing out about what you are going to say, how you are going to say it, you can look forward to the wedding planning process in the run up to the big day, and most importantlyâŠthe bachelor party!
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Pat yourself on the backâyou're the best man. It's a good feeling when one of your loved ones asks you to be their right hand for the wedding. Beyond the fun best man duties , like planning an epic bach party , you'll have to give a rousing best man speech. We believe it's arguably the most meaningful duty, but don't let that get you nervous. Whether you're a public speaking pro or have only delivered speeches while on the eighth-grade debate team, boost your chances of making your best man speech a hit by using our helpful tips, ideas and examples for inspiration.
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Printable Template | How to Write | Examples | Tips | FAQs
Printable Best Man Speech Template
Delivering a best man wedding speech doesn't have to feel like a chore. Use the template below as a checklist while you're writing your best man speech.
How to Write a Best Man Speech Outline
We're guessing the thought of crafting a flawless best man speech from scratch feels pretty overwhelming right about now. Start by drafting a bare-bones outline (trust us, drawing up a rough outline is way more palatable than writing a fully fleshed-out speech). You don't need to include every element in your wedding speech . Instead, customize it to fit the couple, the event and your relationship with the groom.
1. Have a killer opening line.
Successful best man speeches always start with a good opener. Introduce yourself and explain your connection to the happy couple. Have fun with this part by sharing a quick joke or quoting a poem so your speech doesn't start off stale. For example, "Hello everyone! For those of you who don't know me, thank you so much for coming to my wedding. [pause for laughter] Sorry about that...I'm a little nervous."
2. Thank the other speakers.
Once you address the audience, give props to the previous speaker to help lead into your speech. If you know your speech has a sillier sentiment, now's your chance to warn your audience in the change of direction. Here's an example: "Let's give it up to the amazing speech given by the wonderful maid of honor . If you enjoyed how thoughtful and sweet her speech was, you better get the tissues ready for this one!"
Next, express your gratitude to the couple's parents. Thank the couples' parents for not only raising incredible adults and, if they helped pay for the wedding, for hosting such a great party. Here's an example: "I'd like to begin by expressing my deepest gratitude to the couples' parents for raising such amazing people, who I'm fortunate to call my best friends. I would also like to thank their parents for hosting such an awesome celebration for all of us to enjoy this evening."
3. Say a few words about your friend's new spouse.
Another writing a best man speech tip is always to give a special shoutout to the new spouse so they feel welcomed and included. Yes, we know you most likely have a closer relationship with the groom, but don't let that stop you from showering them with kind wordsââit's their big day too. Talk about the qualities you like about them and why you love them in the groom's life. Try this, "I'm so happy [Spouse's Name] fell in love with [Groom's Name]. Firsthand I've seen the grace, intelligence and confidence [Spouse's Name] has, which explains why [Groom's Name] knew he wanted to marry [Spouse's Name] after their first date."
4. Share personal stories.
What's going to make your best man speech stand out are personal stories. We suggest adding one or two anecdotes, like your favorite memories with the groom (and their partner, if you want). Avoid choosing a story that rambles on and has no sentimental or funny endingâkeep it lighthearted and short. Here's a silly example, "I remember when we first met in first grade. [Groom's Name] had just glued his hand to his face but still used his free one to shake my hand and ask if I wanted to be his friend."
5. Talk about the couple's relationship.
This is the time to speak about why the groom and their new spouse are a great couple. Share how they first met and how their relationship has grown so other guests can get a better insight into the newlyweds. If you helped the love birds meet, say something like this in your best man speech: "I know I said earlier I'm the best man, but I lied. I'm actually Cupid because I'm the one who introduced these two eight years ago."
6. Propose a toast.
Finally, close out your best man speech with a heartfelt toast. Ask everyone to raise a glass and provide well wishes to the newly married couple. Steal this wedding toast : "Everyone, please join me in raising a glass to such a wonderful couple. I wish you a lifetime of peace, love and happiness. Love you guys!"
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Best man speech examples.
Now that you know how to write the outline, let us provide you with some inspiration. Here are four best man speech ideas for every type of delivery.
Short Best Man Speech Example
Short best man speeches can make the grade just as much as long ones. Try this short but sweet example.
As the poet, Dante once said, 'A great flame follows a little spark.' When [Groom's Name] met [Spouse's Name], there was a little spark. I know because I talked to him the next day.
From the way he talked about [Spouse's Name], this stranger he chatted up at a Halloween party, I could tell this spark was something special.
You two are fantastic together. May the flame burn long, and may sparks continue to fly. Cheers to the newlyweds!
Funny Best Man Speech Example
Funny best man speeches are our favorite. You get to show off your comedic skills while giving loving well-wishes to the happy couple.
Hello! For those who don't know me, I'm [Your Name], the best man. I've known [Groom's Name] since middle school, which means that it was before we learned mullets weren't a good look for either of us.
[Groom's Name] and [Spouse's Name] told me there are some topics I should avoid in this speech soâŠ[Look through cue cards, then shake head and dramatically drop them all to the floor but one.]
[Reading from the remaining cue card] [Groom's Name] is really the best friend I've ever had. He's done so many wonderful things it would be difficult to name them all. Hey, [a Groomsman's Name], I can't read your handwriting here!
But seriously, it's all true. This guy is a great friend, the best I've got, and I'm very proud to stand by his side today.
[Spouse's Name], I was hoping to be the best-looking person in the room today but obviously, I failed miserably. You look beautiful and radiant. I'm beyond happy for the two of you.
May you always find joy in the little things, like your Xbox and 'Star Wars.' Oh wait, that's my personal goal. You should actually find joy in each other, and do everything you can to have a lifetime of happiness together. Let's toast the newlyweds!
Best Man Speech for Brother Example
Need best man speech examples for your brother? Use our speech below as a guide to delivering a sweet message to your older or younger brother.
On my fourth birthday, my parents got me a brotherâŠI wanted a puppy.
But seriously, as a kid [Groom's Name] wanted to do everything I did. He used to follow me around. He used to sneak into my room and play with my Matchbox cars. Our parents could get him to eat his broccoli by making me eat my broccoli.
It wasn't until after I went to college that he started going down his own path. He started doing volunteer work. He found a job he loves, a pretty killer apartment and, of course, he found [Spouse's Name].
[Spouse's Name], you're the nicest person I've ever met, and my brother is so blessed to have someone like you in his life. Thank you for being there for him.
I'm so happy you two found each other especially because I'm gaining a sister today. Oh, and I want to set the record straight. I'm glad I didn't get a puppy that day. I love you, little bro.
Congratulations to both of you. I wish you lots of laughter, love and joy as a married couple. Cheers to the newlyweds!
Best Man Speech for Best Friend Example
For those who need a best man speech sample for their best friend, we got you covered. Here's how to tell your BFF you're happy for them on their special day.
Good evening, everyone! I'm [Your Name], and I'm extremely honored to call myself [Groom's Name]'s best man. Also, please excuse the puffiness under my eyes, I've been happy crying since before the ceremony.
I first met [Groom's Name] while working at a pizza joint called Domenica's while in college. I hated being a server with all my heart, but whenever [Groom's Name] and I were scheduled together, it made it so much more bearable.
We laughed until we cried, ate hundreds of garlic knots and I can't tell you the amount of times we accidentally got pizza dough stuck to the ceiling during our pizza toss competitions. But even after we both quit and moved on to bigger and better things, we still kept in touch and I'm eternally grateful.
One of those bigger and better things was [Spouse's Name]. [Groom's Name] really discovered the perfect piece to his puzzle. [Spouse's Name] laughs at his bad jokes, listens to his long monologues about Batman vs. Superman and most importantly, loves him no matter what. [Spouse's Name] is a phenomenal and caring person who deserves the world, and I know [Groom's Name] will do everything he can to give it to them.
Thank you both for allowing me to be a part of your beautiful wedding, and I can't wait to see what else is in store for you in the future. Love you guys, and cheers to the handsome couple!
Best Man Speech Tips
Good news! We got how to give a best man speech tips from Dominic Bliss, wedding writer and author of Being the Best Man for Dummies. Study up on these helpful pointers below to minimize pre-speech jitters and ensure a smooth delivery.
Plan ahead.
The first tip in our guide on how to write a best man speech is to get started in advance. (As in, do not procrastinate.) "Start writing a best man speech at least two months before the wedding," Bliss says. "As the wedding nears, there are lots of eventsâsuit fittings and a coed shower, perhapsâthat could distract you from getting your writing done." Brainstorm and write down any stories, jokes or best man speech quotes you want to include. The more time you have to prepare your best man speech, the better. This way, you'll be able to be fully present at upcoming wedding festivities.
Be genuine.
Whether the wedding guests are strangers or family, it can feel nerve-racking to deliver your best man speech with all eyes on you. To ease the awkwardness, provide anecdotes and stories about your relationship with the couple. Everyone loves a bit of nostalgia, and the guests get to know you better.
With that said, stay true to how you normally act while making your speech. There's no need for you to change who you are for some made-up public speaking persona. If you feel more comfortable cracking jokes throughout your speech, do it. If you are better at being sentimental and don't mind leaving everyone misty-eyed, take that approach. Remember, the couple chose you to speak at their wedding because they felt you could add something special to their big day. As long as you deliver a heartfelt speech, the newlyweds and guests will love it.
Know what topics to avoid.
There are a few topics to omit from the best man speech. No matter how funny you (and even the groom) might think they are, someone is bound to be offended or put off if you mention:
- Negativity about marriage in general.
- Past relationships.
- Previous marriages/divorces.
- Drinking, drugs, gambling.
- "Adult" humor or any other mention of sex.
After all, your best man speech should celebrate the newlywed couple and their love rather than causing future friction. Keep it PG.
Consider adding jokes.
If you want to deliver a funny best man speech, consider poking some fun at the groom. "Every groom will have some funny characteristic or quirk you can ridicule," Bliss notes. "As long as it's something everyone can appreciate, it's sure to get a laugh. Avoid obscure references or inside jokes. You want older guests and those who don't know him well to see the funny side too." Be strategic about your jokes too. You can make jokes about the groom but leave their new spouse alone.
Write it down.
Even those with a great memory will feel more confident with a written speech or at least a few bullet points to keep them on track. Nerves can mess with your memory, so don't think you're a failure if you have to bring notes with you. (Even CEOs do this at corporate events.) Bliss suggests using small note cards instead of a sheet of paper since they "won't flap around."
And yes we know many groomsmen will want to read off their cell phones out of convenience, but wedding planners recommend against it. The lighting from your phone screen can ruin the wedding photographer's photos and can be distracting to guests. Practice writing down your speech insteadâit's quite soothing.
Practice with an audience.
This tip is a must when it comes to writing a best man speech. Even if you think you have this whole thing in the bag, practice delivering your wedding speech aloud at least three times. When you're by yourself, take a video and watch the playback to get a feel for how your speech is going. (Do you say "um" between every sentence? Are your gestures a little robotic?) If your friends can't offer critiques in person, "send [the video] to a close friend who won't be going to the wedding and who can give you honest feedback," Bliss recommends.
Finally: don't mumble. A great best man speech becomes boring if it's monotonous or guests are straining to hear you. Speak confidently and slowly.
Best Man Frequently Asked Questions
If this is your first time giving a best man speech, you might have a lot of questions. Here are answers to the top wedding speech inquiries.
How Long Should a Best Man Speech Be?
In general, the best man speech length should be at least three minutes, but no more than five minutes. This is enough time to say something meaningful before guests get too antsy. Of course, you should adjust your speech length to the event. If you're speaking at a last-minute wedding, it might require a brief speech, while a formal affair could call for a longer toast. But you might also be wondering, "how many words should a best man speech be?" We suggest between 700 to 1000 words.
How to Start a Best Man Speech
Begin your speech by addressing the audience and thanking them for attending the wedding. Here's an example, "Hello, everyone. On behalf of the newlyweds, I want to thank everyone for attending this amazing celebration." You can even butter up the crowd by saying how lovely everyone looks this evening. Then, introduce yourself and how you know the groom or couple. This is a great opportunity to add a funny story or memory you have with them that can lead you into the rest of your speech.
How to End a Best Man Speech
Raise your glass and offer a toast wishing the couple a lifetime of happiness, excellent health and success. Your toast can include one final joke or be a marriage quote from your and the groom's favorite movie. Either way, take this chance to sincerely express the newlyweds well. Remember, concluding the speech is the easiest part.
Does the Best Man Have to Give a Speech?
It's not required, but it's expected that the best man gives a speechâespecially if the other honor attendants are giving one. If speaking in public makes your stomach turn, consider showing your appreciation for the couple in a different way. We've seen best men do upbeat choreography, sing the couple's favorite song or even present a wedding video they made.
When Does the Best Man Give His Speech?
Following the traditional wedding speech order , the best man speaks after the maid of honor and is the last speech during the reception. There's no need to use this itinerary since the speech order depends on your reception timeline and wedding party size. The to-be-weds might even ask you to deliver your speech during the rehearsal dinner, which most likely will be in front of a smaller audience (score!). Before the wedding and during, double-check with the couple to ensure you know when to give your best man speech so no one has to hunt you down when it's your turn.
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Writing A Best Man Speech For A Brother
Writing a best man speech for a brother .
Did you know that 1 in every 4 best men are also the brother of the groom? If this is the case for you then youâll need this handy guide on how to write a best man speech for your brother to make the day a triumph !
Diving into the world of wedding speeches can be a nerve-wracking adventure, especially if you’re the designated funny person in your group of friends. However, the true challenge lies in the best man speech . This eagerly anticipated moment holds the power to make or break the atmosphere of the day. It demands an astute blend of wit, humour, and heartfelt sentiments.
Now, if you happen to be the groom’s brother, you might feel like the odds are stacked against you. Youâve known him all your life, so people expect the speech of a lifetime. However, donât feel overwhelmed. If you follow this ultimate guide, you can create a best man speech that pays tribute to your sibling and contains clever gags .
How To Write A Best Man Speech For Your BrotherÂ
As the brother of the groom, youâre at a massive advantage when writing a best man speech. Youâve seen him at the best of times and at the worst. And a lot of that might have been down to you! So, with an entire lifetime of fights, fraternal rivalry and fellowship to draw upon, where should you start? Â
Introduce yourself
First, itâs important to let the wedding guests know your relationship with the groom from the outset. Youâd be surprised how many people donât know. So, establish youâre not his carer, a former work colleague or someone whoâs just walked in off the street. Youâre flesh and blood, and youâre not going to let this stop you from telling the glorious, unvarnished truth about your brother. Think he looks anxious? Yep. He has every reason to beâŠ!
Early memories
Balance is everything in a speech, and youâll want some heartfelt material to throw into the mix. Early memories can provide fertile ground. These might be occasions you love to reminisce about such as childhood holidays or family gatherings. Or perhaps itâs rites of passage like riding a bike for the first time, passing an exam or your brother treating everyone to a meal with his first salary. In a sense, writing a Best Man speech for a brother is like writing a letter to your younger selves.
If you are sharing Best Man duties with one of his friends, covering some stories from the early years is also a way to guarantee you do not go over the same ground. Your brother waiting to be seen in hospital with a toy bucket stuck on his head is unlikely to be a story a work friend brings up. At least, you hope not.
Mum and dad⊠what did they ever do for us?
Your parents raised your brother, clothed him and helped shape him into the unique individual he is today. You too! And theyâre still waiting for the thank you note. So, a Best Man speech for a brother is also a wonderful chance to say thanks to your mum and dad for everything theyâve done. You donât need to lay it on thick. A simple recognition of the sacrifices theyâve made is plenty.
Include some sibling rivalryÂ
Embracing your role as the groom’s brother offers an ideal opportunity to playfully tease him . After all, a best man speech devoid of jabs at the groom would hardly be worthy of the title. And everyone can relate to sibling rivalry.
How about when your garden or local street was transformed into a makeshift Olympic arena, where the pursuit of victory trumped all?Â
Or those âplayâ fights that would have made Mixed Martial Arts look like a ballet lesson. Was your brother someone who always looked up to you⊠because you usually had him pinned to the floor?
Remember, it’s perfectly acceptable to indulge in a bit of self-promotion at your brother’s expense. The audience will love it, and – perhaps secretly – he will too.
Jokes Jokes Jokes
This is your chance to remember those delightful, slightly embarrassing stories from the archives of your shared experiences. Remember the times you had to share a room together or even a beloved toy? How did it pan out? Was it plain sailing or did the negotiations require a UN Peacekeeping Force?
Let’s be real here, your brother is well aware of what awaits him. The key is to ensure the spotlight remains firmly on him, while steering clear of any unexploded mines that may dampen the atmosphere.
How To Write A Best Man Speech As The Older Brother
You could present yourself as the esteemed older brother by the younger manâs side. You could be self-deprecating and admit your younger brother is actually wiser and more mature than you. You could, of course, do both.
Whatâs key is to find those moments that resonate and fill the room with laughter.
For example, did you ever tell him any outrageous lies that would shame a 20 th century dictator? You know, like eating mud makes you run faster⊠if you eat an apple with the pips in it, a tree will grow in your stomachâŠ
Or were you the one who broke it to him that Santa Claus doesnât exist? If not, perhaps this wedding speech is the time to finally tell him!
Or, perhaps, you witnessed unforgettable milestones, like the night when your younger brother had his first drunken voyage. Stories of mischief go down a storm. And time will have healed any wounds⊠and his hangover.
Overall, writing a best man speech as the older brother allows you to express respect and admiration, while playfully reminding him that, no matter how clever, tall, successful, athletic, charming and handsome he is⊠he forever remains your little brother. So there!
How To Write A Best Man Speech As The Younger BrotherÂ
If you are the younger brother delivering a best man speech, you have the chance both to pay huge respect to your brother and indulge in a little payback time.
For a good number of years, your brother was most probably stronger and bigger than you. Or laid claim to knowledge that you were pitifully too young to understand. So, how did this manifest itself?Â
Were you always having to retrieve your possessions from him? Did he embody the saying: âWhatâs mine is mine, whatâs yours is mine.â? Is there a toy you think you NEVER got back? Was your brother the co-author of your medical record? Could trips to the first aid room have been prefaced by: âThis bruised rib was brought to you in association with, yep, my older brother again.â
But let’s not forget the times when your big brother swooped in like a hero, rescuing you from the clutches of a menacing bully, sparing you a smack round the head or a dead arm. Or the times he helped with your homework, consoled you, showed you a brilliant hack on a video game or was simply someone who deserves the name of guru, master, teacher, life coach, lode star and total inspiration?
 These stories hold immense potential, as they not only showcase the profound bond between you and the groom, but also infuse your best man speech with sentiment, nostalgia, laughter and love. You know what? Youâre going to make your older brother proud.
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21 Best Man Speech Examples & Ideas for the Groomâs Brother
Your brother has just asked you to be his best man and youâre feeling honored, pumped, and a little bit nervous.
As a professional writer and speaker who gave a best man speech for my brother, I know how important this speech is to everyone at the wedding.
You want to nail it.
Therefore, here are 21 best man speech examples and ideas you can use to present a best man speech that your brother will never forget.
Best Man Speech Ideas for the Groomâs Brother
Rather than let the nerves get the better of you, channel that energy into writing an amazing best man speech. Your brother entrusted you with this crucial job for a reasonâhe knows youâve got his back.
So take a deep breath, relax, and letâs get started.
1) Start With a Theme
The first step is to come up with a theme or angle for your speech.
Are you going to focus on your brotherâs childhood misadventures? His successes in work or love? His friendsâ impressions of him?
Once you zero in on a theme, it will be much easier to write the rest of the speech.
Everything else in your best man speech should connect back to the theme.
2) Know the Mood You Want To Create
Next, think about the mood you want to create with your speech.
Are you looking to make everyone laugh? Bring tears of joy to peopleâs eyes? Both? Knowing the emotional tone of your speech will help guide the content and delivery.
For example, if you want people to laugh, sprinkling in a few light-hearted jokes is key.
On the other hand, if youâre aiming for more of a sentimental tone, sharing personal anecdotes or stories about your brother is a better bet.
3) Choose the Best Structure for Your Best Man Speech
Youâll want to use a clear structure or outline for your best man speech.
Are you going to tell a linear story from start to finish? Jump around chronologically? Use a mix of both? Once you settle on an approach, itâs time to start filling in the blanks with some killer content.
Keep in mind that regardless of what structure you choose, itâs important to start strong and end on a high note.
You want people to remember your speech long after the wedding celebrations have wrapped up.
4) Tell Your Favorite Stories
Be sure to include some of your favorite stories about your brother.
Whether itâs a funny story from childhood or a more recent tale of his antics, these stories will help to humanize your brother and give the audience a glimpse into what heâs really like.
Just be sure not to embarrass him too much!
5) Know How To Start Your Speech
One idea is to begin by thanking the groom and bride for allowing you to share in their special day.
You could also start by telling the audience a little bit about your relationship with your brother and what he means to you. Whatever you choose, just make sure itâs something that will grab everyoneâs attention and establish the right tone.
Other ways you can start your speech:
6) Talk Up Your Brother
This is his big day, after all, so itâs important to say some nice things about him.
Talk about his strengths and what makes him an amazing person. You could even share some of your favorite memories of him.
Just be sure to keep it positive.
No one wants to hear a long venting session about all of his flaws and negative traits.
7) Speak Directly To Your Brother
The best man speech is meant to be a personal tribute to your brother.
This is his big day, after all, and your speech should reflect that. Thank him for asking you to be his best man and tell him how happy you are for him.
If you have any inside jokes or funny stories about your brother, this is the time to share them. However, donât go too overboard â remember that his new wife is in the audience.
8) Speak Directly To The Bride
While your speech is mostly about your brother, you donât want to leave out the other most important person at the wedding.
A personal address to the bride is a wonderful way to include her.
Welcome her to the family and say how happy you are that she has found happiness with your brother.
9) Recite the Story of How They Met
This is also a good opportunity to share a story or two about how your brother met his future wife.
The audience will love hearing about the early days of their relationship, and it will help to personalize your speech.
When my brother asked me to be his best man, I was committed to delivering a speech that would really capture the story of how he and his bride met. I had heard the story many times, of course, but I wanted to find a way to really bring it to life for the guests at the wedding.
To do that, I decided to share some of the âbehind the scenesâ details that my brother had confided in me over the years.
I started by recounting the first time they met, at a mutual friendâs party.
My brother had been instantly attracted to her, but he was too shy to make a move. I told the guests how he had agonized over whether or not to ask for her number, and how he had finally mustered up the courage to do it.
As I recounted his story, I could see my brother getting emotional, and I could tell that the guests were really connecting with him.
By sharing some of the more intimate details of their relationship, I was able to really bring my brotherâs love story to life.
It was a beautiful moment and one that I will always treasure.
10) Use the Right Amount of Humor
Not only is a best man speech an opportunity to honor the groom, but it also provides a chance to share some light-hearted stories.
However, itâs important to strike the right balance with humor in a best man speech.
Too much humor can come across as insensitive or mean-spirited, while too little can make the speech seem dull. The key is to focus on funny stories that will resonate with the audience and shed some light on the groomâs personality.
11) Share a Meaningful Quote
One way to make sure your speech is both personal and meaningful is to use a quote that has special significance for the bride and groom.
Maybe there is a saying that your father always said to the two of you or something your grandmother mentioned to your brother before she passed.
Donât just slap on a generic quote.
12) Wish the Best to the Bride and Groom
When giving a best man speech about your brother, give the bride and groom your best wishes.
They are embarking on a new chapter in their lives, and you want nothing but the best for them. Talk about how happy you are for them and how excited you are to see what the future holds for them.
Here is an example of what you might say:
On behalf of my brother and his new bride, I want to say thank you for coming to celebrate their special day. It means a lot to them that you are all here to support them as they start this new chapter in their lives. I know they are both extremely excited to begin this journey together, and I wish them all the best. I am confident they will make each other very happy and will always be there for one another through thick and thin. I am honoured to have been chosen as best man, and I know my brother is lucky to have found such a wonderful woman. So please join me in raising a glass to the happy couple â may they always be as blissfully content as they are today. Cheers!
13) End Your Speech On a Bright Note
A bright note can be a funny or sentimental story.
It could also be a quote, a toast, or a positive statement about your brother (the groom). A funny story will help to lighten the mood and leave everyone laughing.
Something heartfelt will leave everyone feeling warm and fuzzy.
14) Donât Wing It
I know from experience that itâs tempting to wing it when it comes to the speech, but trust me, thatâs not the way to go.
Itâs much better to come prepared with a few key points that you want to make.
That way, you wonât get choked up, say something inappropriate, or go off on tangents. Plus, your brother will appreciate your efforts and know that you took the time to really honor him on this important day.
15) Read It Out Loud
One tip that can help you deliver a great speech is to write it down and then read it out loud.
This will allow you to catch any tricky pronunciations, awkward sentence structures, or words that donât sound quite right when said aloud.
Not only will this help you deliver a more polished speech, but it will also help you feel more confident and prepared when the big day arrives.
16) Practice Giving the Speech 10 Times
Once you have a draft of your speech, itâs time to start practicing.
I recommend practicing your speech at least 10 times. This may seem like overkill, but itâs really not. The more you practice, the more comfortable youâll be with the material.
And when it comes time to give the speech, youâll be glad you took the time to prepare.
If possible, try to record yourself while youâre practicing. This will let you see how you sound and help you make any necessary adjustments to your delivery.
For example, if you notice that youâre using too many âumsâ or âahs,â try to cut back on them.
You also want to pay attention to your body language and make sure youâre not crossing your arms or fidgeting too much. Remember, the goal is to look confident and poised when youâre giving the speech.
17) Double-Check Everything on the Day of the Wedding
On the day of the wedding, make sure to double-check everything for your best man speech.
Youâll want to have a working microphone and speakers, and know where youâll be delivering your speech. Itâs also a good idea to check the room layout, so you know where your brother and his bride will be seated.
And finally, before you start your speech, take a quick moment to check the lights and echo in the room.
If youâre using notes, make sure theyâre with you and easily accessible.
Best Man Speech Examples
One of the best ways to write your best man speech is to read and hear good examples.
So, this section is full of best man speech examples for every occasion:
- Traditional best man speeches
- Emotional best man speeches
- Short best man speeches
- Funny best man speeches
- Religious or spiritual best man speech
- Best man speech for an older brother
- Best man speech for a younger brother
- Best man speech for a step-brother
- Best man speech for a brother-in-law
- Best man speech examples for a twin brother
Traditional Best Man Speech Examples
Here is an example of a traditional best man speech:
My brother is one of the most important people in my life. Heâs been my best friend since we were kids, and I canât imagine going through life without him by my side. Thatâs why Iâm so honored to be his best man today. I know my brother is going to make an amazing husband because heâs always been such a great friend to me. Heâs always been there for me when I needed him, and I know heâll be there for his new wife too. Itâs an honor and a privilege to celebrate with you both, and I know Iâll never forget this day. I love you, brother â congrats on your big day!
Check out this second example of a traditional best man speech:
Itâs my great honor to be your best man today. Weâve been through a lot together, havenât we? I canât even remember a time when you werenât by my side. Youâve always been there for me, no matter what. And I know youâll always be there for _ ____ too. Sheâs so lucky to have you as her husband. I know youâre going to make an amazing husband and father. You have all the qualities that matter most â youâre kind, youâre patient, and youâre so good with kids. _ is going to be one lucky family. So letâs raise our glasses to the happy couple! ______and ______, may your life together be full of love and happiness. Cheers!
Emotional Wedding Speech for Brother
This is a good example of an emotional best man speech for your brother:
I remember when I was younger, I used to always look up to my brother. He was always the smarter one, the better athlete, and the more popular guy. I was always trying to keep up with him and be like him. Even though I could never quite measure up to his accomplishments, he always made me feel like I was just as good as he was. He has always been my biggest supporter, and I know that he will be an amazing husband to his new wife. I am so honored to be standing up here today as his best man. My brother has always been a great example to me of what it means to be a good man. He is always so patient with everyone and he is always quick to lend a helping hand. I know that he will be a great husband to his new wife. I want to thank my brother for everything that he has done for me over the years. He has always been there for me, even when no one else was. I know that he will continue to be a great brother, husband, and father, and I am so proud of him. Congratulations, brother!
Watch this video of another great best man speech that is raw and emotional:
Short Best Man Speech Examples
Sometimes you just want to say a few quick words about your brother and his new wife.
Here are a few short best man speech examples:
Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great honor to stand before you today as the best man for my brother, (name). On behalf of (name) and his new wife, (name), I want to thank you all for being here to celebrate their special day. (Name) has been my best friend since childhood, and I am truly honored to be standing up for him on this important occasion. I know that he will make an incredible husband, and I am confident that (name) will be by his side every step of the way. So please join me in raising a glass to the happy couple. Cheers!
Here is another short best man speech example:
My brother is a big sports fanatic. Just like a successful football team, my brother and his new bride make a great team. They complement each other perfectly and they always have each otherâs back. I know that they will always be there for each other, no matter what life throws their way. Iâm so happy that my brother has found his perfect partner and I wish them all the happiness in the world. Congratulations!
Funny Best Man Speech Examples
If you or your brother are a natural-born comedian, then injecting humor into your best man speech is par for the course.
Here is an example of a funny best man speech:
First of all, I want to congratulate my brother on finding the woman of his dreams. As soon as I met her, I could see why he was so head over heels in love with her. Sheâs beautiful, intelligent, and has a great sense of humor. Her only flaw is her poor taste in husbands. But I guess nobodyâs perfect. (Wink) Iâm happy to say that she seems to be just as crazy about him as he is about her. I also want to congratulate my brother on making it through the wedding planning process without losing his mind. As anyone whoâs been through it knows, wedding planning can be a nightmare. There are so many details to take care of and so many people to please. But my brother managed to stay calm and sane throughout it all. And thatâs really saying something for a guy who wept like a baby during The Notebook. Seriously though, I wish all the best of luck and love to the happy couple. Cheers!
Best Man Speech Examples for Older Brother
If your brother is older than you, here is an example of a best man speech for him:
My big brother is a professional pilot, and Iâve always looked up to him â literally and figuratively. Heâs always had a passion for flying, and heâs worked hard to turn his passion into a career. Today, heâs living his dream, and I couldnât be happier for him. Just like my brother has dedicated his life to flying, marriage is a commitment that should be taken seriously. Itâs not something to be taken lightly â itâs a journey that should be undertaken with care and consideration. Just like my brother has navigated through some turbulence in his career, marriage will have its ups and downs. But I know that he and his bride will weather any storm, because theyâre committed to each other and theyâre willing to work hard to make their marriage last. May their life together be as smooth sailing as my brotherâs career in aviation!
Best Man Speech Examples for Younger Brother
Now letâs look at a best man speech for a younger brother:
In just a few short minutes, my little brother will be a married man. Itâs hard to believe that the boy who used to follow me around everywhere is all grown up and starting his own family. But I couldnât be more proud of him. Heâs always had a sense of duty and honor, even when we were kids. And when he joined the military, I knew he was going to make an outstanding soldier. Heâs already done so much for our country, and I know heâll only continue his legacy of love and dedication. Itâs my pleasure to toast the best man, my little brother. Congratulations, and may your life together be filled with love and happiness.
Best Man Speech Examples for Brother-in-Law
A future brother-in-law can be just as close and special as a biological brother.
Here is a best man speech to honor your brother-in-law:
Itâs my pleasure to be here today to give the best man speech for my brother-in-law. I first want to thank everyone for coming and celebrating this special day with us. It means a lot to have you all here to support Mike and Jess as they start their married life together. Iâve known Mike for a few years now, and I can say without a doubt that he is one of the most genuine, caring, and fun-loving people I know. Heâs always up for a good time, but he also knows how to be serious when the situation calls for it. In other words, heâs the perfect brother-in-law! (And Iâm not just saying that because heâs my sisterâs husband.) I know that Mike will make an amazing husband to Jess. He already treats her with so much love and respect, and I know heâll only continue to do so as they embark on this new chapter in their lives. I couldnât be happier for them both. So letâs raise our glasses to the happy couple â may your marriage be everything youâve ever hoped for and more! Cheers!
Religious Best Man Speech Examples for Brother
Next, here is a best man speech example for a brother who is religious or spiritual:
Marriage is a sacred institution, and I am honored to be here today as my brother makes a lifetime commitment to his wife. I have known (name) all my life, and I can say without a doubt that he is a good man. He is kind, honest, and hardworking, and I know that he will make an excellent husband. (Name) is also a deeply religious man, and I know that his faith will guide him in this new chapter of his life. I am confident that he will cherish and respect his wife always, and I am proud to call him my brother. On behalf of the family, I would like to wish (name) and his wife all the happiness in the world. Congratulations!
Best Man Speech for Brother: Second Wedding
If your brother is getting married for the second time, check out this best man speech:
Itâs been said that the best man is the person who knows the groom the best. And in that case, I think Iâm uniquely qualified to give this speech. Because not only do I know my brother better than anyone else, but I was also his best man at his first wedding. But despite my experience, Iâm still a little nervous about giving this speech. After all, weddings are a time for new beginnings, and I want to make sure that I get it right. So let me start by congratulating my brother and his new wife. This is a truly special day, and I know that youâll be very happy together. I remember when my brother first told me that he was getting married again. I have to admit, I was a little surprised. But then I realized that it made perfect sense. After all, my brother is one of the most romantic people I know. Heâs always believed in the power of love. And I know that heâs found true happiness with his new wife. So on this special day, I want to toast my brother and his new bride. May your life together be filled with love and happiness.
Best Man Speech Examples for Twin Brother
Here is a best man speech example for a twin brother:
Itâs my pleasure to be here today to say a few words about my brother, the groom. First, let me just say how happy I am to be here with all of you to celebrate this special occasion. My brother and his new wife are a perfect match, and I know theyâll be very happy together. Iâve known my brother my whole life, of course, and thereâs nobody I know better. After all, I see him everytime I look in the mirror. Weâve been through a lot together, and Iâm so proud of the man he has become. Heâs kind, heâs generous, heâs hardworking⊠in short, heâs everything you could want in a husband. And I know heâll be just as wonderful a father when the time comes. I wish you both lots of love, good fortune, and good health always!
Best Man Speech for Step-Brother
Finally, here is an example of a best man speech for your step-brother:
While we have never shared the same blood, he has always been like a brother to me. From the time I can remember, he has always been there for me, whether I needed a shoulder to cry on or someone to help me celebrate a triumph. He has always supported me, even when I made mistakes, and I know that he will make an amazing husband. So please join me in raising a glass to the groom â a man who is not only my step-brother but my best friend.
Best Man Speech for Brother Quotes
I thought I would make a list of my favorite quotes you can use in your best man speech for your brother.
Just remember that the best quotes are personal and meaningful.
Best man speech for brother quotes:
- âLove one another and you will be happy; it is as simple and as difficult as that.â â Michael Leunig.
- âMay the best day of your past be the worst day of your future.â â Anonymous
- âBeing his real brother, I could feel I live in his shadows, but I never have and I do not now. I live in his glow.â â Michael Morpurgo.
- âI love you so much, and I really hope youâll feel the same about me after you hear my speech.â â Anonymous
- âNever go to bed on an argument. Stay up and fight. â Phyllis Diller
- âBefore you marry a person, you should first make them use a computer with slow Internet service to see who they really are.â â Will Ferrell
- âA brother shares childhood memories and grown-up dreams.â â Unknown
- âHe is my most beloved friend and my bitterest rival, my confidant and my betrayer, my sustainer and my dependent, and scariest of all, my equal.â â Gregg Levoy
- âA friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.â â King Solomon
- âWhen you deal with your brother, be pleasant, but get a witness.â â Hesiod
Tools for Writing a Best Man Speech for a Brother
If you want to write and deliver an unforgettable best man speech, I highly recommend that you use a few of my favorite tools.
Final Thoughts: Best Man Speech Examples
Writing a best man speech may seem daunting at first, but if you take it one step at a time, before you know it youâll be delivering an epic tribute to your brother that heâand everyone elseâwill remember for years to come.
We have lots of other great articles about weddings on this site. Check a few out before you go!
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Best Man Speech: The Definitive Guide to Smashing it
by Catherine D July 12, 2019
Hereâs all you need to deliver an incredible and unforgettable best man speech.
Congratulations!
Youâve just been awarded the highest honor a bro can receive. Youâre the best man! And thatâs an honor greater than being knighted by the queen. But Iâm sure you know what comes with it.
Youâll have to give that best man speech brosef!
Though, you wonât want to give just any speech off the top of your head that nobody is going to give a damn about.
Just remember what Uncle Ben said to Spidey, âWith great power comes great responsibilityâ. Itâs that serious, man.
Youâve probably seen best man speeches like this before. The guy stands up, hits the glass and says something, uninspired, about how heâs bros with the groom, congratulates the bride-to-be, and then sits down.
Or maybe youâve seen another kind of speech, where the best man stands up and talks about nothing for 10+ minutes, putting you to sleep, because who even cares?
During a reception, there are about a million different things going on. People will forget the things that do not grab their attention, especially at a reception.
Everyone there is busy talking, eating, laughing, and will not care or even remember a boring speech in a few days. But not yours, my friend, youâre going to be the star of the day.
In this guide, we give you everything you need to know in sequence - from the writing process, all the way to delivering that wedding toast. Get your notepad ready for some very important tips on giving your wedding toast!
So How Do You Write the Best Man Speech?
The hardest part is always just getting started. Here are some basic tips on how to write a best man speech so that you can be prepared and dominate when the time comes.
Be Prepared and Plan Ahead
Practice makes perfect. Creating a fantastic speech doesnât happen overnight.
If youâre going to wow the audience, youâll need to make sure youâve done everything you possibly can and covered every base - and man, that takes time.
Generally, 2-3 months is the right amount of time to give yourself when writing for a best man speech to account for the overall writing process and potential rewrites.
Considering all of the events that follow, like the bachelor party and the suit fitting, youâll be too busy in those final moments to prepare a killer best man speech thatâs even half decent.
Record Every Thought
You might be on the bus or in your car and think of an incredible quote or one-liner to say in your wedding toast, but our memories are very limited.
Itâs difficult to remember what you even had for lunch two days ago, much less something you thought up some random time.
No matter where you are, record your thoughts. You could write in a journal, use your iPhoneâs âVoice Memosâ app or an app like Evernote . Scratch them onto a napkin, carve them into a stone near you, just get those wedding toast ideas down!
As long as you start capturing your thoughts, youâll eventually reach a gold mine.
Think of this more as âcapturingâ than âwritingâ. Itâs easier to capture your raw best man speech ideas than banging your head on the wall trying to âwriteâ something from scratch.
Keep a Positive Tone
When it comes to the best man speech, the main thing to keep in mind is the goal of what you want to accomplish - celebrating the bride and groom. Here are some things to focus on:
- Your best experiences with the groom.
- How great a pair the bride and groom are.
- The best qualities of the groom.
- Possible first thoughts on the bride when they met (If they were good thoughts!)
Focus on the best of times, and further expand upon those points the best you can and maybe you can use those for a few wedding jokes!
With that in mind, hereâs what not to say:
What Not to Talk About in Your Speech
While you may be writing to make your groom laugh, you need to remember your audience is diverse. You have children, elders, and teenagers so you wouldnât want to write something inappropriate.
Generally, itâs best to avoid things like these:
- Any previous relationships.
- Anything about drugs, alcohol, gambling.
- Perverse topics, or anything of a sexual nature.
- Harsh negativity.
- Inside jokes that are too specific.
The idea is to avoid anything raunchy or disheartening during your speech, even if it might be hilarious in your head, youâll have to avoid it in your best man speech.
Think about how upset Grandma would be if you happened to talk about how her little Jimmy actually hasnât been saving himself for marriage - what horror!
How Long Should a Best Man Speech Be?
So you have a great speech, and youâve covered every single talking point that fit. Everyoneâs going to love this, right?
Wrong! When writing a best man speech, youâll want to keep it way, way shorter.
The problem is that what you wrote is almost 30 minutes long! No bueno amigo. Nothing on this Earth could keep people engaged in a wedding toast that long.
Youâre not going for a âF.D.R. Repairing the American Psyche During The Great Depressionâ type of speech. What you want is more like an âI Love You, Manâ speech.
It seems like everyone from everywhere throws out an arbitrary number ranging from 1-10 minutes, but really, research shows our attention span is even shorter than a goldfish .
Which means you have 8 seconds to make an impression . Let that sink in.
The best man speech is usually between meals at a reception. That means you have to make your mark - and get in what you have to say in a short time. Meaning that short best man speeches are perfectly fine, you donât have to overthink it.
It can be 1 minute, it can be 5 minutes. Keep the audience engaged in your speech and donât ramble off unnecessarily.
How do you do that? Practice!
Itâs All About Practice
You know, itâs okay to feel unsatisfied with what you wrote. After all, youâre not the most accomplished writer in the world. You just want to prepare a great best man speech and get back to Netflix binging.
The writing process can be tough, so hereâs an ideal approach that most people use when writing the best material:
- Write a few pages of content just to get the speech ideas out.
- Realize that youâve written a movie's worth of material.
- Take what you really like.
- Edit until you stop hating it.
Being intimidated serves no purpose.
Get Interviewed Bruh
If youâre not the best writer (or capturer), the previous steps might seem a little intimidating to you. Thatâs fine. Not everyone can put pen to paper as well as theyâd like, and if thatâs you, consider having a friend interview you!
Getting a friend or family member to interview you about your experiences with the groom is a great way of getting wedding speech ideas. Here are a few topics to get interviewed on:
- Where did you meet?
- Did you like each other at first?
- When did you become bros?
- What kind of crazy experiences did you have together?
- What kind of bad qualities does he have?
- What kind of good qualities does he have?
Answering these questions with a recording device can help you when you need to put the best man speech together, and you can recall things you might never have just by writing!
Be (Relatively) Sober
Even if you have a Wade Boggs alcohol tolerance, itâs best to keep the drinks to a minimum.
( The guy drank 64 beers on one cross country flight, what the hell? )
Having one or two drinks is fine if it helps calm the nerves, but any more will mess up any chance of giving a decent best man toast, and youâll just look silly slurring your words or acting strangely. Remember, all eyes are on you during your best man speech.
Try Some Best Man Speech Jokes or Quotes
So suppose youâve got your speech together, but you have a placeholder like:
[ Put a joke in here! ] in 3-4 spots, and you really have no idea what to put in there.
We got you covered.
Here are some best man speech opening lines you could work with and personalize for whatever you may need, because the opportunity for wedding jokes is a rare thing! These make great icebreakers to warm your audience up.
âWell, where do I even start? [Groom] is just incredible. Heâs brilliant, funny, caring⊠Anyway, I canât really read your handwriting [Groom], so just tell me whatever the rest was after.â
â[Bride], you really are an incredible woman. You deserve an absolutely incredible husband, so Iâm not going to stop until I figure out whatâs wrong here.â
âThank you everyone for bearing with me, I Googled âbest man speech jokesâ and every site asked for my credit card before showing me any examples, so here goes nothing.â
âFor those of you who know the bride, sheâs really a wonderful woman who deserves a wonderful man. So good job, [Groom], for marrying her before she found one.â
âFor anyone who finds this speech particularly not funny, I got all of my jokes from [Groom] so please, blame that guy.â
âLadies and gentlemen, I wasnât given a microphone tonight and I deeply apologize. To anyone in the back, If you hear silence at the front, be sure that youâre not missing anything.â
âLadies and gentlemen, before I begin this speech Iâd just like to say I am absolutely thrilled that I beat the bartender at rock-paper-scissors twenty minutes ago for the honor of best man.â
Putting Together a Best Man Speech Outline
Now that you have an idea of how to write a best man speech, itâs just as important to know how to structure it. While there are canned free best man speech templates out there, it's really best to get a bird's eye view on what you want to say and create a structure that works for you personally. Don't just take any random free speech template from online and fire it up. Not every outline or template will work for your needs, so get a good idea of your vision first then begin to structure it.
Flow matters, and itâs the most important thing in putting together great best man speeches. Without good flow, youâll lose the crowd and people wonât follow what youâre saying.
Here are some great ideas to nail the best man speech structure and make your speech shine.
The Introduction
The introduction needs to serve a single purpose: Getting people engaged! This is the key aspect of any best man speech formula.
The One-Liner Approach
An incredible one-liner is a great way of getting started. A good idea for this would be to roast the groom a little bit, he probably wouldnât mind.
For example, what faults does he have? You can take advantage of that to make slight jabs at him.
Or you can even make fun of yourself in the process, what do you both suck at? Maybe you want to talk about that awkward mullet phase you both had in high school. Live it up!
The Congratulatory Approach
Alternatively, you can open by showing gratitude to:
- The bride and groom, for bringing everyone together.
- The guests, for attending this incredible event.
- The parents of the bride and groom, for bringing them into this world.
This approach is a good option at the beginning. You can use it as a Plan B if you think you canât gather an appropriate one-liner.
Itâs easy to get lost in thought about what to follow up a good opener in a best man speech, but nothing is safer than a good story to engage your audience.
The idea is to create a connection to the groom and then present it to the guests.
Here are a few ideas to get you started:
- Where you met the groom.
- What makes him a great guy.
- Crazy stories that show who he is.
- Why heâs an excellent fit for the bride.
- How he changed for the better after he met the bride.
Really, anything goes, and theyâre all sure to keep people interested. Focus on the organic story of your friendship and donât be robotic.
Youâll want to accomplish this in a way that stays kosher, though, avoiding unsavory details mentioned in our #4 tip.
Congratulate the Bride
So, you donât have to do this, but we definitely encourage it. The issue is, not everyone really knows the bride. Honestly, maybe you met her a month ago, or a week ago.
Who knows, you could have met her literally just now. When your buddy gets hitched, itâs quite common to not really know the lady herself.
If this is true, you can handle this two ways:
Stick to something like:
âI knew she was a great fit for you the moment I saw you togetherâ.
âShe really is the perfect match for you dude.â
Sure the groom will know you barely know her, but whatever, if he really is your bro, heâll appreciate that youâre saving face like this.
2. Avoid it.
Look, youâre the best man, it means the groom chose you, he knows you. Which means that heâs most likely expecting your best man speech to be about your experiences together, so keep the content focused around your relationship.
This means that itâs okay to avoid any mention of the bride after the first few words when writing a best man speech.
It works in most cases to just congratulate her in the intro, and then continue on with your speech avoiding her entirely.
This might sound a little underhanded, but it works, and most likely, the audience wonât notice.
If you know the bride, then speak about her.
If youâre just as close to the bride as you are to the groom, then you need to take all of the prior steps to make a compelling speech for the bride too, which wonât make the best man toast easy but hey, you donât want to piss her off.
You could share a story about her too, or you can talk about one where the bride and groom shared with you, which is always a safe bet.
How to End Your Wedding Toast
Hereâs where you wrap up your thoughts, and keep this part short, you donât have to stress it too much.
Itâs as easy as saying something like,
âJack, Jill, to a lifetime of good health, love, and joy!â
There are a thousand different things you can say here, but the main idea is to keep the tone positive, upbeat, congratulate their love and wish the best for them.
NOTE: It is absolutely acceptable to keep a paper copy of your speech on hand because youâre not remembering your speeches like a world leader at the U.N. Youâre just a guy whoâs happy for his bro.
Best Man Speech Examples
Even if you have everything else down, itâs always best to have some speech examples of how to tackle your wedding toast.
People have done it before you, so why go in blind? Here are some different types of best man speeches for unique scenarios you may want to try for your best man toast.
Funny Best Man Speech (Example)
âHello Everyone, Iâm John, Iâm the best man, and if you find this speech unfunny, [Groom] and I have the same sense of humor, so please blame him.
Iâm just joking, of course, I promised [Groom] I wouldnât roast him too much today or talk about anything too weird, so Iâll just talk about the good parts of his character...
...Thank you, everyone, have a great evening.
But really, [Groom] and I have been friends since before I knew how even to tie my own shoelaces. Heâs a brother to me, even more than my actual brother, sometimes.
Sorry, Alex.â
Emotional Best Man Speech (Example)
âGood evening, ladies and gentlemen. Iâm the best man, Chris. [Groom] and I go way back, all the way from high school. Through the years, heâs grown from a pain in the ass, into a fine man.
[Groom] was always shy when it came to meeting new people, and thatâs sorta hard to hear considering how a guy like that could be such a perfect match with [Bride]. But I canât imagine him without you, because Iâve seen what it looked like.
[Bride], you are both so dear to me, please take care of [Groom], please keep him out of trouble.â
Short Best Man Speech (Example)
âGood evening, everyone, from the moment that [Groom] met [Bride], I knew that this was going to be something special.
The way you two talk to each other, youâre so alike sometimes that honestly, it kind of scares me.
But to quote Mark Twain, âTo get the full value of joy you must have someone to divide it with.â May your love be timeless.â
Hopefully these wedding toast examples give you ideas on how to model your own best man speech!
The Presentation - Delivering the Best Man Speech
You have the writing and the flow down. Great! Most of the hard work is all done.
But donât forget, youâre delivering a best man speech. And grand statements are always accompanied by excellent speech etiquette.
Here are some best man speech tips thatâll help you deliver, so that you donât look like an uncomfortable 4th grader at a talent show your Mom forced you into.
Practice Your Speech on Camera
Youâre noticing a trend, right? Practicing the actual delivery of the best man speech in front of a camera is a great way to see what poor and good habits you have.
And then, you need to keep practicing to eliminate the bad ones. For example, do you notice that you slump too much? Do you happen to mumble? Do you look down a lot?
Take note of all of these when you look at the recording and then try the speech again while mindfully avoiding bad habits and watching out for awkwardly delivered wedding jokes.
Practice in Front of People
Sure, using a camera is an excellent way to correct issues, but thereâs nothing better than getting an outsider opinion.
Getting a spectator to sit and watch you deliver your best man toast lets someone tear into your bad habits without any bias. It may be painful, but this is what you want, and a larger group of people is best.
That way, when itâs time to give the best man speech, the concerns an audience member might have are already known to you.
The Honest Truth Man
Remember that a best man speech is a celebration of the love and joy that the bride and groom share. You donât have to stress about every minor detail, because the audience isnât (and theyâll most likely all be drunk anyway).
Theyâre already lightened up, and in the mood for a good few words, so why spend your time being nervous? Itâs not worth it. Enjoy yourself up there and just deliver that crushing best man toast.
After itâs through, you can start drinking again, which is what youâll probably want to do anyway.
Say what you have to say, and raise a toast to the bride and groom. Use this guide as a helpful resource and come back to it as many times as you need to ensure a totally awesome best man speech.
Good luck on your best man speech!
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30 Great Ways to Start Your Best Man's Speech
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If you want to nail your five minutes of fame at your best mate's wedding, brilliant best man speech opening lines are the way to do it. The first few lines of your best man speech set the tone for the rest of it, so getting your best man opening lines right is vital.
The traditional order of wedding speeches sees the best man speech opening line follow on from the groom and father of the bride, so you're likely to have pretty big shoes to fill, and there's no better way to get the crowd on your side than a killer opening.
Great opening lines for a best man speech very in theme and tone - so we've made sure this guide has something for everyone!
30 Brilliant Best Man Speech Opening Lines
Whether you're after a formal best man speech introduction, some funny lines to warm up the room or a few best man speech openers to preface some sentimental stories, we've got something to suit you.
Choose between sweet, sentimental, sarcastic, sassy and more!
1. Last Minute Best Man Opener
Are you known for always being forgetful and a bit slap-dash? If so, why not use your best man speech introduction to poke fun at yourself about it.
“Hi, I’m [x] and it’s time for me to do this speech I scribbled down about an hour before the ceremony started.”
2. Wedding Jokes
This light-hearted wedding joke is a great way to get some giggles at the start of your speech without saying anything about anyone in particular.
“I must admit, I’m not accustomed to public speaking. Up until I was asked to give this speech, I thought a toastmaster was a kind of kitchen appliance!”
3. Cramping Your Style
Is the groom a bit of a buffoon? And are you a single pringle? If so, this best man speech opening line is perfect.
“Hi, I’m [x] and in the run up to the wedding many people have asked me how I’ll cope now my best friend is married and will spend all his time at home loved up with his partner. And the truth is, I’m thrilled. I’m finally able to talk to women without him cramping my style!”
4. Unexpected Announcement
This quick-witted joke is the house rules announcement no one saw coming.
“Right, I’d just like to start by laying down a couple of rules. Firstly, if you do have a mobile phone…please, leave it switched on; keep yourselves entertained. And secondly, if anyone texts you any good jokes, could you please forward them to me?”
5. Not a Pleasure
This stereotypical 'act like you don't want to be doing a speech' vibe works for so many best men.
“My name is [x] and it’s an honour to stand here as [x]’s best man. I’d like to say it’s a pleasure too, but that won’t be the case until I’ve finished this speech…”
6. The Internet Intro
Give the impression you've printed this speech off the internet to warm the crowd up.
"It's a pleasure to stand here as the best man to 'insert name here'. Oh wait, I was supposed to edit that bit out before I printed it off..."
7. I'm the Best
Rub it in to the rest of the group that you're officially the groom's favourite.
“My name is [x] and I’m officially the best man. It might have taken [x] amount of years, but [x] has finally admitted I’m the best.”
8. Your Writing
This one's a classic, and you can tailor the adjectives to ensure it's the kind of thing your friend would actually write for you.
“Hello, I’m [x] and I’m here to tell you all about [x] and how wonderful, handsome and…sorry, mate, I can’t read your writing.”
9. My Only Chance
Is it a running joke that the groom never picks up the bill? If so, you could poke a bit of fun at it in your best man opener lines.
"Thank you for having me as your best man [x], I didn’t really want to do it, but I thought it might be the only chance I’ll get to have a meal and some drinks paid for by you, so I didn’t risk turning it down.”
10. To the Groom
Think your friend has excellent taste in friends? Start off by telling everyone that, then.
"Hello everyone, I’d like to start this speech off by congratulating the groom on his excellent taste in best men. He’s really outdone himself."
11. That's Me Done
This is a brilliantly funny best man speech introduction, and also acts as a great way to skim over stereotypical topics and get into some more personal anecdotes.
"The happy couple have asked that I don’t share any embarrassing stories, stag do pranks or crude jokes in my best man’s speech… so that’s it from me! Thanks for listening."
12. My Word Means Nothing
If you are going to go down the route of telling some funny stag do stories, this is a hilarious way to introduce them.
"[x] asked me not to mention any of the scandals from the stag do, and I said I wouldn't. But as you all know, I'm a compulsive liar and my word means nothing, so here goes nothing..."
13. Enough About Me
There's nothing wrong with using your best man opening lines to compliment yourself, right?
"Gorgeous, loyal, charming, handsome...but today isn't about me. Now, let's talk about [x]."
14. Worst Day of Their Lives
We love this best man opener line, it's a funny way of saying you wish the couple all the happiness in the world.
"My only wish for the happy couple is that each day of their marriage is better than the previous so that they can look back on today, their wedding day, and say that it was the worst day of their lives."
15. Only Joking
Is your best friend's partner a stickler for plans and precision? If so, this is a fun way to address that.
"Good evening. I’m pleased to be delivering the only five minutes that the [x] didn’t meticulously plan. Of course, I’m only joking. She went over the speech with me half an hour ago in the bar."
16. Sweepstake
Wedding speeches going on for too long is a stereotype that's fun to lean into, and starting off your best man's speech with this line will have everyone laughing, and also leave them feeling relieved that you're aware 45 minutes is too long, and will hopefully be finished soon!
"I just heard about the sweepstake people have on how long the best man speech should last. I put my money on 45 minutes, so make yourselves comfortable everyone…"
17. Dead Body At a Funeral
Have you and all the guests got a dry sense of humour?
"A best man is just like a dead body at a funeral. You’re expected to be there, but if you start talking, everyone starts freaking out."
18. Standing Ovation
Looking for confident great opening lines for a best man speech?
"Now before I get started, I have a quick health and safety notice. The venue team have kindly asked that during your standing ovation, you do not stand on the tables or chairs. I know it'll be difficult to celebrate calmly, but please, safety first!"
19. Dancing Lesson
This light-hearted joke will get everyone excited for the first dance.
"Good evening everyone, my name is [x] and I'm the best man. I’ll try to keep my speech short, because every minute I speak is an extra minute’s delay in witnessing how the [x]'s dance lessons worked out."
20. I'm the Best Man
We love this opening line, it's fun and a great way to start your best man speech.
"You’ve got no idea how much I’ve been looking forward to today. After all the years I’ve been friends with the groom, he has finally admitted that I am in fact the best man."
21. Unfortunately, I'm Married
This best man speech opening is a great way to compliment your friend and get some laughs at the same time.
"[x] had the honour of being my best man. He spent months writing a perfect, tender and charming speech. Everyone agreed it was funny and beautiful. Unfortunately I’m married, so I haven’t had the time to do all that."
22. Slept Like a Baby
Guests love it when you poke fun at yourself, so use your best man speech opening to self-deprecate.
"I’ve been worried about giving this speech for a while now. Fortunately last night I slept like a baby, AKA waking up every two hours and bawling my eyes out."
23. Hard to Follow
If the person before you can take a poking, this is a funny speech introduction for the best man.
"I always knew the groom’s speech would be hard to follow. In fact, I couldn’t understand a word of it."
24. The Drinks Bill
Is it even a best man speech introduction if you don't reference the cost of the wedding?
"Ladies and gentlemen, we’ve now reached the point in the proceedings when we all get to see the groom squirm uncomfortably in his seat and grip the table in nervous anticipation. That’s right, I’ve been asked to give him the drinks bill."
25. Making Love
This is a cheeky one, but not half as bad as some of the best man speech opening lines we've heard before!
"I read somewhere that the perfect best man speech should last as long as it takes for the groom to make love. So please could everyone raise a glass to the happy couple!"
26. Don't Get What You Want
Way to compliment your friend's partner and get a little dig in about them all at the same time.
“We all know [x] is a wonderful woman and deserves the perfect man. Unfortunately, you don’t always get what you deserve.”
27. Cost of a Stamp
This fun best man speech introduction won't get you into any real trouble, but will ensure you get off to a good start.
“My name is [x] and [x] asked me to be his best man a year ago – although I never actually received a formal invitation to the wedding. Let’s hope I haven’t eaten someone else’s meal by mistake – but more likely, it was [x] saving himself the cost of a stamp.”
28. Terrible Hangover
If you're likely to have a sore head on the day of the wedding, you might as well get it all out in the open at the beginning of the speech.
“If you could keep the clapping and cheering to a minimum today - I’ve got a pretty bad hangover. I know you shouldn’t drink heavily before a big event but I couldn’t let [x] drink alone, could I?"
29. Emotional Day
This one is as cheesy as it is classic, but it's a crowd-pleaser if we've ever heard one.
“Hi, I’m the best man and can I start by saying what an emotional day it’s been today? Even the cake is in tiers.”
30. Still Had Hair
If your pal can take a little joke about their appearance, why not eh?!
“My name is [x] and I’ve known [x] since we were at school – yes, I knew him when he still had hair!”
If you want to make your best man’s speech even better, we’ve got a bunch of hilarious tried and tested best man jokes that will have everyone laughing!
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Need some help writing your best man speech? Thousands and thousands of distressed forum threads, alarmed Quora posts, and social media cries for help are dedicated to this very request every year. Whether youâve got a few weeks or a few hours, weâve got you covered with this guide on how to come up with a best man speech you and the happy couple will love. Keep reading to discover some important best man speech ideas, examples, and tips that will make the process simple and virtually painless.Â
Doâs and donâts every best man should know before drafting their speech:
Length: The most important thing to keep in mind is the length. Shorter is better, so shoot for less than five minutes. The most ideal time would be three minutes: 30-second introduction, two minutes on the main story, and 30 seconds to wrap up and give well wishes.Â
Tone: Keep it classy for the older relatives and leave out expletives, raunchy jokes, and stories that you canât un-tell. Professional storytellers for the Moth , a famous storytelling podcast and prestigious competition, say that a mix of funny and sentimental usually packs a punch as long as you do it in that order. Also, be sincere. Corny jokes get boring really quickly.Â
Content: Stories will always be more entertaining than random jokes. Include a one-liner at the beginning of the speech, then bring it back to something that actually happened. The focus should be on the couple or your relationship with them, but not just you and your accomplishments.Â
Explore 6 foolproof best man speech ideas, examples, and tips:
1. take inspiration from those who have gone before you..
Copy or get inspired by these real-world examples of best man speeches you can use to make people laugh, cry, or both.
Long best man speech example: Hereâs a best man speech example from an older brother to his younger brother, which we edited for clarity and brevity.
âGood afternoon everyone, Iâm the best man.
Before I start, Iâd just like to say there is no flash photography during this event. The bride and groom are a very shy pair and we donât want to startle them. If you look really closely at them, youâll see theyâre already starting to feel quite uncomfortable. Maybe theyâd like me to just get on with my speech, but I really think itâs all the phones pointed at them right now.Â
Oh, itâs the speech? Okay, Iâll continue.Â
Ever since (he was born, he started at Boston University, etc.), (groom) and I have been (brothers, friends, etc.). Now, heâs not the best-looking guy, so it does make sense that heâd ask the older, fatter, and balder (friend, version of himself, etc.) to be his best man. And weâve genuinely been told throughout our lives that we (look incredibly alike, are attached at the hip, etc.). I honestly donât see it, but as I know, some people here still canât tell the difference: (Groomâs mom or bride), Iâm (best man), and that oneâs (groom).
The bride and groom have asked that I donât talk about any of (groom)âs mishaps, mistakes, or embarrassing moments, and instead do talk about the positive things in his life. I mean, youâve made this incredibly difficult for me, but Iâll do my best.
*Get out a scrap of paper* (Groom)âs an amazing person. Heâs funny, heâs kind, heâs incredibly clever. Heâs even (studying to be an engineer, learning how to rollerblade, etc.)! Not only that, but heâs ⊠wait ⊠(groom), I canât say that, man!
(Bride), you look lovely today; and (groom), you look sharper than ever in that suit! Cheers to a long, happy marriage for you both! But more so for (bride), because sheâs really got her hands full now. Cheers!â
Key takeaway: Making fun of yourself more than you make fun of the groom will always be a hit. Also, donât shy away from the roast-style âset âem up to punch âem downâ jokes like the ones featured here.Â
Make it your own: This speech runs less than two minutes. Make it longer and personalize it by adding a story about you and the groom growing up that you think says something about who he is today, either by contrast or extreme similarity.Â
Short best man speech example: Get some quick laughs and an âawwâ with a little something like this.Â
âI really should have given my speech first since (maid of honor)âs speech was way better than mine, but this is all your fault (groom), so enjoy! Thank you all for coming and for those who helped make this wedding so beautiful. (Bride), you look absolutely stunning tonight. (Groom), well, youâre here tonight. All jokes aside, Iâm really happy for you both. I always wanted (a sister, someone to help me wrangle the groom, etc.), and now I finally have one. So hereâs a toast to the bride and groom!â
Key takeaway: A quick icebreaker, thank you, and joke followed by a sentimental thought is really all you need.Â
Make it your own: Personalize the items in brackets to fit your sense of humor and situation. Reference real stories and moments at the wedding.Â
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2. Use a template.
If memorizing a script feels like too much pressure, outline your main points, and improvise from there. Hereâs a foolproof structure for any best man speech.
Introduce yourself and how you know the happy couple.
Thank the hosts or parents if they paid for the wedding.
Say something nice about their partner and something funny about them.
Tell a short, funny story about your relationship to the groom that ties into what makes the newlywedsâ relationship special too.
End on a sentimental note with your well wishes.
Pro tip: Brainstorm 3-5 anecdotes you like, sleep on it, then narrow down your options to your Top 2.Â
3. Nail the opening line.
The most memorable opening line for a best man speech is funny, grabs the audienceâs attention, and offers a twist at the end. For example:Â
â(Groom) didn't have an easy decision in choosing his best man. First, he called his most successful friend, who said no. Then, he called his smartest friend, who said no. Then, he asked his most attractive friend, and he also said no. Then, he called me, and I said, â(groom), I can't say no to you four times.ââÂ
4. Tell great jokes.
Keep the slander to a minimum. Instead, focus on making fun of yourself or telling a story of which youâre both equally embarrassed. You can also take this opportunity to be comedically competitive, regardless of who comes out on top in your speech.Â
For example, acknowledging how youâve done better at something can be funny just as long as you then mention how they ended up being the winner anyway because they found their partner.Â
You can also take this opportunity to let others know about an inside joke or a story of something you two did together that no one has heard before (as long as it wonât get you in trouble with their partner, of course).Â
5. Sprinkle in one-liners.
Funny one-liners are a great way to get the audienceâs energy up and keep them engaged before you end with a sentimental punch. Here are some examples that even grandma will appreciate.
(Bride), you look stunning. (Groom), you look stunned.
(Bride), you're so beautiful you make (groom) look ... (successful, famous, rich)?
(Bride), youâre the luckiest person in the world to lock down someone like my (friend, brother, etc.). (Groom) is so good looking, so considerate, so humble, so⊠(groom), Iâm sorry, I can't read your handwriting here.
6. Consider your relationship.
The most impactful best man speeches take the relationship you have with the groom into account. Here are some tips for each major type.
Older brother getting married:
Limit yourself to one or two icebreaker insults. Any more and your speech turns into a roast.Â
Highlight how much of an example the groom has set for you, for better or worse.Â
Younger brother getting married:
Mention at least one meaningful way youâve seen the groom grow over the years.Â
Make a joke to their partnerâs benefit about how the groom has âfinally wonâ your sibling rivalry by finding them.
Dad getting married:
Incorporate an important life lesson your dad taught you and weave it into both your main story and your perspective on the wedding today.Â
Express gratitude for all he has done for you. Heâll really appreciate it.Â
Best friend getting married:
Mention a good quality you remember from the early days of your friendship such as their talent at field hockey or their love of knitting.Â
Talk about what makes them special compared to the rest of your friend group in your eyes through the lens of a flattering story.Â
If you donât have a close relationship with the groom: Lean into their interests and use them as a metaphor for how you feel about their marriage. For example, a Star Wars buff might really appreciate a Luke and Leia comparison. Personalizing it like this will show how much you care by putting in more effort to get to know their interests and give you another thing to bond over long after the wedding is over.Â
Hint: if itâs the groomâs second marriage, make sure you know who is in attendance before you start jokingly ripping into their ex. In fact, let them be the ones to make jokes about the situation.
Now you know how to give an amazing best man speech!Â
Using the advice above, you now know everything about how to write and give a best man speech everyone will enjoy. Donât be afraid to use borrowed examples, templates, or one-liners. As long as you personalize it and speak from the heart, your speech will be memorable.Â
Up next, find other ways to leave your mark on the big day with some super fun and unique bridal party entrance ideas .
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Top 17 Best Man Speech Ideas for a Younger Brother’s Wedding
Being the best man at your brother’s wedding is quite an honor — and quite a big responsibility, especially for an older brother.
The biggest job, perhaps, is giving the best man’s speech at the wedding.
Your little brother has looked up to you all his life, after all, and you want to make his day more special.
The tradition of serving as best man to the groom is believed to have been around since the 1500s, [1] so you might be wondering how you’re going to make your speech stand out.
Below, we provide the list of unique things to say in a best man speech to a younger brother, as well as a few speech templates.
We also offer tips for creating your own best man speech to make sure you’re covered on the big day.
- I’m [groom’s name]’s best man and also his big brother. I think it says a lot about a man when he chooses his brother to be his best man… Mostly, of course, it says: “I have no friends.” [2]
- For those of you who don’t know me, I’m [groom’s name]’s older brother. It’s great to stand up here today because, after all these years, [groom’s name] has finally admitted that I am the best man. [2]
- My name is [your name], [groom’s name]’s older brother and best man for the day. [Groom’s name] didn’t choose me in the traditional way. In fact, our other brother [brother’s name] and I drew straws… and just because I’m standing up here, don’t think for one minute that I was the winner. [3]
- [Groom’s name], I am deeply proud to be your older brother, and truly honored to be your best man. In spite of our [number]-year age difference, we share a special closeness and friendship that I treasure. Maybe that’s got something to do with me acting [half the number of years in age difference] years younger than my age, and you acting [half the number of years in age difference] years older. But seriously, as your big brother, I’ve always tried to watch over and protect you. Just as often, though, it’s been the other way around. [3]
- It’s the job of the best man to say a few complimentary things about the groom. Well, he’s handsome, intelligent, and naturally gifted at sports. Of course, none of this should come as a surprise — we do, after all, come from the same gene pool. [3]
- It’s such a privilege to be [groom’s name]’s best man. For those of you who don’t know me, I’m his big brother [your name]. [Groom’s name] has always made me laugh. He cheered me up when I was down. Wedding titles aside, he’s the real best man in the room.
- We all know [bride’s name] is a wonderful lady who deserves the perfect guy. Too bad you don’t always get what you deserve. [2]
- To my little brother and the beautiful bride, tonight we celebrate you. We all wish you a lifetime of happiness, love, health, success, and laughter. May you continue to find humor in the bad and appreciation for the good. May your friendship continue to grow through the years to come. Cheers! [4]
- I stand here today to toast my little brother and his new bride and to celebrate their new union together. All your joys will now be doubled because you can share them together. All your trials and tribulation have now been halved because you can now solve them together. In marriage, you promise to care about everything — the good things, the bad things, and the mundane. You promise each other that life will not go unwitnessed, because you will witness it with each other. Remember, you two, this is just the beginning. The best is yet to come. [4]
- My kid brother [groom’s name] and I share a common sense of humor. So if this speech is in any way unfunny, feel free to blame him. [5]
- I never thought this day would come. My baby brother somehow managed to find someone who can put up with him, and I couldn’t be happier. Here’s to [groom’s name] and [bride’s name]. May you share a wonderful life together.
- Let me just start by saying to my little brother, I love you so much, and I really hope you’ll feel the same about me after you hear my speech. [6]
- Seeing the happy couple walking down the aisle earlier today, I’m sure we’ll all agree that the bride looked simply stunning. [My little brother] the groom, on the other hand, simply looked stunned. [5]
- As I stand here today and see my little brother with his new wife, [wife’s name], I can clearly see that my brother has finally won. [Wife’s name] is the most outgoing, fun, and kind-hearted person. He doesn’t have to roll the dice — he’s a winner just by being with her. [7]
Templates for Creating a Best Man Speech
Feel free to take pieces from each template to switch around or combine and create what works best for you!
Good morning/afternoon. I’m [your name], [groom’s name]’s big brother.
It’s such an honor to be his best man. We’ve had our ups and down, but he’s the guy who’s always had my back.
When we were kids [insert a story about something heroic your brother did].
I can’t imagine someone more deserving of such a lovely bride. I know that wherever life takes them, [groom’s name] will face it head-on and turn it into a great adventure.
Best of luck to the new bride and groom.
As [groom’s name]’s best man and big brother, I’m so happy for the newlyweds and grateful to be standing here today.
I have to say, I wasn’t the least bit surprised when they told me they were getting married. I can’t imagine two people more deserving and suited to each other.
[Groom’s name] and [bride’s name] are both [insert complimentary things they have in common]. I know they’ll share a wonderful life together.
[Bride’s name], I want to welcome you to the family. And [groom’s name], you are one lucky man.
Here’s to you both!
Hello, everyone. I’m [groom’s name]’s big brother, [your name], for those of you who don’t know me.
I’d like to start by saying, wow — these two sure do make a great couple, don’t they? [Pause for applause.]
Today, I have a quote to share that made me think of [groom’s name] and [bride’s name]:
“Love isn’t perfect. It isn’t a fairytale or a storybook, and it doesn’t always come easy. Love is overcoming obstacles, facing challenges, fighting to be together, holding on, and never letting go. It is a short word, easy to spell, difficult to define, and impossible to live without. Love is work, but most of all, love is realizing that every hour, every minute, every second of it was worth it because you did it together.” [8]
As the years go by, remember this day and why you chose each other. Embrace your happily ever after.
I truly love you both and wish you only the best.
Please join me in raising a glass to the bride and groom. Here’s to a lifetime of love and happiness.
How to Write the Perfect Best Man Speech
Once you’ve chosen a few options from the list, you may want to add to or change things up to make it your own.
Here are some tips for personalizing or creating your own perfect best man speech.
- Throw in a memory. You’ve known the groom his whole life, so you’re bound to have some hilarious or meaningful experiences to share. Guests will enjoy your story, and the toast will be more memorable.
- Wish him luck. This is a great opportunity to congratulate the newlyweds and share your best wishes. You may want to reference their future plans and reassure your brother that you have the utmost confidence in him.
- Add some humor. People love to laugh! You could include a joke you and your brother have long shared or throw in a few puns. Just remember to keep it appropriate for the youngest guests.
- Give yourself a structure with which to work. First, decide on what you want to include and in what order. This could be a thank you to guests or workers, a joke, a story, congratulations, family memories, etc. Write down keywords for what you want to include and organize it so that when you begin the official speech, you’ve got a simple structure to follow.
- Practice, practice, practice. Once you’ve written your speech, practice on a friend or family member (besides your brother) and get some feedback. Hearing yourself say it out loud also allows you to make any changes necessary for a good flow of words.
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Written by Shutterfly Community Last Updated: Oct 12, 2018
Youâve been chosen as the best man. Congratulations! Itâs a great feeling to know that your friend or relative wants you to take part as his right-hand man in one of the best days of his life.
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One of the most important duties as best man is the best man speech. Traditionally the speech is given during the reception before the guests eat. Whether you are great with public speaking or a little intimidated by standing in front of a large group, we have all the tools you need in order to be best prepared, so donât sweat it.
The Do’s and Don’ts For Preparing Your Best Man Speech
Donât wing it..
Find a time a couple of months before the wedding to think about the things you want to talk about and write an outline. Most likely youâll get caught up in best man activities with the groom and it will leave you with less time as the date approaches.
Do write a great intro.
The intro is the most important part of the speech because it grabs the audienceâs attention. Try a funny one-liner, a story about you and the groom or even a compliment to his lovely new wife.
Donât bring up past relationships.
Not only is it disrespectful to his wife but his wifeâs family will also be there and will not want to hear about the groomâs litany of ex-girlfriends.
Do have a plan B.
Make sure you have the speech written down or outlined and have some jokes or points to cover if you are facing a tough crowd.
Donât make negative jokes about marriage.
Even if you and the groom have an inside joke or if you have negative ideas about settling down, the audience doesnât need to know. Also, donât use curse words at any point during the speech, as you donât know who in the audience you might offend.
Do practice.
Practice makes perfect. Going over the speech several times will ensure that you are comfortable with what you are saying and it will sound more natural. Pro tip: record your speech on your phoneâs voice memos and play back.
Donât talk about the groom in compromising situations.
So youâve seen the groom embarrass himself but you should keep that to yourself. You donât want to make anyone uncomfortable or upset his wife.
Do congratulate the couple.
Make a toast, congratulate them and say what your wishes are for them in their new life.
Donât make it longer than 7 minutes.
Although speeches are a fun part of the reception, making it too long can bore the hungry guests. If itâs a casual reception keep it to about three minutes, for a more formal setting seven minutes is more than enough time.
Do thank the guests.
As the groomâs right-hand man, make sure you thank everyone who attended and even the people working the event. Itâs a nice gesture that will be appreciated.
A Simple Best Man Speech Outline
If you want a speech that is short, sweet and simple that is perfectly acceptable as well. This works well for smaller wedding receptions, weddings that will have more than two speakers or those that are a little more private. Following these simple steps will ensure a great and memorable speech:
- Opening line
- Introduce yourself
- Talk about groom/Compliment bride
- Propose a toast
- Thank the couple
Short and simple speech
Since I have everyoneâs attention Iâd love to say a few words to this amazing couple sitting right in front of me. For those who donât know me, Iâm Ed. Mikeâs closest friend and sidekick. Â Weâve known each other for about 11 years and have been on many adventures together. During that time, I got to know him well and can honestly say, he is the most selfless and stand-up guy Iâve ever met. I am thrilled to be standing here and celebrating him and his beautiful bride, Linda.
I am sure this union between two honest and caring people makes you all smile. Letâs raise a glass for everlasting love! Thanks for making us all part of this beautiful day.
Best Man Speech Template
Typically, a best man speech should last about 4-7 minutes depending on the party. While short and sweet is welcomed, a best man speech can also include more details such as how you know the groom and the bride, funny jokes, heartfelt stories and your well wishes.
Whether you want your speech to make the crowd laugh or shed a little tear, you may be wondering how to get started. Weâve pointed out several tips in our template below. Remember, a speech should always come from the heart.
How to Write the Perfect Best Man Speech
1 Good afternoon ladies and gentlemen. It’s lovely to see some familiar faces. On behalf of the gorgeous bridesmaids and not so gorgeous groomsmen, we’d like to thank you all for coming. 2 It’s amazing to see how far people will travel for free cocktails.
3 For those who don’t know me, my name is Adam. I am the best man and Sam’s very best friend. It’s an honor to be here and to be part of such a beautiful event. 4 I met Sam 20 years ago. We grew up together as neighbors in San Diego and attended the same school all throughout college. 5 He was the nice kid on the block who would go home and do his homework while all of us were out doing, well, the things we shouldn’t be doing. Can you believe it took me two months to convince him to toilet paper Mrs. Carter’s house? Mrs. Carter isn’t here, is she?
Luckily, as we grew up, he started making better decisions; one of them being this very special day. He is marrying his best friend 6 and the most beautiful girl he’s ever laid eyes on. Sarah, he said this to me just the other night and I promise no more than three drinks were involved.
7 When Sam introduced us to Sarah , we knew right away she was the one. For starters, she made him get rid of that horrible, beer-stained couch that he had since college. That alone got our stamp of approval. But mostly, we saw how happy she made him and how every time he talked about her, he would have a huge smile. We started seeing a little less of him, but that’s okay because we were getting tired of buying his drinks anyway.
For that reason, and the reason we are all here today, 8 I’d like to raise a glass to Sam and Sarah. May you have the life you always dreamed of, continue to fight over the remote and cherish making beautiful memories together. Find joy in the small things like Portlandia and expensive coffee and may sparks continue to fly forever. 9 Thank you guys for allowing me to be part of this special day and for trusting me not to ruin this beautiful moment (phew!). I’d also love to give a huge thanks to the staff who have helped make this night memorable.
10 Cheers, everyone! Continue to have a great night and come hang out with me on the dance floor.
Always address the audience and welcome them.
A quick opening sentence to welcome guests helps everyone feel at ease.
Throw in a silly joke.
A wedding should be fun and enjoyable. A joke will help to break the ice.
Introduce yourself.
Itâs best to not assume that everyone knows who you are. A short and simple introduction will allow everyone to get familiar with the wedding party.
Talk about how you know each other.
Whether you are a relative or friend, talk the audience through how you got to be a special person in the groomâs life.
Talk about groomâs personality.
Use this time to make a joke about the groom or share a sweet sentiment. Mention any sports, skills or funny stories that people will appreciate.
Compliment his bride.
Acknowledging the bride is a must, especially because she makes the groom so happy. A mention of her dress, personality or the first time you met her is ideal.
Talk a bit about them as a couple.
Share things you like about them as a couple. It helps the audience get to know their dynamic a little better and it will make the couple smile as well.
Give a toast.
Raise a glass and cheers to the new couple. Including a bit of tradition makes the speech much more special.
Thank the couple and staff.
Everyone spent a lot of time preparing for the special day. Make sure to thank the couple for allowing you to be part of it and the staff for making it all happen.
This closing allows for any sort of instruction such as dancing, dessert or simply to tell them to enjoy the party.
Best Man Speech for Brother
Good evening, hope everyone is having a good time tonight. I feel very privileged and honored to be standing here tonight celebrating this lovely union. Two years ago, Matt gave the best man speech at my wedding and made a lot of awkward jokes. So needless to say, Iâve been waiting for this moment for a really long time! For those who donât know, I am Mattâs brother, Mike. I first met Matt when I was two years old at our parentâs house in Boston. To be quite honest, I wasnât thrilled because I really wanted a sister. And I think he knew because Matt would do ridiculous things like throw my toothbrush in the toilet, pour water at me when I was asleep and run across the room naked when I had any friends over. This made me less popular than I already was.
Matt always excelled in school, was captain of the debate team (apologies to Cara, but he can argue his way out of anything!) and can make a mean steak. The truth is, despite him being an annoying brother at the time, I came out winning in the end. Because of him and this beautiful night, I am getting the sister I always wanted. Cara, youâre beautiful and our family loves you so much. Thank you for making my brother so happy.
Letâs celebrate this amazing union and raise a glass to the newlyweds! On behalf of the groomsmen and bridesmaids, weâd like to wish you a life full of love, happiness, and joy.
To everyone who made tonight happen, thank you. Youâve made this night very special.
Sentimental Best Man Speech
If I can have your attention everybody, Iâd like to say a few words. Thank you all for being here to celebrate this lovely couple. Now I would like you all to take out some tissues, because you are going to need them after this. For those of you who have not met me I am Rich, Joe’s best man. Rich and I have known each other for over 30 years, we met when we were both just two years old. We lived on the same street and our mothers were friends so naturally we also became friends.
I am an only child so Joe was like a brother to me. We became inseparable. We played in T-ball together and then graduated on to baseball throughout high school. When we werenât throwing the ball we were skateboarding, watching movies or challenging each other in video games.
Joe was always hanging out at my house and I grew up thinking he was just part of the family. I remember asking my mom why Joe never goes home and mom would always say âRich, Joe is the brother you never had, take good care of each other.â
What my mom didnât tell me at the time was that Joe’s mom was really sick and his dad worked double shifts just to stay afloat with all the medical bills. So, having Joe around was our way of helping out.
Even though we were only in high school, Joe made it very clear that he wanted to have a wife and family of his own. His motherâs death at such a young age was really challenging and in some ways, he learned to cherish the women he had in his life more.
He knew he wanted a strong, nurturing and kind woman to be his wife. When Joe met Sarah he almost broke it off with her because he was afraid of losing her. I remember Joe coming to me and saying, âI’m in trouble, Iâve met the one but donât know what to do.â âScared is goodâ, I said, âIt means you wonât mess this upâ.
Sarah’s greatest strength comes from losing her father to cancer at a young age. When Joe and Sarah met, their commonalities bonded them immediately. Both missing the connection with their parents and understanding each otherâs experiences brought them very close. I’ve never seen two people more meant for each other. From the moment they met in college, there has been an incredible and magical bond.
When I look at both of you I can see how your experiences have led you to one another. It’s as if your parents were orchestrating this all along. Even though your parents are not here with us tonight, they are in spirit and will continue to guide you in the right direction and are so very proud of you.
As we all gather here to enjoy this dinner tonight, I’d like to make a toast to Joe and Sarah. Two souls meant to meet and fall in love. I want you to know that mom misses you hanging out at the house and she told me to tell you that you are always welcome in her home.
Joe, thank you for being my friend and brother all these years. You are the very best friend a guy could ever have and I love you so much.
Sarah, Thank you for loving this great man and for taking Joe to be your husband. I know you both will take care of each other and keep the memories of your parents alive together.
Now that our napkins need replacing, I’d like to thank all the staff and event coordinators for taking care of this beautiful event.
Cheers to everyone, enjoy your night and if you have a chance, come find me and say hi.
Funny Best Man Speech
Ladies and gentlemen if I can have your attention for a few moments, I would like to give a toast to Mark and Melissa. I was a little surprised that Mark asked me to be his best man, after all, he knows how much I love to embarrass him. Iâm thinking, âwhat a great time to leave a lasting impression of who Mark really isâ in front of all his closest friends and family. If for some reason you did not know, Mark was chosen as the class clown in high school. He even got his picture immortalized in our class yearbook for this very title. Let me tell you, having Mark as a best friend was very entertaining!
He was always laughing, pulling pranks, and sometimes getting us in trouble (I certainly wonât tell them how we barely made it out of jail because you thought streaking through the grocery store parking lot was a good dare). We all had a bit of clowning around within us, but the one thing Mark always had over any of us was his way of making girls laugh. And I mean really laugh, not just a quick chuckle but downright laugh out loud, spit-up-your-drink kind of laugh. While we were all worried about how we looked to girls, Mark’s concern was always how to make them crack up. I remember Mark saying âhow come you get all the girls and I donât?â I never had a straight answer for him. Looking back now though, my track record only lasted a few months and for Mark? Well, what he didnât know was that his âclowning aroundâ was preparing him for the show of his life.
When Mark introduced me to Melissa I knew she was special. I knew this was who Mark was going to marry. She not only has a very infectious laugh, but she gets Mark to laugh just as much.
They say a marriage canât truly survive without laughter and I donât believe there will be a shortage of that with these two. Mark, remember when you asked me why you donât get all the girls? Well, the answer is right there next to you. While you were out figuring out jokes and funny one-liners, Melissa was saving up for the greatest show on earth!
If anyone tells you that youâre a bunch a clowns just smile and say….who’s got the last laugh now? Let’s raise our glass to Mark and Melissa! Here’s to a lifetime of love and laughter! You are both class acts and I am proud to call you my best friends. I love you both very much and thank you for having me here.
To all who were in charge of organizing this awesome night, great job on making this wedding shine. I challenge everyone to a dance-off later tonight.
Hopefully these tips will have you on your way to writing a heartfelt speech. If you still need a little more inspiration, donât forget to check out our wedding quotes . These are great to incorporate into your speech, write in a card or simply share as advice to the newlyweds.
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- Groom Was Your Best Man
- Second Time As Best Man
- Best Man Follows Groom
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- Conservative Icebreaker
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- Seasonal Icebreaker
Introducing Yourself
- Humorous Introduction
- Edgy Introduction
- Sincere Introduction
- Alternative introduction
Best Man's Relation To Groom
- Groom's Brother
- Childhood Friend
- School Friend
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- Friends In Teens
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- Female Best Man
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Humorous Wedding Observations
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- Preparing The Speech
- Anxious Moments
- Church Service
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- Wedding Location
- Bridesmaids
- The Parents
- Wedding Gifts
- Traditional Outfits
- Scottish Dress
- Venues (Golf Club, Castle, etc.)
Wedding day compliments
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Amusing Friendship Reminisces
- Being Great Mates
- How You Met
- First Impressions
- How Long You've Known Groom
- Reaction To Groom Marrying
- Cueing The Stories
- Example Anecdotes
Entertaining Version of Bride & Groom's Romance
- How They Met
- What Gave Their Romance Away
- Transformation Of Groom
- Courtship Incidents
- Meeting The In-laws
- Marriage Proposal
- Bride First Impressions
- Response To Their Nuptials
Humorous Take on Bride & Groom's Relationship
- Poor Bride, Lucky Groom
- Mocking Their Choice
- The Challenge Ahead
- Fictitious Stories
- Relationship Workings
- Why They Are Good Together
- How Groom Perceives Bride
- Their Marital Hopes
Groom Character Assassination
- Cueing Character Assassination
- Introducing Your Subject
- Edgy Put-downs
- Veiled Insults
- Light-hearted Ribbing
- Full-on Abuse
Roasting the Groom
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- Setting Up The Tribute
- Meaningful Words
- What A Great Friend Groom Is
- How Groom Inspires You
- Honoured To Be Groom's Friend
- Privileged To Be Best Man
- Delighted For Groom
- Groom Is Great Husband Material
- Pledging Your Support To Groom
Bride Compliments
- Admiration For The Bride
- Recognising Bride's Effort
- Bride's Qualities
- Bride's Bettered The Groom
- Groom's Joy
- Groom's Good Fortune
- Like To Know Bride Better
- Relating Other's Compliments
Newlywed Compliments
- They Are A Great Match
- The Model Couple
- Always Settle Their Differences
- Long Romance
- Whirlwind Romance
- Uni/school Sweethearts
- Office Romance
- Internet Romance
- Older Newlyweds
- Know Bride And Groom Equally
Humorous Closing Lines
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- Amusing Presents
- Witty Telegrams
- Honeymoon Planned
- Disco To Follow
- Comical Review Of The Day
- Humour For A Married Best Man
- Humour For A Single Best Man
- Humour For A Divorced Best Man
Sentimental Closing Lines
- Your Belief In Their Matrimony
- Your Continued Place In Their Lives
- Your Own Hopes For Their Marriage
- Your Congratulations & Well Wishes
- Insights On Love And Marriage
- Wise Words For The Newlyweds
- Sum Up The Day
- Words For A Married Best Man
- For The Best Man Honour
- For Inclusion In The Wedding
- To All Contributors
- To Guests For Attending
- To Guests For Their Gifts
- Humorous Toast
- Traditional Toast
- Wedding Wish
- Irish Blessing
Speech Hooks
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- Horoscope Hook
Addressing Delicate Issues
- A Deceased Relative/friend
- Previously Married
- Pregnant Bride
- Wedding Postponed/breakup
- Groom Has Suffered Ill Health
- You're A Long-distance Friend
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- Awful openers
- Groom's Romantic History
Contingency Lines
- No Or Faulty Microphone
- Lost Speech
- Unexpected Noise
- Bad Weather
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âStrong Island,â the 2017 Oscar-nominated documentary directed by Yance Ford, was a deep investigation into the death of Fordâs brother and a juryâs subsequent refusal to indict the man who shot him. Thereâs a flavor of the same grief and fury that drove that film in Fordâs newest work, âPowerâ (now in theaters), which methodically builds a case against modern American policing.
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Stephen Maingâs â Crime + Punishment â (2018, on Hulu ) followed the whistle-blower police officers known as the âN.Y.P.D. 12.â
Peter Nicksâs â The Force â (2017, on Hulu ) captured a seemingly unending chain of crises within the Oakland police department.
Ava DuVernayâs â 13TH â (2016, on Netflix ) explored the roots of the prison-industrial complex.
Theo Anthonyâs â All Light, Everywhere â (2021, on Hulu ) probed the pervasive role of surveillance, like police body cameras, in keeping order.
And Sierra Pettengillâs â Riotsville, U.S.A .â (2022, on Hulu ) took footage from fake towns built to train police to respond to civil unrest in the 1960s and turned it into a startling history of the militarization of law enforcement.
âPowerâ is most like â13THâ in its structure and approach, relying largely on historical context, archival footage of network news and political speeches, and a bevy of scholars and experts to explain an array of issues. How did policing and politics get intertwined? Why did American police become more like the military? What does the term âlaw and orderâ mean on the ground? How and why are armed officers involved with everything from patrols to strikebreaking?
But where â13THâ often took a poetic approach, âPowerâ mixes polemics and the personal. The aim, as the title suggests, is to underline how much of our contemporary conversations about policing are really about power: who is in a position of power, when can that power be used, and when is it given to others. Ford operates as narrator, his voice guiding us through the maze.
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Good evening Ladies and Gentlemen - For those of you who don`t know me, I`m Andrew, Paul's younger brother. It`s great to be stood up here today because, after all these years, PAUL has finally admitted that I am the best man. I would firstly like to thank both Paul & Gerri for giving me time to prepare this speech, well two weeks anyway.
3. Congratulate the Couple. Congratulating the couple and raising a toast to the newlyweds is an important part of any best man's speech, but even more so when you're giving a best man speech as a brother. If you and your siblings are close, it's likely you'll have known your brother's partner almost as long as they have.
With a little bit of preparation and a lot of heart, you'll be able to give the best Best Man speech possible. Follow the 10 tips below, and I guarantee you'll deliver a Best Man speech that will make your brother feel special, make his spouse feel welcome, and make the wedding guests feel emotional and engaged. đ 5 Best Man speech examples
Pro tip: Do not offer thanks to guests or vendors. That is the job of the host of the wedding whether that is the bride and groom or their parents. 3. Do use a common theme. Finding a theme for your speech is one of the best ways to make it successful.
Here is an example of an easy-to-follow brother of the groom speech outline. Introduce yourself and share your relationship with the groom. Thank other speakers, guests, and vendors. Congratulate the newlyweds. Say some favorable words about your brother's new spouse. Add in a joke or funny story about the groom.
A best man's speech traditionally takes place at the wedding reception after the maid of honor gives her speech. The best man's speech should be positive, respectful, and congratulatory. It can last 3 to 5 minutes and should focus on a central theme or story about the groom. Remember, a best man speech is not the time to "wing it."
A best man speech should be short and sweet, but not too short, and not too long. A happy medium is about 5-6 minutes in length. You don't want it to be shorter than 3 minutes as it may seem too brief. The point is to keep the audience engaged, and deliver a few anecdotes, thank the bride and groom, and raise a toast.
6. Propose a toast. Finally, close out your best man speech with a heartfelt toast. Ask everyone to raise a glass and provide well wishes to the newly married couple. Steal this wedding toast: "Everyone, please join me in raising a glass to such a wonderful couple. I wish you a lifetime of peace, love and happiness.
Writing a best man speech as the younger brother is an opportunity to show your admiration for your older brother on his special day. If you are the younger brother delivering a best man speech, you have the chance both to pay huge respect to your brother and indulge in a little payback time. For a good number of years, your brother was most ...
Opening Lines for a Brother's Best Man Speech. Paying tribute to your brother with a best man speech is a memory you will both have for many years to come, so making it the best speech possible is essential. While brothers can definitely get away with poking fun at their sibling, just make sure your speech isn't just a roast; add a lot of toast-worthy elements too.
Speech 1 (Sentimental) Hi everyone, my name is Greg, the best man, best brother and best keeper of secrets for our groom and my younger brother Mason. He may regret giving me the microphone after an introduction like that, but Mason, I promise not to share all of your embarrassing secrets tonight. Your lovely bride Jocelyn told me I only had ...
13) End Your Speech On a Bright Note. A bright note can be a funny or sentimental story. It could also be a quote, a toast, or a positive statement about your brother (the groom). A funny story will help to lighten the mood and leave everyone laughing. Something heartfelt will leave everyone feeling warm and fuzzy.
Let that sink in. The best man speech is usually between meals at a reception. That means you have to make your mark - and get in what you have to say in a short time. Meaning that short best man speeches are perfectly fine, you don't have to overthink it. It can be 1 minute, it can be 5 minutes.
Best Man Speech from a Younger Brother #3. (A younger brother describes the life lessons the Groom has taught him. Or failed to.) You can make harmless jokes at the Groom's expense, provided you ultimately acknowledge what a wonderful brother he makes. Oh, and he'll make a fine husband too - don't forget that part.
30 Brilliant Best Man Speech Opening Lines. Whether you're after a formal best man speech introduction, some funny lines to warm up the room or a few best man speech openers to preface some sentimental stories, we've got something to suit you. Choose between sweet, sentimental, sarcastic, sassy and more! 1. Last Minute Best Man Opener
Here's your crib sheet: 1. Open by thanking those who made the day possible-end the intro with saying "Thank you to all those who have made it here today.". 2. Transition to your speech: "I am especially glad to be here on this occasion to celebrate this wonderful day with my friend/brother.". 3.
Tip #1: Take a Walk Down Memory Lane. The best way to start a best man speech for your brother ' s wedding is to remember memories from your childhood. Unlike other close friends, your brother is the one person who you've known longer than any other friend. Think back to your earliest memories together.
Explore 6 foolproof best man speech ideas, examples, and tips: 1. Take inspiration from those who have gone before you. Copy or get inspired by these real-world examples of best man speeches you can use to make people laugh, cry, or both. Long best man speech example: Here's a best man speech example from an older brother to his younger ...
Template 1. Good morning/afternoon. I'm [your name], [groom's name]'s big brother. It's such an honor to be his best man. We've had our ups and down, but he's the guy who's always had my back. When we were kids [insert a story about something heroic your brother did].
Brother of the Groom Etiquette. Your speech is basically a glorified best man speech with extra intel. And as such, there isn't actually a lot of etiquette for you to consider. Winner. The groom & father-of-the-bride (or equivalent speaker) will deal with welcoming the guests and thanking individual members of the wedding party. Your speech ...
How to Write the Perfect Best Man Speech. 1 Good afternoon ladies and gentlemen. It's lovely to see some familiar faces. On behalf of the gorgeous bridesmaids and not so gorgeous groomsmen, we'd like to thank you all for coming. 2 It's amazing to see how far people will travel for free cocktails.
We host the largest collection of Best Man speech material. The 5000+ example lines and jokes can be viewed here. ... Humorous Introduction; Edgy Introduction; ... Best Man's Relation To Groom. Groom's Brother; Old Friend; Childhood Friend; School Friend; University/College Friend; Work Friend; Recent Friend; House Mate; Friends In Teens ...
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